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Hey im a girl who expects everyone to give to me. i love giving advice..and also i like to recieve it in the right situations. i love to help the people who are in need. in fact wen i am older i plan on being a teenage pshycologist. i am also a very shy girl wen i dont know you, but when i get to know you, i open up and will speak greatly to you. i have gone through sum issues jus like ne body else. i have survived them issues and still standing strong and working hard to never have them again. I would except any subject or ne question, i love to help but hopin to actually help you. there may be times where i dont kno wat to say but later on i will. i will try to answer those questions to my fullest. if you would like any advice please dont hesitate to ask them.

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i'm giong out with this guy and he is always alot diffrent when he is around his friends. he always ignores me and doesnt hang out with me, what do i do...or say to him?

Confront your man and ask him why he ignores you and treatrs you different when he is around frineds. cuz seriously thats not right. If there is a specific reason like he dont want to show he into you while around frineds, you need to get rid of tht jerk. but if its other reasons jus talk and try to figure out whats going on. i hope i helped a lil and goood luck.

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Is facial hair on a 15/m attractive or is it showing that your a some kind of beast

facial hair on a male is attractive if it is trimmed and neat. if it is trimmed and neat no one should think you are a beast. it should look goood. good luck

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I just broke up with my girlfriend because she say i lie to much.What do i do to get her back?

Well it wasnt a smart idea to break up with her over that. yea she says you lie but u could have talked to her about it unstead of breaking up with her.

but ne ways if she wants you back, show her you changed your ways, and not lie. you shouldnt be lieing to your gurl or in general, if you are. tell her how you feeel and tell her you want her back and your sry bout everything and you will change. you have to change if you want to get her back cuz she needs to know it. if you truely cared for her and want her back you would tell that you want her back and wont lie and change. hopefully she will take you back but it will take time to trust again.

hope i helped you...good luck on all..

*steph*

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How do you know if you're falling in love?
I know its supposed to be something you "just know" but honestly, .. how would I "just know?" Is it some sort of feeling?

well it is just "something you know" there should be a feeling in your stomach like butterflies every time your around the person and know tht they make you happiest in the world. yes its basically a feeling of being loved then you start to love back. you wouldnt know what to do without the person, everytime you hear the name tht sort of stuff..like i said butterflies and you just know when your falling in love.

hope i helped.

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17 female How do I make sure I get a guy to ask me to the prom without asking them?

Like dont flaunt yourself and being all pushy over the guy or towards them just act normal and yourself. But dropping slight hints wouldnt be too bad as long as they aint drastic or to forward. but if you do the flauntin or pushy and stuff, truth is that could turn the guys off and not ask you. Just like i said put yourself out there like who you really are. not who you want to be just yourself.

Hope i helped and good luck.. :]

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ok so there's this guy i like and he told my friend for me to c ome talk to him after school... but when i wa lked out of the classroom he was right behind me but then he turned right and i turned left and i never got to talk to him... so should i try to talk to him tommorow or not?

yea you should talk to him tom. he wants to like you said it just happened at the wrong time. Try again.

good luck

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how do you break up with someone you`ve been dating for 9 months and what are some easy tips for getting over someone?
thanks.

since you didnt say why you want to break up with the person, you should sit down and explain that you dont want to go out wit that person. and just be like you need time to your self and space right now. like say its a break. and hey it might be because you might want the person back after breaking up wit em.

I guess to get over sumone is to just hang out wit a bunch of frineds being yourself and that should just get your mind off of the person becuase your having fun.

good luck..

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I was dating a guy who joined the army, and he was scheduled to leave for basic training at the end of May or beginning of June. At the beginning of May, he started to ignore me. Wouldn't answer phone calls or anything. I had no idea what was going on, because I had seen him the night before he started to ignore me and everything was fine. This continued for about two weeks, until he finally answered one of my messages by breaking up with me. He was worried that it wouldn't work because he would be leaving for a long time after this year. He ignored me for another two weeks after that, and finally a few days before he left he let me know when he was leaving. I asked him if he would tell me when he was back, and he promised that he would.

I know from mutual friends that he is back, but he hasn't tried to contact me in any way. I don't know why, and I don't know if I should try to talk to him. I miss him so much it's almost unbearable, as a boyfriend, but even just as a friend and someone to talk to.

What should I do? I want him back in my life...I don't think that I will hear from him if I don't try to contact him first, and I really want to, but then I feel like I should respect his space because it's clear he doesn't want to talk to me, right? I am SO lost.

