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never been kissed


Question Posted Monday July 31 2006, 12:21 pm

Ok..im 16 and ive never been kissed. Or lets change that..ive never "madeout" with anyone. And im talkin to a couple of guys and theyre askin me on dates n stuff and i wanna go but i know theyll make a move on me and then i wont kno what im doin! Im already behind..because im 16 and most ppl have madeout already. What do i do about this?

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dancergirl678 answered Tuesday August 1 2006, 11:50 am:
just don't stress about it...the more you stress, the harder it'll be for you. like for me, i got my first kiss right before i turned 17 and it only happened because it wasn't expected so there was no need to worry about it. after that, everything just sorta happened *don't get too carried away with it though!!! it is easy to get really caught up in the moment*

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babyygqirlx3 answered Monday July 31 2006, 11:19 pm:
well im 14 and i never gotten kissed until this year, neither peck or make out. But if I were you I'd tell them that you havent because most guys like innocent girls and what not. You shouldn't be scared. All you have to do is let them make the move, and the massage their tongue with yours. I dont know.. it sounds weird but it works.... I WAS TOLD I WAS A GREAT KISSER first time i kissed anyone, if it helps. Dont be worried!<3

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MummuM answered Monday July 31 2006, 11:09 pm:
Lots of girls your age haven't had their first kiss/make-out session yet, either. Don't think you're the only one, because you aren't. Everyone takes time to have their first kiss. Some get it when they're 12, others when they're 16 and some even only get their first kiss when they're 18. It just depends on the person and if they're ready or not. It doesn't really matter if you didn't have your first kiss, yet. You're only 16, hun. You have tons of time! When your first kiss comes, it should be with someone special that you care about and you want to kiss. You always remember your first kiss. So, don't get pressured into it. Make sure you're 100% comfortable with the person you're kissing. Give it time, though. You're first kiss will come and it'll be that much more special when it does. &hearts;

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thelaura answered Monday July 31 2006, 6:03 pm:
It doesn't matter if you haven't made out by the time you're 16. Many people are in your position. Alot probably older. There's no set age to start kissing. There also isn't a specific way you should do it. But when the time comes, it will come naturally and you will wonder what you were worried about!
If you know they're going to make a move on you and you don't mind, go for it. It will be an enjoyable experience.
Best of luck.

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xTakemeawayox answered Monday July 31 2006, 5:07 pm:
well if you go on the date with them. let them make the move, and if you want to make out with them jus go with. its easy. the guys will start then you jus keep goin with the flow with things.
good luck. dont be scared. and have fun

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blodat answered Monday July 31 2006, 4:34 pm:
theres not a ceertian way to make out. you jsut do it. oh, and dont forget to use toungue, ujst not too much. and dont bit his lip..

Breana-14 years.

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iheartyoussx3 answered Monday July 31 2006, 4:24 pm:
hey, well go to [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
it should help you out there. but there really isnt a right or wrong way to makeout with someone. just go wiht the flow.

-caitt<3

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askmex3 answered Monday July 31 2006, 4:17 pm:
kissingbooth.com

go there! this site explains EVERYTHING. go with the flow and it will be great. good luck.

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UHOHxOMFG answered Monday July 31 2006, 4:12 pm:
just go out with them. im sure everything will be fine. if they do pull a move on you and you arent ready tell them no. and this is moving too fast for you. as for making-out, it seems scary to think about messing up but the guys take over. just go with the flow. and when it happens; it happens. but if not then dont worry about it. wait for the right person. hope i helped <3

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lxYiPPi answered Monday July 31 2006, 4:10 pm:
It's not hard to make out with someone. You might think so but seriously its not. i thought the same thing before i made out with someone. & then when it was over with i was like omg that's nothing. You really can't go wrong making out with someone. some little tips:

* Don't make the first move, unless your really confident.

* If he leans really close to your face just move in and let things " ride ".

* When you guys go to makeout put your lips on his like your just kissing him, and then he should open his mouth and you open yours, but make sure your lips are still touching. stick your tongue in his mouth, not to much but not to little, just anough so your touching atleast the tips of his tongue. And go with the flow, play with his tongue as if you are playing footies. Don't go to fast though, be gentle && be romantic. Don't drull. and try not to eat his face. (lol). things will be alright. and chances are you wont mess up and if you do then he prob wont say nothing about it. Or you can practice on someone that doesnt matter. and one other thing when you want to stop just pull away, and after you pull away just kiss him on the lips or cheek. :]

hope i helped.
&heart's; kayla

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