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confused...
I met this guy back in September over the computer.He is from the same state as me and he lives pretty close too.I'm really in love with him,and he loves me too.He is the sweetest guy I've ever met.He treats me so right.Yet I get upset with him alot and we fight.He calls me every day and we talk online.The only thing I hate is that he has a girlfriend from another state who lives like 4 1/2 hours away and they never see each other.I'm always getting mad at him over that.He told me he wants to marry me in 2009.I don't know what I'm suppose to do.Should I get over the fact he has a girlfriend,and that I probably won't have a chance with him? Please help me,I'm not sure about what I should do.
I'd appreciate the help...Thank you!
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Hey, this guy is totally unfair. I'm sure he was feelings for you, but you shouldn't wait around for him...Honestly, if he really cares about you and is planning to marry you, than he should be with YOU!!! Not the other girl.
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think about it.. if he has a girlfriend n is flirtin BIG TIME with another girl.. he cud do it to u too!*hope i helped* love alwaiz, aLi p.s. jus keep that in mind
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if you really like him then try to keep him, but then again you cant really know because you met him over the internet. but if youre not sure then take some time without talking to him and see how it feels...if you think about him constantly then try to make it work...but otherwise i would just leave it alone.
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First off.. if you have never met this dude.. FORGET HIM! Well no.. I can't say that.. because true love can happen over the internet.. just like in.. *A Cinderella Story* haha! with Hilary Duff.. haha.. Great cute movie.. but yeah.. I'm sure you will have a chance with him.. but if you've never seen the dude before.. how do you know if he's cute or not? haha just wondering.. anyways.. why i said that you will prolly have a chance is because.. your dude will realize well hay! my girlfriend lives almost 5 hours away.. and i'm never gunna see her.. and of course guys are horny.. and he'll think well i have this wonderful girl that actually lives in the same state as me.. and like CLOSE to me.. soo ill break it off with this girl that lives 5 hours away and start a relationship with this AWESOME chick that lives so close to me.. lol GOOD LUCK!!! Trust me.. this dude will realize UR THE ONE..
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This may not be what you want to hear, but I think it's the truth. This guy must be a little confused or he may be decieving both you and his "girlfriend." It is possible to love two people, but you can for sure not be IN LOVE with more than one person at a time. It sounds like this guy is trying to get the best out of both worlds. That's not fair to you or to the other girl. I think what you need to do is really think about all this and have a talk with the guy. Tell him that he's got to make a decion. He can't have his cake and eat it too. He needs to pick just one girl and be committed and faithful to just one. He may seem great, but remember people over the interent can be decieving and untrustworthy. I know you said he's great and all, but just be careful. Give him about a week or so (after you give him his ultimaitum and tell him how you feel about him and y'alls relationship) and see if he has been faithful to whatever decision he's now making. If he choose the other girl, well I know it will hurt you, but if you really love him then you will be willing to accept that and let him go on his way to be happy, because when you truly love a person, their happiness comes before yours. If he chooses you, then great! Work from there. Don'y EVER settle for anything less than you deserve! :)
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Having a relationship over the computer is verry hard to do. You should definatly talk to him about the girlfriend he already has. I dno if you met him already or what..but if you didn't..you should before you start talking about marrige!
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i know exactly how it feels luving someone when are with some else cause the guy im falling with i met him online he lives like 25minz ago from me but you just gotta sit down and think he really worth everything your going through?? i know it may seems hard to think about it he is really worth it...coz right now dats what im doing with my guy
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If this was me, i wouldn't like him having a girlfriend, if he says he loves you. If he's going to say that, you should be his number one. There shouldn't be anyone else. Ask him if your wasting your time. If he says he loves you, then he's gotta take it seriously. I hope I've helped.
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