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Im a young 16 year old girl i like to have fun,Im a modole, Im a cheerleader, i also play diffrent sports. Im blonde im 5ft. 5in. i weigh 145 pounds. i like blue, pink, white, and black, green. im singel but im looking for a boyfriend.i love giving people advise.

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OMG last night i made a HUGE mistake. I was sooo drunk i went over to a friends house (who i secretly have a crush on) WOKE HIM UP passed out at his house WHEN he had a girl over ACK He seemed fine with it But I am scared to call him now (link)
just call him


would it be wrong to date a guy a year younger than me. the thing is he lives in my neighborhood and me and his sister and others all hang out. would that be wrong. (link)
NO not at all


A day before Easter, this guy said he wanted to be more than friends with me, but I had a boyfriend, so I told him we could be friends with benifits, and we
were pretty much boyfriend and girlfriend, we did everything together! So, eventually I dumped my boyfriend for him! So then, we were pretty much really boyfriend and girlfriend. But recently, my friend Jessica, she's like, my bestfriend, asked him out, and I guess he said yes, so then, him and I became friends with benifits again! And that was okay with me, except for that he told me he doesn't like Jessica, and He only wants me in his life, he told me he is in love with me and he is going to dump Jessica for me! I told Jessica everything, I mean EVERYTHING! She wasn't mad, only upset! She is a good friend, and she understood that she couldn't be mad because I had him first! But in my school, I'm really popular, and she is kind of a Geek! Nobody likes her, and she hardly ever gets any decent boyfriends, and I get whoever I want, whenever I want, pretty much. But since she finally has a really hot guy, i don't want to hurt her but taking him from her, but really i had him first! but he's gonna dump her, and i want to go out with him, not only be friends with benifits! and he feels the same, but she is in the way of everything! him and i are in love, you could say, we both love each other, and he dosnt have feelings for her like, at all, so what do i do?!?!?!? (link)
Go back to him


well me and my boyfriend broke up and now i like this other guy. we have been hanging out alot and everything but i dont know if he likes me or not. he said he wants to make sure me and my ex are completely over with before anything happens then maybe. but now he acts totally different. like nothing could EVER happen. i asked him and he was like well we barely know each other we have to hang out more. what does this mean? should i give up or keep trying? thanks (link)
It means he see's that you and ur x are over and he's trying not to push himself on you so fast.
and yes keep trying!!!!!!!!!!


My husband and I are divorcing over the fact that I wasn't a virgin when we got married, 5 years ago. Back when we were dating, I'd cheated on him and fooled around with another guy. I hated myself for it so I couldn't bring myself to tell him. Now one of my friends told him and he got so mad. I'd tried to explain why I didn't want to bring it up, but he was too hurt to care. We've tried to talk about it several times, but it only made both of us hurt worse. So now we're getting a divorce and we've agreed not to see or speak to each other anymore, which sucks because we know we're still in love with each other. It's just too painful... As if that's not bad enough, I just found out I'm pregnant. What the hell do I do? I don't know if I could contact him even if I wanted too. I'm scared. Please give me words of wisdom! (link)
no matter what you still need to tell him maybe it might help things! Hope i helped


my boyfriend is about to leave for basic and i want to get him something he can use daily or see or whatever to remind him of me...any ideas? (link)
get a poto of you and write somthing speciel on the back


Well i kinda got this girl that i like but then i hang with her brother alot cause he's like my best friend and we always hang out i mean i go camping with his family every year and then i realized that i kinda like his sister and his sister is my age i mean we have so much fun together when were camping and just love hanging out but i dont know how this would set with her brother but i do really kinda like her but i dont know how she feels but some of my friends have said we flirt alot... what should i do? Ask her out or not? (link)
just ask her out you'll might have more fun camping with her Lol!


Well Sunday is Mother's Day. My boyfriend does not have a Mother. He lost her to breast cancer 4 years ago. I don't know what to do...Please help me/us.
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Dont remiend him that his mom is dead


There's a girl that I like. We go to different schools but live about 10 minutes away from each other. She has a boyfriend but we went out once and I found out that she likes me. She even told me. The time we went out was 2 weeks ago (last weekend she was busy and this weekend I am), and I don't know if I'm wasting my time because I think she won't break up with her boyfriend. They've been going out for 9 months, and she told me that he makes her cry almost every night but she just won't break up with him. What do I do..? (link)
tell her to think about hoes better for her


Do u think its to soon to give my number? I had met this guy at a party and I was attracted to him, I talked to him on myspace for the first time and I invited him to a party and gave him directions.......I also gave him my number incase he needs directions. (link)
No its not to early


my boyfriend just confessed to me another girl kissed him and he didn't stop her. I was really mad at first, but then I realized i have no right to be. You see, we're in a internet relationship and not meeting till late this year. I guess it's understandable that if someone in the flesh comes along and kisses you, you're not going to stop them. I think I would do the same too, admittedly. Everyone I've spoken to though thinks I should be madder than I am, because he cheated on me. I guess i'm a pretty laid-back person. We care about each other a lot, but I understand why he did it. I feel I should be mad at him for cheating though. I still want to go out with him, but everyone is telling me to break up with him. What should I do? And am I being too nice on him?

