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OK, I said yes to this guy when he asked me out. Now, I don't want to go out with him.. so I'm going to, well not exactly dump him cuz we didn't go out by tell him I don't want to go out with him. I still want to be really really good friends with him. How do I say that I don't want to go out with him? (link)
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I would tell him that he wasn't the guy that you thought he was. And that you see him more as a friend and not a boyfriend.
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ok im 13/f and my bf always asks me do u wanna make out and hell yea i do but i dont know how how? i mean idk.i really like my bf but i am kinda prude and i wanna atleast make out so this is kinda a stupid question but how do u make out with sum1?
ok i need advice asap bc my bf is starting to get annoyed bc i keep saying not right now not right now...any1 have any ideas? im afraid he may break up with me? (link)
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It's pretty easy. All you have to do is follow ur boyfriend. After awhile it will come easier. Just watch and see what he does to you like long open mouth or some tongue action. Whatever he does then try and do it back to him. DOnt think about it to much just let it flow and everythin will be good. Hope this helps.
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So this guy that i've been off and on with for about a year just told me recently that it was over for good and i don't know why! He won't talk to me or look at me or anything! but thats not even the bad part! I really like him! I can't stop thinking about him or being with him! I don't know what to do! Should i just leave it alone? (link)
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If he doesnt want to talk to you about it then yes leave him alone. It will only make the feelings strongier if you chase him. Let him cool down for awhile and in a couple of weeks try to talk to him again.
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ok well i'm 15/f/ i'm dating this guy named Jesse and yesturday we were hanging out together and some chick named Stephanie text him saying I LOve you 2! and well i read it and i asked him what was that all about he tells me that this girl has a crush on him and thinks that he will go out wiht me and with her at the same time and well he told her that he would never cheeat on his girlfriend......what you all think? PLEASE HELP ME BECAUSE I"M CONFUSED (link)
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If the girl texted his phone and said that he loves him 2 then he must have said he loved her first. So if i were you i'd break up with this guy before he cheats on you or before you get your heart broken. You can find so much better!!!
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last year was the bomb but this year sux. i have a new bestfriend and i love her to death but ok lastyear all of the guys kinda liked me and now they don;t like me anymore. i was talking to my best guyfriend and he said guys are scared to get regeted by me. CAN you believe that they are scared of me! so0o0o0 stupid! so now they r moving on to the new best thing, my best friend. I dont know but i kinda miss knowing guys like but i am trying to get over it but i miss knowing that someone likes me. I dono im so0o0 confused. But if you think about it either way i was screwed... if i went out with all of them id be called a slut or hoe but now that i regeted them they are all scared of me. i need help!! plzZzZzZ
SIGNED,
I DON'T WANNA BE SCARY (link)
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Honestly there really isnt anything you can do, but sit back and wait for the guys to get over ur friend and move to someone else. Not all guys like the same girl so there has to be someone that likes you still. If you did regect all of them then why does it matter to you if they like you or not? Dont act like ur to good for them, just try to be there friend and they will respect you again. Hope this helps
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Im 13 and me and my bf have been goin out for about 4 months now. I really love him with all my heart and he's like my soul-mate. He cares 4 me and loves me a lot to! (also 13).
I've been in a past relationship where the guy took kissing and making out for advantage.. and I still haven't really healed from it. My bf wants to make out and says he respects me not being ready. He asks me when I will be ready or if I ever will. It seems like all he wants is to make out.. Wut do I do?
