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ok well me and my boyfriend just broke up, we went out for about 5 months.
but anyway, i am still not over him.
and what helps me the most to get over a guys is to listen to music and get my emotions out with the words of the song.

so i was wondering if anyone has any good sad\love songs for me to listen to.
i am into about any kind of music,
so plz give me some ideas!!!!

thanks!

Hun I got a WHOLE bunch


I don't know - Joann Accom
Stay - Sugarland
TShirt-Shontelle
Harder than you know-Escape the Fate
Like we never loved at all - faith hill
white horse- taylor swift
forever and always- taylor swift
thinking of you -katy perry
miserable at best-mayday parade
someday-nina
make up smeared eyes-automatic loveletter
coldest night-a day away
last time-secondhand serenade
without you-hinder
better now-rascall flats
inivislby shaken-rodney atkins
last call-leann womack
i don't believe you-pink
this time-mest
the arms of the one who loves you-xscape
strong-jordyn taylor
walking by- holiday parade
revenge is sweeter than you ever were-the veronicas
don't forget-demi lovoto
bottom of the ocean-miley cyrus
always-salavia
best days of your life-kellie pickler
stupid boy-keith urban
tonight-fm static
why can't i-liz phair
turn around-samantha jade
dreaming with a broken heart-john mayer
happily never after- PCD
white flag-dido
goin crazy-natalie
i'll never get over you getting over me-expose
i just don't think i'll ever get over you-rocket summer
over it-katharine mcphee
i'm getting of you-click five
do it all again-donnie j





TELLL ME YOUR FAVORITES PLEASE!

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how did quinn and logan's relationship started? how did they like each other and if u know where i can watch it in youtube please do give me the URL.

im so left behind!


are dey dating in REAL LIFE also??


any more details?


oh and one more is ZOEY 101 over!?

http://youtube.com/watch?v=Er2SlF_GhHQ&feature=related

Yes, it's over. Chasing Zoey was the last episode.

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ok me and my girlfriend have been wanting to go to third base but we are kinda scared to!!! what shoulf we do

Alright, its plain out simple.

If you are scared, it means you're not ready. & If you're not ready, and don't know what to do, then don't do it, because chances are, you're going to regret it !

= )

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I am going over this guys house that I like. We are going to watch movies and stuff like that. What do I do. Should i kiss him? What do I wear how do i do my hair and make up. I want to catch his eye.

Please help!

It looks like he might like you too. Movies are great for kissing. If you look into his eyes, just go ahead and kiss him. You'll be able to tell if he likes you back after you kiss him - even if it just on the cheek, or just a peck on the lips.

As for what to wear, wear something cute, and flirty. Maybe a mini skirt, and a tank top? Since its summer. But don't do anything too much, because then he'll know you're trying to impress him. Which then it might not. Be yourself.
Wear your hair down, maybe in tight curls, or however he likes it :]

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ok welllll....do guys findd it weird when girls play video games? or is it cool? and do guys like it when girls are girly but still "boyey"?

P.S. boyey is not a real word..i just made it up...fyi

I love video games, They might find it weird, but most won't, and in fact, they'll probably like it.

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i just got a new bf, i'm his first gf, and i've had another bf before...he has braces and i dont. most likely i will have to make the first move..but i dont want to start making out and something happen w/ his braces...is it possible for my tounge or lips to get caught on his braces? if yes how can i avoid it? and what should i do if it does happen?
thanks

Nah. I have braces and usually when you make your teeth don't even touch. If they would, it wouldn't hurt. Don't worry about it. :]

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me and my boy friend aren't very close and we never really talk and when we do it's during class and it's about stupid stuff. i really want him to kiss me before school ends for the summer, because the only thing we have done is hugged. i try to get him to no that i want to kiss him by writing 'i love josh' on my hands and stuff. also my friends write zaps (a zap is like a dare that you write on your hand and if you look at it before a certian time you have to do it) on my hands really big that say 'kiss walker!' and i don't no what else to do! he is really shy so i don't think he will do it and i could never do it cause i am to chicken. please help! thanks!

