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Bf or Bff?
This kid and I are inlove.I love him a lot!But one problem,He's my bff's ex!!!Everytime he hugs me she gets mad and basically wants to punch me.I want my life back,but I am happier with this kid.I just want ma old friends back.The people that stuck with me are my true friends,one imparticular.But I want to be able to hug him and stuff,sometimes when she is watching i push him off!So I can only choose one.If I choose my bf i will be happy,but lose my bff.If i choose my bff,I will have to break up with him and then get my old friends back.I really love this kid and i have followed my heart always,and its led me to him and my heart is telling me to stay with him,but what do i do!???
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I think that if your friend was a really really true friend, she would be happy for you and understand that she and her ex are over. Maybe talk to her and let her understand there's more guys out there for her and maybe they werent meant to be. If you two are in love, and you're 100% positive with that, dont let your jealous friend get in the way.
But if you're really afraid to lose her, then forget about him. But I would give her some time, because you shouldnt give up someone you love for a fake friend.
Hope I helped.. This wasnt a easy question to answer cause guys and friends together are the worrsttt problem.
Sorry =(
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ok so the saying is "chicks before dicks" which is really a situational thing if you ask me. you seem to really like him and if your friend cant get that you like him then shes not really your friend. explain to her that your going to go out w/ him reguardless of what she thinks and if she gets mad she gets mad. honestly it wouldnt be fair to this guy to dump him just b/c your friend said so you friends are supposed to support you not get mad b/c you like there ex. good luck and dont let ur friends influence you!
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I have the same problem right now i think you should do what im doin stay with him if there really your friends they'll come back.
GOOD LUCK!
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When your friend gets upset about her ex-boyfriend hugging you or touching you, that tells me that she's not over this guy yet. And that tells me that you need to respect her feelings and back off.
It's way hard enough for a girl to get over a guy she really loved, but when her best friend jumps in and is the new girlfriend, that's unbearable. You will definetly lose your best friend if you do get with this any and you don't even know if she will ever consider you being friends again if you and him don't work out. No matter how much your heart and mind argue back and forth, this guy won't be worth the friendship you are ruining.
I understand that you feel really into this guy, but is it really worth losing your best friend over?
-TheTeenGirl
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