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All guys will want something from there girlfriend. If you have been dating him for 4 months and havent really done anything then maybe you just aren't feeling the guy as much as you thought. You said you got hurt in the past but you cant dwell on what happened before. If you trust this guy then kiss him, but if you dont feel anything then move on cause there's not enough time to stay with someone you really dont care much about. Hope this helps
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i was dating this guy for about 3 months and things got pretty serious. we spent every day together and he would stay and my house and vice versa. his ex girlfriend called one night and he broke up with me to see if things would work with her and they didnt. he called about a month after we broke up and said that he made a huge mistake for breaking up with me cause i was the best thing that had ever happened to him. we got back together and things were great, actually better than ever or so i thought. one day when she called again he started getting weird again and told me that he once again needed time. i took all of my stuff from his house and said that i wasnt playing second best anymore. i gave him all i had and thought that this was it. that he was the one. and unfortunately im a mess over him. i know he treats me horrible in this situation but ive never been so inlove with someone before. and i dont know what to do. someone just help. please. (link)
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This has happend to me, its actually kinda freaky. My exboyfriend dumped me for his old gf and then wanted me back. I went with him and he ended up dumping me again like 2months later. Well now were just friends and its 10 times better. Dating a guy after he dumps you for someone else is kinda messed up. It's totally not worth it.
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okay so there is this boy josh and we've liked eachother off and on for about 1 year...and well everytime i do sumthing with him or hook up with him he always plays me over again and again. i don't knoe wut to do cuz i really like him alot too and hes a good kisser and i have fun when im with him. but this last time he played me was bad and i promised to my self that i wouldn't EVER fall for him again but ..... he told my friend shaniqua that he felt really bad for wut he did and he never should have and that he really wants me back... and well i kinda want him back too but i don't wanna get hurt again. so wut do i do??
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If it's been over 3 times, then let it go, there's really no connection if it didnt work the first 3 times.
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ok so i went out with this kid Sean, and things started to get weird so i broke up with him, then i was starting to think of asking him back out but i thought he liked this girl Sarah, who i happen to hate, and he said he didnt but the next day when i was going to ask him out he was going out with her .. what should i do?
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Forget him. If he said he didnt like her one day and then goes out with her the next then it's kinda shady.
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My so called friend i think is only my friend cuz he likes my girlfriend and he even said so, i think there is a chance that she likes him, should i see if she really wants to go with him, or let her know that he really is a jerk or what...?? help please!! (link)
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If she really likes you then she won't do anythin with your friend, but i wouldn't have them together with you a lot.
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my b/f goes to NH every weekend and has a lot of friends up there .. a lot of them are girls .. i am obviously wicked jealous because he is seriouisly very cute/hott.. so girls would like him.. anyways, some girl keeps callin me from his phone and asking for me then hanging up.. she did it yesterday and at 9 in the morning today .. its really pissing me off - what should i say to him when he gets back!? HELP! i dont wanna come off like a bitch but i want him to know that im not takin his shit anymore and he cant just walk all over me like that ..sry its long (link)
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I would ask him why the girl is calling you. And if she keeps callin try to talk to her to see what is up. If you do get jelous about all the girls he goes to NH with then ask if you can go with him sometime, or have him stay with you for a weekend. Hope this helps
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Ok well I have this boyfriend and he doesnt go to my school or anything. I meet him through my friend from soccer camp. We started talking online and then a while later we started going out. Later he broke up with me saying that he disn't think things were going to work out because we still hadn't seen each other. Now a year later, we still haven't seen each other but we are going out again. I am thinking that now I don't want to go out with him until I see him and stuff. How should I tell him this without hurting him too much? (I have never broken up with anybody before) please help soon!!! Thanx and I'll rate you! (link)
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Just say the same thing he said to you, but make sure it's really how you feel.
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My name is Leah....
Me n my boyfriend have been going out for 1 month.. but we went out before 4 four months...
Me n hym are in love like so much!! n we r perfect for eachother b.c we know everything about eachother... but
LAST NIGHT... I was on the fone w/ My friend Adam n then My friend who was sleeping over...((Lisa)) wanted to talk to ((MIke, my boyfriend)) b.c. they r tight... n i was like go head idc.. cuz i wus on the fone w/ Adam n he was leaving tommoroe...