He is probably just nervous. & prude. If he doesn't want to, thats his problem. Not yours. getting people to try him to do it, doesn't help either. Then its pressured, and he might not be ready.
When he is ready, he will. Or, you could always make the first move. he might not think you're ready. But if he is shy, then thats just him. Don't worry about it.
You might want to try and talk to him more, to bring your relationship closer together.

Hope I helped. :]

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How does one make out?
I know you use tongue and stuff, but I want to know actually how to. I wouldn't feel comfortable asking any of my friends or my mom. Any techniques would be good to.

Please don't give me any websites, just advice. Thanks : ]

http://www.wikihow.com/French-Kiss


Good Luck :)
That site taught me how!!

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if you have braces and kiss someone else with braces, is there a possibility you can get stuck together?

My friends did, but I made out with a person with braces, and we were fine. I guess its fact, but not always.

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How can you ask a guy if he likes you still without sounding desperate?...I know he used to like me but now he doesn't say it...he's not his old self..and I just want to know..how can I?

By asking him, "Do you still like me?" Isn't sounded desperate what so ever. I ask guys that all the time. If you don't want to, just ask him "So, Who do you like these days?"
He might not tell you though =D

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hey! yeah tomorrow i have a class with this guy and i want to look cute/hot at the same time.
i know im wearing the Lacoste Dress Below. when u actualyl wear it, it looks cute :] mines navy though.
http://i19.tinypic.com/3zghutw.jpg


I dont know else though.
what kind of hair? and makeup that matches this dress?
and what kind of jewerly?

i wanna stand out :D

Thanks in Advance

Wear your hair down, long, and curly maybe? If you prefer though, straight.
Add a nice black headband or something. Wear dark, blue eyeshadow, but not too much.
The dress is great. You'll look cute :]

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my boyfriend wears too much cologne but i don't know how to tell him! i do NOT want to come straight out and tell him "you wear too much" he just needs to know somehow. how can i let him know that?

I think when you hug him be like "woah, thats strong". But laugh about it. Tell him you like it though. I don't really know, theres not really a, nice way of saying it..?

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Okay sorry this is so long....

ight....my name is sarah,im white and im 15...i date this boy named brandon,hes black and hes 17 and i just turned 15 in march and hes about to turn 18 in may...well we been dateing since march 24th-2007 and when we were on the phone he said babe are you ready to fuck me and i told him no because im still a virgin and we only been goin out for 2 weeks.He said i better set a date or its over.So i told him ill be ready friday.Well we just started talking and he was like babe i got somethin to tell you but i wanna say it to your face but I LOVE YOU!!so i said i love you too.WEll he always tells me well be together forever no matter what.Well all my friends tell me were rushing but i never felt this way about a guy befor in my life.I just dont no what to do because my plan was to brake up with him thursday because im not ready to fuck him yet.Hes everything i ever wanted in a guy.The only thing is he wont wait until im ready.and everytime he says i love you and he blows kisses in the phone and always calls me baby...well when ever i hear his say that stuff to me its like i cry all over again and i just dont no what to do with him...
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

He doesn't love you. Love takes a lot longer to form then 2 weeks. I know that its hard to hear, but its the damn truth.

He's using you, he's rushing you, he's pressuring you, and he is not being a nice man. If he did love you, he would wait till your ready. He just wants sex, which you don't want, which is perfectly okay.\

Make the right descion, break up with him. When you get older, you'll realise you made one of the smartest moves in your life. Why lose your virginity to a guy you don't know, don't love, don't want?
Its not worth it.


Edit; Good choice hun, inbox me and tell me how it goes.

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okay, if me and my boyfriend started going out on march 17, 2007, then when is our 1 month anniversery? is it april 17th, or is it before? can you count the days, because everytime i try i get a different number.

Yep, one month will be April 17th. Doesn't matter the days in a month, a month is a month, and every month on the 17th, that will be your anniversary :]

Happy early anniversary!

