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so ive liked this guy for the longest time. we went out for a year and it was great. i was so happy. im not really sure why we broke up. anyways, i cant get over him. i like him so much..more than you could imagine. but i dont WANT to like him. i dont WANT him to be in my mind all day. what i want is to be over him.
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i'd try to open your minds up to any other possible guys. any guys you know that are cute, funny, etc. but you really dont know em, try to get to know em a little better. ask em for help in class or somethin...try small talk...make friends with em...see if you could possibly be interested in them. also...say for example you have a song that reminds you of him. if it comes on the radio or whatever, find something else to listen to. or if you 2 have pics together, try to look at them as little as possible. hope i helped! good luck. guys can be rough but i hope you figure things out.
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I have recently been asked to french kiss Barry* by my friend Sara* and i hav been thinkin about it for about aweek now and i told sara that i would kiss him but she keeps forgetting.today i said that iwant a boyf for the hugs and the holdin hands but sara said that i might not get that with barry if she asks him to go out with me. den she says that she knows someone who i would get that kind of love from and den i said who and she wont tell me coz he doesnt want me to know and dat if she told me then i wouldnt kiss him anyway.But i said how will i know unless i know who it is? so now im having 2nd touts about barry coz i only like him a little bit plus if ders someone out der wo iknow likes me for sure then i have to no before i go kissin someone else!!
please help I rate 5s
p.s. any idea how to get sara to spill the truth? (link)
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i'd try to reason with her. i mean, i get where you're coming from. you don't wanna make the guy that likes you go away right? but you need to know if he's worth it...right? so just try and talk to her. if she doesn't cooperate...then see if any of your other friends know anything. and as far as barry goes...if the thing with the other guy doesn't work out talk to him. if he wants to go out with you, tell him some things you want out of it. if he wants to date you, i'm sure he'll understand. well i hope i made sense of this question and helped ya out a little! sorry if i misunderstood you at all.
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My bf and I started going out a few days ago. Thing is, I am not the most pretty person. In fact, I reaally lack in the beauty department. I am bigger than my bf PLUS I am ugly. I have already heard of assholes staring at my boyfriend and snickering and whatnot. It sucks how these people could possibly break apart a relationship with potential. I mean, who wants to go through this critisism and crap like that? Any tips on how to survive the first few 'judgement' days (or maybe weeks) as a couple? I dont want him to break up with me over something so stupid as this. (link)
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beauty shouldn't matter. and even if you may not be the prettiest, he obviously finds you pretty. and everyone has a beautiful quality about themselves that stands out, so maybe he's seen it, cuz i'm sure you do. and as far as everyone else goes, ignore them. they have no right to judge you. talk to your boyfriend about it too. maybe he can help you out. hope i helped, and good luck!
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lately, i've felt really sad, and i've felt all alone. i'm 8th grade/f, and i feel like a guy could fill up a space :( what can i do??
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well just look around. do you see any guys that your interested in? if thats the case and hes not your friend already then just ask him a question one day like whens that test or whatever and get talking with him. if you don't see any guys that you know ask your friends if they know any single guys. hope i helped!
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There is this guy and we always talk on the internet (AIM) and I always tell him to come up and talk to me at school, and he says okay he will and I say im gonna hold that up to him. When we are at school and I see him he never says anyting to me he just walks away. I wanna say somthing to him so bad about it but im shy too. I aways catch him looking at me what should I do?
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don't be so shy. this guy likes you and i assume you do to. so just go up and say hey to him. he prolly doesn't say anything cuz hes shy, so your gonna have to be the bold one. hope i helped!
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okay im with this guy. i REALLY like him a lot and everything and im into being active with a guy like making out and everything. i've given head and been fingered and made-out with a guy before all in one night and it was my frist time for everything, but im not sure if my boyfriend right now is into all of that. He said he's eaten a girl out,fingered, and made-out, but i was talking to this other guy (that im kinda interested in) and he said that he probably wouldn't do anything with me. BUT my problem is..i really want to do stuff with this other guy and we've talked and everything..and decided that if we do mess around, neither one of us is going to tell anyone else. Im not sure what to do. I really like my boyfriend, but i REALLY wanna mess around with this other guy! Would it be bad for stuff to happen and noone find out? ahh. (link)
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no offense......but what are you thinking?! no, cheating is bad. messing around is bad. ESPECIALLY if you have a bf. so what if your bf isn't in to PDA. give him time. you gotta be patient. and bein' patient DOES NOT mean messin' around with another guy. sorry if i freaked a little, but i hope i helped!
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im 14 going on 15/f. ive never had a b/f but ive had this one crush for 2 yrs. now! Were good friends now and lately all of my friends have had b/f. i kinda feel left out, but being single is fun 2! i kno this sounds wrong...to me it does 2, but lately all ive wanted 2 do is grab my crush and just kiss him! i think i have a problem...what should i do! please help!~ (link)
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i don't think you have a problem. i mean, you've liked this guy for a while and your feelings for him have probably grown. so its probably just somethin' funky goin' on with your feelings. a big crush like that (trust me i know) can effect you in many different ways. hope i helped!