Thanks. (link)
stay with him and no your not being to nice


I asked a question about a month ago about my situation with an ex-boyfriend who I became pregnant for, and then lost the baby. (http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=421121)

Not long after, he called and apologized for everything, and gave me his side of the story. I finally showed him ultrasound pictures and he saw how depressed I had become, and after hearing it from soo many people he believes me. He says he would have been there for us, which I believe, and we are now friends. He's helping me deal with my loss.
But the last time we talked, he asked about getting a second chance. I don't want him to think I'm this easy to get back, but at the same time we've been through so much, and I think he's learned his lesson. I still care about him, not only because he's the father of my child, but I care about him as a person.
I told him if I did give him a second chance, it would be a long time from now because I'm not ready right now after what I went through. Do you think he deserves a second chance? I need an outsider's opinion on this. Thanks! (link)
give him a nother chance you guys are ment to be go live your life together.
good luck


i'm so loney i love this guy but hes in 6th year im upsessed with him please help im also over weight! i will score high if this is answerd asap...X (link)
just tell him how you feel and you'll lose the weight if your happy.


i really really really like this kid, and he likes me. simple, right? no.
1. i just broke up with my boyfriend last week. someone told him that i broke up with him for the other guy, which i didn't, but i can't go out with this kid right away cause it will seem like i did.
2. he is 2 1/2 years older than me. not a big deal to me, but it is to his mom and my dad. my dad will get over it, but i don't know his mom.
3. he will be leaving for college in august and he's going far away. so we pretty much only have four months.

he said that he likes me enough to make something of it..and something may happen, but he doesn't know if we should try. i agree that we are setting ourselves up to get hurt, but at the same time..why not just go for it?
what do you guys think? what should i do? (link)
Go for it as soon as you can you might find your true LOVE!


I'm in tears right now. Okay, well I'm going out with joe, matt and bob are friends. Carlo is someone else who told be this:


Violin Rehearsal (5/8/06) "Joe says 2 [Bob] "Guess what, i got a gf." Joey says "Thats cool, is she a lunatic too? Joe says "Uh..Carlo do u think [me]'s a lunatic?" I say "Um..Sorta," Joe says "I no..(chuckles) shes also a f**n s**t that doesnt kiss anyone..(chuckles) Matt first says "Oo Joe, why do you say that about your gf?" I say " Yea Joe, what if i tell her?" Joe says"I was just being sarcastic, plus she wouldnt believe you.."

& I don't think he would say something like that, I know he likes me. No doubt, hes been at me since the first day of school. And its tearing me up. Even if he WAS sarcastic, that was pretty mean.

He's broken up with me 3 times before and he KNOWS that if he broke up with me again, that we're not getting back together.

What should I do?
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Im just gonna say dont be with a guy that makes you look or feel bad ok .
good luck!


This kid and I are inlove.I love him a lot!But one problem,He's my bff's ex!!!Everytime he hugs me she gets mad and basically wants to punch me.I want my life back,but I am happier with this kid.I just want ma old friends back.The people that stuck with me are my true friends,one imparticular.But I want to be able to hug him and stuff,sometimes when she is watching i push him off!So I can only choose one.If I choose my bf i will be happy,but lose my bff.If i choose my bff,I will have to break up with him and then get my old friends back.I really love this kid and i have followed my heart always,and its led me to him and my heart is telling me to stay with him,but what do i do!??? (link)
I have the same problem right now i think you should do what im doin stay with him if there really your friends they'll come back.
GOOD LUCK!


okay well the guy that i have liked for a long time just started liking my best friend. she has a bf that she loves very much and i dont think she would leave him. i dont think he knows i like him but idk. should i tell him straight up?...but if he dont like me like that then i will feel weird around him..me, him, my best friend and a few others are going to the movies on friday but i dont know if thats a good idea considering he likes her. she knows i really like him and i know she wouldnt do anything like flirt with him in front of me. but i dont want him paying all the attention to her..should she invite her bf that way he cant?!?!?

ill rate high =) (link)
Yes her boyfriend should come and YEAH tell him you like him. If you really like him tell him soon!
Good Luck.


so ive been dating this guy for almost 8 months now..i love him with all my heart..but lately we've been fighting a lot..well not really fighting but argueing not gettin along to well..i try to say stuff like why it could be and just my opionon and the situtation but he doesnt like to listen...i need some new ideas..wut should i do so we can get along good again (link)
i think maybe you should try like ask him wut he thinks about your realationship and ask him if he see's your realationship in the futer. Good Luck!


Well, I've been with my boyfriend for a little over four months, but I feel like we are drifting apart. The other guy I've liked but he's always had a girlfriend when I wanted to date him, I have the chance to be with him now, but I've got my boyfriend. I'm confussed weather I should stay with my boyfriend and see if things get better or end it and go for the other guy? (link)
try talking to your boyfriend and tell him what you just told me maybe he'll under stand and he'll try to get things better but dont just break up with him without talking to him!




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