Well i wusnt flirting w/ Adam... but to all my friends (( guy n girl )) i say I love you... but not the same way i love Mike...
Well since my friend, Lisa was on the fone... w/ mike... He heard me say i love you to Adam... he started getting pissed at me cuz he thought i was flirting w/ Adam....
So wen i talked to hym later that night im like Wait, r u mad at me..?? Mike is like ya... u were flirting w/ Adam.... i wus like no i wasnt!! hes like YeaH! im like no!! im like w.e . since u dont belive me i gues im a liar....
well i broke up w/ Mike that night b.c. i though that since we r going into jr. high this year... n since he thinks that i was flirtng by saying I love you to adam.. then i thought.. we needed a break....
do u think i was right to take a lil Break... n do u think i shoudl go back out w/ Mike.. b.c i rly love hym n hes the sweetest guy i have eva known n he treats me like a queen... n he loves me soo much!! n i love hym.. but sumtimes i like being single.. but every time i think of Mike i am always liike omg i miss hym i love hym soo much!!
PLEASE HELP ME!!
xOx-Leah...
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If you're just start jrhigh then there is no point to go back with him, there are going to be so many other people.
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Okay well their is this boy at my school and we have gone out and broke up alot! Well now i think im startin to really like him again and he likes me to ! Im tired of breakin up and all but i really like him! Should i go out with him or say No??
Sighed
Boy TrouBle!! (link)
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I've had the same problem. I guess it depends if he is the one that keeps dumpin you or you dump him. I wise person told me that if it doesnt work after the 3rd try then there really isnt a connection.
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okay so there is this boy that ive liked for a long time... but yea c hes a mayjor playa and everytime i hook up wit him or w/e he always plays me over but his charm is sooo good and cute that i fall for him no matter wut! how can i just forget about him! and erase him from my life cuz i knoe that the next time i talk to him hes gonna b all flirty and touchy feely to me and then i'll fall for him all over again. please help me get over him.
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Find a nother guy to hang with. It will keep your mind off the playa and you'll still have a good time.
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I'm going to my boyfriend's house sometime before summer ends..we're both 13..my parents don't know I have a boyfriend because I'm not aloud to..but I'm nervous about going over there..I've never even gone over to a guys house when were just friends with just the two of us! Does anyone have any advice for me, what can make me less nervous? I mean hes never done anything besides hug a girl..which of course was me and I was his first girlfriend, we dated before this. So I don't have to worry about him doing anything I wouldn't want him to do. I mean..im sure we're gonna kiss bcuz he said he wanted to and he said he wanted me to be his first for everything since I already was for the girlfriend and the hug..but any advice? I'll be online for a while on secretAsquirrel..thats not my normal sn but its the one im gonna be using for the time im at my friends house. (link)
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I've been over to a lot of guys house's the past coupld of years, and it's really nothin special. Usually you just watch t.v or do whatever you usually do at your girl friends house. If you do plan on kissing or whatever make sure no one is around or can walk in on you too cause that will break the vibe, and he will be emberassed around you. Just play it cool like you've done this a million times.