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My brother recently kissed a lesbian, and disgusting thoughts came up in my mind, so I thought I'd just ask this question...
IF A REGULAR GUY KISSES A LESBIAN, WHAT DOES THAT MAKE THE GUY?
Please answer, don't leave me in suspense! (link)
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i'm pretty sure that makes the guy straight. there's a chance he didn't know that the girl was a lesbian. so, yeah. i think he's straight. hope i helped!
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Ok so i really dont understand this, im really nice and funny and everything like serioussly. Its not fair that all of these snobby girls have guys like drooling over them. I dont think im pretty and you'll probably say that i am and blah but how do i get guys to like me? I mean, i talk to guys like all the time and its just stupid that they dont see how much of a nice person i am...
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you're right, it is stupid. and i know what you're goin' through. you just gotta be patient. i mean, the right guy'll come along and see how great you are. cuz if they can't see how great you are, then they're not even worth it. hope i helped!
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Ok, well there is this guy that I like and he absolutely adores me. He asked me out but I said no, maybe sometime soon. I like him, I really do. But see, I don't know if we went out that it would work out. He likes to play video games and talks about them a lot. I could care less half of the time but I listen and try to be interested in what he is saying because I care if that makes sense. And well, I'm the kind of girl who really likes to cuddle and kiss and sometimes other things. I don't have sex or oral sex.. just other things if you catch my drift. I mean I can live without those things if I have to. So my question is, should I go out with this guy? What are your blunt opinions on if you think it'd work out for us or not? Thanks (link)
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i think it could work. i mean, you'd have to help it a little. but if you like each other, i don't see why not. and maybe when your talking, find out what his other interests are, and you might like them too. and as far as PDA goes, as the relationship develops, he might get more into that idea. hope i helped!
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im a 13/f n my bestfriend is 13/m i like him alot and we went to the movies yesterday with 2 other friends a boy and a girl. i was sitting inbetween the girl and my best friend n all during the movie he kept sorta kicking me and rubbing his leg against my leg. i thought it was cute. then he didnt mean to well at least i dont think he meant to, but he moved his hand like in between the seat and he touched my theigh a couple of times. i like him alot but do you think he was making moves on me? well he knows i like him but im sort of clueless right now!! thank you
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well, if he knows that you like him, he could just be jokin' around. or he could be flirting. or he could like you. or he could just be bein' a friend. so, maybe have a friend talk to him about how he feels about you. hope i helped!
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my bf isnt excactly the cutest person in the world but i love him so much. alot of the time some of my friends that i'm not that close to always ask me questions about why im going out with him. and this girls in one of my classes always says how she would only go out with a guy if he was cute. and my bf sits right behind me in that class. he's not like ugly or anything but he's not hot either. i don't know what 2 do about it when pple tell me that i shouldnt go out with him or ask me why i am going out with him. please help........ (link)
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just ignore them. looks shouldn't be the reason to fall in love with someone in the first place. it could grab your attention of someone....but its never the source of true love. if you love him enough...looks shouldn't matter. and as far as your friends go.....just forget 'em. they obviously don't know what their talking about. hope i helped!
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I have this friend(a guy)who i really like...yesterday he came over to hang out wth me and my other friend...me and him wrestled for like an hour and he kept hugging me...he also held my hand but we were playin around so after a second of owkward silence he pushed me and we started playin mercy...im not sure if he likes me or not...Please Help! (link)
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there are a couple options: he could like you, he could be flirting, or he could be just bein' a really good friend. maybe get someone to ask him how he feels about you. or talk to him yourself. which ever would work. hope i helped!
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ok well my friend (shes a girl)we'll call her krys..shes over for x mas and so is my other friend (he's a guy)we'll call him bob...well krys has a way to kinda like hypnitize guys and i really really like my friend bob but krys did her lil eye thing and now he likes her...she does it to all the guys she see's, she knows she can do that and she takes advantage of it...well at first i wasnt upset becuz i thought maybe she didnt relize she was flirting...then after i talked to her and told her how i feel she still does it...now im mad at her cuz ive told her that i like him and that shes flirting and when i asked if she liked him she said "no" and now im mad at her but im not sure if i should be...PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
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i think you have a right to be a little upset. i mean, some people are natural flirts, and that can be OK, but if she knows how much you like him....she could lay off a little. just explain to her that your hurtin' and that you want her to back off. especially if she doesn't even like him. she could be doin' that just cuz she might know that he likes her....but she's kinda bein' a crappy friend by doin' that. so talk to her. and you have every right to be upset. hope i helped!