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im 13 and i havent kissed anyone yet.now that im going out with my b/f im a bit worried encase i do it wrong.if my b/f knew i was worrying about kissing him he would just say theres nothing to worry about.i really dont want to do it wrong.if you can give me any advice please give it. xxaoifexxx

I know this isn't what you wanted, but please don't be worried. You won't mess up, don't stress it, because it comes very natural. If you stress about it, it won't. Just let it happen :]

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So I met this guy on an interactive internet game in September.

Well, I've been talking to him ever since, and we talk a lot.
Our friendship just recently blossomed into something beautiful.
I've never really felt this way about anyone before.
I love him and he loves me.
And fyi, I know he's safe. I've spoken to him on the phone, and I have his address.

But my real question is,
Is this worth it?
All this effort.
He lives in North Carolina
And I live in Texas.
He's 17 and I'm 14.

When we were first talking, I told him I was 16, and I just recently told him I was 14, and nothing really changed between us.

My real concern is that I will never meet him.
We live so far apart.
And I know that I love him.
Nothing can deny that.
But it hurts me, that he's so far away.

So do you think that I should keep this going?
I mean, I turn down guys for him, because he is the keeper of my heart.

It's just so hard to keep up with.
Sorry, I just kind of rambled.
Any type of opinions would be greatly appreciated.

I agree with the person below me. Sometimes, age difference doesn't matter, however, because you live far apart, and he is 3 years older, hes going to probably go off to college.
I hate you break your heart, but honestly, I doubt you'll ever be more then friends. I think its great to have online friends, as I have many. But because hes so much older and so far away, I doubt anythings going to happen.
You can have as many feelings for him as you want -- You can think about him all the time, but he shouldn't stop you from seeing other people. Once you turn older, maybe you will meet.
I hope I helped.

:)

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15/F (I didn't know what to name the subject thing)

There's this guy in my class that I like, HOWEVER there's this girl in one of my other classes that likes him too (it's obvious she does by her actions)
I don't really know what to put here loool.

Do I try to pursue him or let the girl have him because it seems kind of mean.

Definitly just be yourself. Let her like him, but continue to like him. :)

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14/f


ok so theres this boy and i really like him and people keep telling me that he likes me to but i'm mad shy when it comes to stuff like relationships and asking boys out. but me and him talk and hang out all the time but no in a bf gf type of way just as in a friend type of way. my friends keep pressuring me to ask him out but I'm really afrade he'll say no even thought every one keeps sayin he wants to ask me out so how do over come my shyness and ask him out????

plz help me=]]

I am shy too.
There was this one boy, who really liked me, and I liked him even more. I am afraid of rejection, so I was too scared of his reaction. So I wrote a note.

I said.
Hey, Whats up? Not much here, just bored.
I was wondering, would you go out with me?
Write back.
Sincerely, Jackie.


He said yes.


Try writing a note, or have a friend do it, while you AREN'T AROUND!


Try these tips for overcoming shyness though.

http://www.self-confidence.co.uk/shyness/tips.html


Good luck!!

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if you could come up with more that would be great :]

Give me awhile to think :)
Do you have a column I could inbox you later, and tell you them?
Cause I have to think to come up with more :)

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me and my boyfriend play this game on the phone where we ask each other questions like "have you ever been in love?" and stuff like that. i need a list of questions i can ask him. thanks :]

I don't know how personal you want to get and stuff but here are some questions you could ask.

What do you like about me?
Who did you like before me?
Do you masturbate?
Are you a virgin?
If we were alone in my room, what would you do to me?
Do you ever dream about me?
Am I pretty?
If you got 3 wishes, what would they be?
Would you rather have me or a million dollars?
Do you love me?
Tell me an embarrassing story.
Have you ever rented an x rated movie?
Have you ever looked at porn?
Do you believe I am your soul mate?
What first attracted you to me?
Do you plan on getting married to me?
Would you rather hook up with me with the lights on or off?
What is my best physical feature?
Do you like anyone else besides me?
Whats your favorite food?
Whats your favorite type of kiss?
What kind of movies do you like? [ Horror, Comedy, etc.]
How big is your penis?
Do you like girls shaved or non shaved?




If you want -- I can come up with a lot more. Just ask :)

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