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I'm a freshmen and during my first three weeks 3 guys have showed interest in me. I really like the personalities of all 3 but theyre all so different! Okay..guy #1...he is also a freshmen, he's hot, and hes a good christian and everything, but ive never seen him get really crazy and i do that sometimes and i like to not be the only one ya know lol....guy #2 hes a sophmore...hes funny and really nice to me..he doesnt make good grades though...he is susposed to be a junior..or maybe even a senior im not 100% sure, he rides my bus and hes not the hottest guy but hes DEFINATELY not ugly...hes kinda like eminem..he doesnt look ANYTHING like him but hes on the same level of hotness...guy #3...hes a senior..it would be really cool to go out w/ an upperclassmen..i could probably meet new upperclassmen that way as well..well, neways, i REALLY REALLY REALLY like his personality...hes a good guy..but he isnt very good looking...i know that sounds shallow and i dont mean it to be im just trying to give pros and cons here...hes not incredibly bad but hes got dark brown hair and glasses..hes not very "built" and he doesnt really have the same style as most of the people i hang out with...so if you were in my position what guy would you choose? can you give me your reasoning too? also, i was wondering if you all could put them in order like "this guy 1st, this 2nd, and this 3rd"...sorry this is so long!! you deserve a 5 just for reading this!! lol so i will definately rate you good! (link)
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Okay well to be totally honest guy #2 sounds like a loser if he smokes pott and doesn't make good grades. He may be cute and nice, but if your looking for somthin more than just a fling then i wouldn't pick him. guy #3, protection to me is a big deal. I like the feeling of knowing i'm safe while i'm out, so i prob wouldn't go with him. guy #1 sounds like your best bet, nice hott and smart. he might not be that exciting all the time, but you can change that. He could just be shy around you. And you wrote about him first so that has to meen he is important to you. So if this was my problem i would go with guy #1. Hope this helps.
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ok there is this boy i like his name is justin. and we go to highschool together, and im kinda new and dont know anyone. but ok, so i like him, like i cant say yahhh im so madly inlove with him but i like him. and we are both freshmen, yesterday we were in this room and it was his class and my class and i was in there and he whispered something in his friends ear and then he pointed at my feet and goes them are some sweet shoes i like ur shoes, and i smiled and said thank u and then he walkd round the corner and so did i then after that he just like glanced at me like a few times. and then yesterday night my friend calld him and he said heyy did u see that girl with the pink n black on and he goes yeah and he goes well she likes u a lil, and he goes well i got a girl friend, and then my friend goes oh..and then he goes well mayb u should talk to her and then he goes yeah ill talk to her. and then today at lunch he has my 2nd lunch i seen him and he saw me, and he usually sits at a table with all his friends but for some odd reason his friends and him were all standin where i was standing and i was like..ok..and me n my friend were talkn and she knows i like him, and her friend overheard and went up to him and goes heyy and he goes hey and she goes can i talk to u then she pulled him aside and asked him if he had a girlfriend and he sai yeah and she goes how long have yall been going out and he said a year and a month, and she goes ohhh ok..and then he lookd at me n smiled and i smiled back...and so i was wondering how do iknow he likes me, and does he even like me, and if so what should i do...cuz i have his number and i have no clue what to do..or what to say! cuz im like really quite at school cuz i dont know anyone, but goosh how do i know...please help!
thankx for reading your eyes out! (link)
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I know it sounds hard, but i would call him. Just talk to him about school and different things you too have in common. when the right time comes I would ask him if he thinks of you as just a friend, cause at times you feel differntly about him.
Hope this helps.
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This question is gonna be long so moderators, please don't delete this question. I need to explain myself a little bit before I can explain my question. I'm a 14 year old girl, I'm 5'6, and I weigh 113 pounds. For all my life, I thought I was ugly or below average looking. I have never had a boyfriend but now I think guys are gonna start liking me and then I might get a boyfriend. Well lately, I've been getting great comments like I'm hot or really pretty. Today, I went to the beach with my mom and my sister because we had "to bond more" lol yeah right. When I was walking to the car to go home, a few African Americans and white guys hit on me lol. They said "Damn girl you're fine and you gots a nice ass and legs". After what happened today, I'm feeling more confident about what I look like. I'm going into the 8th grade soon and I think I might get a few boyfriends during the school year. I am done growing in height wise and I think my beauty phase is coming in lol because now people think I'm hot and stuff. Ok for my question, do you think I might get my first boyfriend this year because of what has and is happening to me? If this question isn't too difficult for you, I would really appreciate it if you can answer it. Thanks (link)
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I'm sure you will get a boyfriend this year. Just watch out for the type of guys that are "players". During school keep in touch with your friends during the uglier years because you know they are your true friends.
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