I think you should contact him one last time to see where it will go. Ask him why he has ignored you. why he didnt tell you he was back after he promised he would. Tell him that you miss him. Just spill your heart out to him telling him how you feel exactly. And then after the conversation you should ask him if he still wants to be frineds or if he needs space for awhile. then you want to respect that. But if he says he still wants to be friends tell him to try and contribute to that friendship as well as you, by talkin to you first making that first move to talk.

Just spill everything out tell him how you feel and if he doesnt work out. its prob all for the best..

i hope everything works hope i helped and goood luck to youu :)

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well i really like these 2 guys but the one guy broke up with me and his life is really messed up but hes willing to take me back and the other guy is soo nice and sweet but i like the other guy more. im a 13 year old female.

you should take the guy that you have the most feelings for and the one that will make you happy and treat you right. follow what your heart tells you to do..you will never forget the people you love or like soo much. and you may never get a chance again then you will regret it.

good luck. hope i helped

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well i was with this guy who is 18 (brenny) an im a 15 year old girl it was a prefect relationship but it wasnt in the slightest serious. He has a brother (mickey) who is absaloutly gorgeous and everyone loves him espicially my best friend! but one day i was with mickey and we were flirting and one thing lead to another an we ended up kissing! my friend seen us and she went mad but i managed to make it up til her! and then brenny found out an he was really upset... then my friend (becka) kissed brenny and it totally broke my heart i was in pieces but there was nothing i could of done! 2 months on... me and brenny are friends but him an becka always flirt when im there there is nothing between them but it really gets to me... im still in love with him what should i do?

you should tell brenny that you still love him and tell your frined becka you love him still. and ask them not to flirt or do anything in front of you and not tell you. They should respect that knowin you still have feelings. or maybe you should just move on letting that go.

i have an ex boyfirned from last year i still have feelings for deeeply. but i know there will never be a chance again. but if you think its right tell him and maybe he still feels the same..

i hope i helped and good luck..:]

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Ok so first thing's first. I have this friend "Matt". I've known of him for ages and always thought he was a complete dick. But now I hang out with him because my best friend does and I've gotten to know him. I can really see know what an amazing person he is and everything I ever heard about him was bullshit. But anyway, I've never had a crush on any of my friends but I feel drawn to him. This sounds so soppy but I think he's the one. I know him better than some of my other friends and I want to be with him all the time. He makes me laugh and we get along like a house on fire.
But here's the catch, I have fallen head over heels in love with him and I feel sad when I'm not around him. Even when I'm angry with him when we've had a silly argument I still love him at the same time... And another thing, I'm a 14 male to female transsexual who hasn't begun treatment yet so to him I'm a "guy".. now you see my problem.. Please don't see this and not reply, I need help! I want to be with him, but as a girl and then when that happens he'll already know me as a guy... I love him and it's killing me inside.. He's the one...
Please help me,
Thank you so much

well does this guy know you love him. if he doesnt tell him how you feel. Maybe when you begin treatment and you become a gurl he wont know its you, unless you told him all of this. i really dont know what to say to make this better, but stick with this one. try everything you can to make him love you back. even if it has to wait til your a gurl. and if he really would or will love you. he will except tht fact. i hope your treatment begins soon, so he can fall for you ya kno. i dont think i was much of a help. but really hope everything works...tell him how you feel, if he dont kno bout all this..jus wait til it happens and then go for him...

good luck..best wishes..

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I don't feel the same way about my boyfriend anymore. In fact, I feel that its time that we ended our relationship. There seems to be a catch, however. We haven't seen each other much this summer, but we do talk on the phone almost every night. I don't know if its appropriate to end the relationship now, or wait a couple of weeks until school starts and we see each other every day again. What should I do? Wait it out, or say whats on my mind?

I would wait it out.til u guys see each other again everyday. but also u should tell him you want to see him over the summer as well..but if you really think its goin to work when school starts bak up..stick wit it til then. and maybe your mind will change.
good luck

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Ok..im 16 and ive never been kissed. Or lets change that..ive never "madeout" with anyone. And im talkin to a couple of guys and theyre askin me on dates n stuff and i wanna go but i know theyll make a move on me and then i wont kno what im doin! Im already behind..because im 16 and most ppl have madeout already. What do i do about this?

well if you go on the date with them. let them make the move, and if you want to make out with them jus go with. its easy. the guys will start then you jus keep goin with the flow with things.
good luck. dont be scared. and have fun

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do guys only find skinny girls with absolutely no fat on them attractive? is just a little bit of fat okay do you think? what else do they find attractive personality and looks?