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ok my x and i have known echother sence sixth gradewe started going out in 8th and hrew the summer then all the sudden he dumps me then asks me out a week later saying hed never do anything like that to hurt me again.... then 3 months later he falls for another girl and dumps me again... so thats like having my heart broken twice first for beig dumped by a boy i lovd very much then finding he already likes another girl soo we dont talk or a good month then out of the lue he says he loves me and he miss's me and he wants me back but i take time to think about it and before i can say yes he tells me he likes ssomeone else soo thats th gourth time he broke my heart.... but we were friendly still but just now hes stating to tell me he still likes me after finding out that i liked him still and i asked about the other girl and he said y cant i like you both and soo im confused now he says when he couses it will be right so now im thinkin is he just doing this to get my to pay attention to him and all that stuff and i have never stoped liking him .. if he asks me back out i dont kno if i can trut him again .. do yea'll think it would be good idea to go bac out wth him i hve to ask you because i dont kno if i can trust my friends right now thanks alot (link)
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i think you should talk to your ex....bf...w/e. and tell him that you're confused and you need to know how he really feels. and if at all possible, make sure he's bein' completely honest. cuz you don't need your heart broken again. and tell him that: your tired of having your heart broken and you NEED to know. hope i helped!
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There is this guy,lets call him pauli.And i really like him!i like him a lot.and we always talk and hug n stuff.and we got really close then my cousin and him met and they became friends but after he met her in persin he didnt like her and she didnt like him.and she started being all mean 2 him and now whenever i talk 2 him online he ignores me.i dnt kno WHAT 2 do or HOW 2 feel. (link)
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i'd try to explain to him that your sorry for your cousin's behavior. then i'd talk to your cousin about maybe backin' down a little. hope i helped!
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I just found out one of my friends likes my bf. im kinda worried shes going to try to get him. see shes gone out with him before but they broke up a long time ago. anyways she told me she needed to tell me something but she couldnt. i finally got her to say what she needed to say. she said she did like him but didnt anymore. but its weird the day before she told me. she said she needed to tell me something important. and then one day later she tells me and says she doesnt like him anymore? is it just me or is she lieing? maybe she doesnt want me to get mad or something i dont know. i just know that she has some sort of feelings toward him. and well i have another friend and he told me that she has really weird tricks. that she can get any guy she wants to break up with their gf. he said that he knows by experience. im soo worried that she will try to get him and then im screwed. and this girl is the type of girl who always gets what she wants. basically i need help on what to do with the situation. please. i rate high (link)
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you really need to talk to her. i mean, i assume you like your bf a lot, right? tell her how you feel and how upset you'd be if she ever did that. i mean, she had her chance. maybe it'd work out if you weren't going out with him now...but you are. so just make sure she knows how you feel and stuff. hope i helped!
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Ok, my best friend is a guy. I heard from my friend that he has a girlfriend, but he told me he doesn't. I don't know who to believe, and I really wanna believe the guy because I really like him. Let's call him...*Jake* and let's call the girl...*Mary*. So Mary, Jake, and I are all best friends. Mary has been lying to me a lot lately. She's also been trying to steal my guys. Jake and I hang out all the time, and he and I always tell each other "I love you Jake!" and "I love you...*Anne*!" but we both know we're joking. And we're like "wow, you're so hot tonight" and all these random things as if we were going out, but we're not. He and I constantly flirt. When my friends ask him why they won't ask me out (i don't ask them to do this!!) he says he and I are just like the bestbestbestbestbestbest friends in the universe. I know that's true, (the best... friends part) but I don't know how to get it out of him whether he really does like me or not. What should I do? We have all these inside jokes about "loving each other" and "last night was great" (like i said...inside joke...i've never done it or anything) and all these other things. We always give each other hugs and sit on each others laps and I really want to be an item. We will go to the same school next year, but we don't now. WHAT SHOULD I DO????? Please help I rate! And sorry about the length.
signed
confused best friend!! (link)
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i think that you should talk to him about whether he likes you or not. if he's your best friend, i'm sure he'll be honest with you. so just talk to him about it and tell him that you NEED him to be honest....and if he says he does...well, there ya go. then you can talk to him about maybe getting into a relationship.
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Do you neciserrily have to think a guy is cute to like them? Like can you be attracted to just there personality and still have a crush on them? (link)
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absolutely! personality can SO be the only reason for liking the guy. its very common. looks don't matter at all, so thats great that your only attracted to the personality. looks can sometimes make the person stand out, but that doesn't have to be the reason for liking him.
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I really like this boy and he says that he really likes me, however he has a girlfriend and doesn't want to hurt her by dumping her. He is always with me and he tells me that he cares and wants to be with me, but I don't want to get hurt. It hurts me enough to know that he has a girlfriend, I have never loved like this before. Everytime he kisses me I seem to melt. I want him so badly, but what about his gf. he is afraid and so am I? (link)
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you should talk to him about who he really wants to be with. honestly. he needs to be with one person....and you need to know who it is. and so does he.
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