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I never get this kid. I really like this boy and I have liked him for over a year now. We have went out before and things happen on and off. Well I have been talking to him recently and he told me he loved me and all, and I didn't know if he was just saying that to get some lol but then he was like I am being serious I really like you a lot still. He said he wants to have sex with me, but the thing is we aren't going out and I brought that up and he's like fine we will go out and then do it. I told him if we did that I was afraid he would 'hump me and dump me' you know. But I told him that I guess I would so he wouldn't keep asking and I was afraid he would get mad. He was happy and all. Then he told me he had to go and he would call me back in 45 minutes and he was like I love you Ryah, just like he would usually do. He never called me back and usually he would call me the next day, but he didn't and he hasn't called me yet today either. I don't know what is up, I saw him today in school and I smiled and said hey and he smiled back (we don't have enough time to stop and talk). He never really acts like he so called 'loves me' in school but we do act like friends, but on the phone it's different. I don't know why he hasn't called and I don't know why he only acts like that on the phone! Anyone have any ideas?
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in my opinion, if he doesnt act like he likes you all the time, hes not worth it. you dont want to have to ::guess:: when he wants to be around you or not. i understand it would be really difficult letting him go because you have liked him for so long. believe me i understand first hand. but you will be hurting more if u think he cares for u but only acts like it when no one else is around. so as hard as it may be, i think you need to try to end things and move on. expecially if your worried he will hump you and dump you cause by the way you explained the story, it seems like hes the kind of guy who would do that
xO-sara
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He's not worth your time.. and I think your right about the humping and dumping part.. if you say.. well we aren't even going out so.. no I don't want to have sex with you.. then he says.. Well fine! We will go out.. Then do it! That's BuLL sHiT!~ I'm sorry hun.. but he doesn't want nothin' but.. well.. u know.. don't hurt yourself.. forget this loser!
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DON'T DO IT THATS ALL I GOTTA SAY!!!!!
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You may be right. He might want you just to get some, but i don't think a guy who says hez gonna call and doesn't, well shouldn't be worth your time!Just remember there's more fish in the sea, some r even sharks!lolz Latas!!
~*Chelsea*~
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Yeah... I definitely agree with the other columnists on this one.. This situation doesnt seem right at all.. Something's way off with this guy. Im going to be nothing but honest: I really think that he just wants to get some. Obviously he does have feelings for you because if he didn't have even alittle bit of ffeelings, he wouldnt be trying to get with you. You have to look for the clues. "Actions speak louder than words."- Thats the truest statement Ive ever heard. Think about it and tell this guy you have alot more respect for yourself than to have sex with him..
love kristin
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omg! ur like my twin.. i'm going through the exact same thing.. lol sorry. you should ask him why hes so nice on the phone, but not at school. ask him if he's in it to get some. he'll pry say no.. but just pay attention to the way he acts.. if he's always trying to go down on you, then you know that he's trying to get some. but if he respects your feelings, and you actually have a good time together, then keep the guy. ask him if he really loves you, because if he did.. he'd treat you w/ respect.. ALL THE TIME! hope i've helped!
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