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affection
me and my boy friend aren't very close and we never really talk and when we do it's during class and it's about stupid stuff. i really want him to kiss me before school ends for the summer, because the only thing we have done is hugged. i try to get him to no that i want to kiss him by writing 'i love josh' on my hands and stuff. also my friends write zaps (a zap is like a dare that you write on your hand and if you look at it before a certian time you have to do it) on my hands really big that say 'kiss walker!' and i don't no what else to do! he is really shy so i don't think he will do it and i could never do it cause i am to chicken. please help! thanks!
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My man is just like that, even though we dont go out yet i want some affection. And yea i bet you hate it dont you. You probably even put your face close to kiss so that he could kiss you. When you talk to him, tell him "you make me angry"
-"why?"
-"because...were boyfriend and girlfriend..and your not affectionate to me..."
-"what?"
-"if you dont mind...i'd like for you to kiss me sometime...or hold my hand"
lol thats what i did, and they actually kind of listen. The reason why they are shy, its because they're not used to it, and feel they need to ask or get permission. That they cant fully give themselves to you because is been a long time or first time they ever had a relationship. Try taking the first step, or gently grabbing his hand...dont hold back. Then he will begin to feel more confident, and kiss you okay. And if you are shy to play those games of "tag" then try not to think to much and do it, let your body control you to him, just go for it, okay hun, hope this helped
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Just kiss him. He's probably nervous & isn't sure how to go about it. It's okay for you to make the move, it takes a lot of pressure off of him.
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He is probably just nervous. & prude. If he doesn't want to, thats his problem. Not yours. getting people to try him to do it, doesn't help either. Then its pressured, and he might not be ready.
When he is ready, he will. Or, you could always make the first move. he might not think you're ready. But if he is shy, then thats just him. Don't worry about it.
You might want to try and talk to him more, to bring your relationship closer together.
Hope I helped. :]
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people right that you love josh??(do you like him now 2?) thats very intresting anna... my advice for you has and will always be TALK WITH HIM!!! you guys never talk, so why on earth would he want to kiss you if yall never even say hi... TALK TALK TALK!! i think that your bestest move would to be to talk to him and move on from there, because your relationship with him is kinda on the line because you NEVER EVER TALK WITH HIM!! try it..
love ya much~
♥ April~
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