Serioulsy i dont think guys like super skinnny girls. they like alil meat on them bones lol..ever hear more cushin for the pushing lol.

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A day before Easter, this guy said he wanted to be more than friends with me, but I had a boyfriend, so I told him we could be friends with benifits, and we
were pretty much boyfriend and girlfriend, we did everything together! So, eventually I dumped my boyfriend for him! So then, we were pretty much really boyfriend and girlfriend. But recently, my friend Jessica, she's like, my bestfriend, asked him out, and I guess he said yes, so then, him and I became friends with benifits again! And that was okay with me, except for that he told me he doesn't like Jessica, and He only wants me in his life, he told me he is in love with me and he is going to dump Jessica for me! I told Jessica everything, I mean EVERYTHING! She wasn't mad, only upset! She is a good friend, and she understood that she couldn't be mad because I had him first! But in my school, I'm really popular, and she is kind of a Geek! Nobody likes her, and she hardly ever gets any decent boyfriends, and I get whoever I want, whenever I want, pretty much. But since she finally has a really hot guy, i don't want to hurt her but taking him from her, but really i had him first! but he's gonna dump her, and i want to go out with him, not only be friends with benifits! and he feels the same, but she is in the way of everything! him and i are in love, you could say, we both love each other, and he dosnt have feelings for her like, at all, so what do i do?!?!?!?

well you should think of your friend.to but if he is going to dump her, then i would go wit him as long as you dont loose a frined from all this. make sure she dont care. and if she was a true friend she shouldnt...but remember dont let a guy come in between ur friendship

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Ok there's this really cute guy at my school I wanna ask him out only Before when I asked a guy out I always got turned down everytime should I change my additude and clothes or just with a better additude? sincerly boycrazy
(16 F)

I would jus change your attitude on thinking more positive and saying that this time you are goin to get the guy. dont think back of what happened in the past. things change. Jus keep thinking postitive tht it will happen the way you want it to. I would go for it if you really like him. and if you get rejected, theres prob. sumone out there better. dont fret over it.

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Ok here goes im 17 theres this guy that i dated awhile ago and i cant seem to get over him and we always end up goin back to each other to mess around n stuff but i want more than that and i finally told him how i felt and he said that he wanted to be single for the rest of the summer because he has a bet with his dad which he does because i talked to his father... (im really close wit his fam) and he said that we will decided what we are gonna do when school starts again but im sick of waiting im scared that hes not gonna wanna get back with me... he says he does but i dont believe him... ive waited around soo long and i dont kno what to to help

17/f

well you did the right thing by tellin him how you feel. but if you want to be with him so bad, then you should wait til he's ready, but also you dont want to waste your time waiting around. so you really got to think if he is worth tht and if he is tellin the truth. you can prob find someone else tht is better and wouldnt waste your time. but i dont want to be rude and tell you tht so you have to go with the heart, and like isaid if you still care bout him soo much, wait for him.
hope i helped and good luck

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14/f
Well, I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and 2 months last night around 11:50. I dont even know what I was thinking! I was confused and I kept thinking about what would happen if he broke up with me. then I guess I started conviceing myself that he WAS cheating on me and I broke up with him. He didnt seem too upset. After I got off the phone with him I balled my head off for hours. I even started gasping for air and then started choking. I dont know what that was all about but thats how much I was crying. anyways then I talked to my friend Zach till i dont know what time but we talked for at least 3 hours. He cheered me up some but I still cant help but think about him. I love him more than life itself! I miss him so much and I dont think he misses me. I want to call him and say sorry and everything but Im afraid he wont care! I miss him so much you have no idea! Please help! should I call him?!?!? Should I just move on??! please Ill rate 5's i swear!

I think before you broke up with him you should have talked to him and had an open relationship. And you should never be to scared if a guy is goin to break up with you, if they break up wit you well then they are lozers if they do.. dont worry bout it. But if you feel its the right thing to do call him and talk to him bout it. but seriously if another guy cheered you up who knows how many other guys can cheer you up. So my advice is just move on you may find someone better then him. but like i said iff you feel tht u need to talk to him..call him
good luck

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What kind of shampoo do you reccomend? and conditioner?

thankkkkkkks-

i really like pantene..thts my favorite..but tresemme is great too..

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