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Hey I am 16 and that girl that everyone asks for advice. I love helping people out. Ask me anything! =)
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does anybody know what love is? i have my own ideas about it, but i want to hear everyone
elses oppinion. So give me your definition of love, because i want to put them all together and come up with one definition!
thanks so much :)
Love is when you find that one person that you are complettely happy with. You are so happy about the good things that you would do anything to work out the bad. Love is when you would do anything for someone, regardless if they would do the same even though you hope with all your heart they would. Love is loving someone no matter what. And when your in love with someone, you always will be. No matter how hard you try to move you will still have feelings for that person. Love sucks, when you are not loved back =(.
I have never kissed my boyfriend before. We have only been dating for two weeks. I have only seen him 3 times. I talk to him on the phone everyday. But we have an age difference... 3 years! I really like him, but i'm not sure he completely feels the same way. I really want to kiss him so badly. But however i dont want to act like a little kid planning my kiss and sex. So should i ask him or should I just kiss him?
HEY! Im goin to be very honest here...stop worying about it! And asking will make you look like an idiot. You have only seen him three times of course hes not going to like you alot yet its only been to weeks. Just wait when the moments right go for the kiss. Dont plan and dont ask. Wait until the times right and make it a great kiss something he will remeber. =P
Hope I helped
What are some nick names to call guys?
Like they call girls babe and stuff like that.
But what can we call them, that they won't hate?
For like really good friends (friends with benifits) or a boyfriend.
I call my bf sex muffin, but yea anything that will make them see more hot than cute works arounf there friends but hey when you two are alone, guys actually like those corny names I love this website check it out:
http://www.cornynames.com/
Hi im an average 16 year old teenage girl thats just really confused about a lot going on in her life. ive been hurt so many times before and i dont know how to handle. ive been abused by my boyfriends and i thought everything was turning around when i met my last boyfriend. we can just call him A. everything was going perfect we went out for a year and a half and i love him with all my heart. my parents did not like him though and the one night we got into a fight about it and he thought it would be better for me if we broke up for i could have a normal relationship for once...i didnt want it but yah thats what happend...ive been doing my best to win him back..but he's already going out with a girl he just met not even a week and a half ago..it hurts so bad..they leave lovey dovey comments back and forth on myspace that makes me sick to my stomach...and then she brags about how shes so much better then me..she's a bitch on top of it and im not just saying that cuz im an x girlfriend. something i made for my x, something that was really important she ruined and yah ..it hurt so much and he "yelled" at her but they are still together. i just dont understand and when i ask him about it he says he just wants to see wat will happen between him and her..did i mention shes 14..he's almost 16 shes going into highschool he's going to be a jr..he tells me its not gonna work and hes gonna be running back to me but i cant wait forever for him...it hurts so bad and it gets me so sick thinking about it..i dont know what to do will someone please give me some advice...
michelle...
Girl it is tough I know but you got to listen to me ok. Leave him alone. You will get him back. Stop asking him about you two, and act as if you dont even care. Take care of your self, of your skin, hair, fitness, health school, and forget about this boy. Still talk to him as a friend though. But go out with you friends and have fun. Atleast pretend that you are happy. And trust me he will come crawling back to you. He probably wants to but he knows he can be with this girl for a while and you will still take him back. Make him think you dont even care anymore. He will be the one asking for you back. When he starts flirting tell him that you never cared what your parents thought about him that you really liked him but its to bad that it had to end like that. then say oh well and quickly change the subject as if you really dont care. Your might believe thathtis will happen but trust me...it will...If by any chanceit doesnt its because there is something better out htere for you. Be happy your young, enjoy it.
Everything's bothering me
My friend has become the center of attention; the one everyone likes
Where's Caitlin in all this?
All I want is one guy
Jus for one guy to like me
For me to be real and not fake
To be recognized by some of my favoirite people
If I could give up my whole life for just one day of happiness, I'd do it
One day of me knowing the kid I like likes me back
My friend just doesn't get it
For ONCE I want the guy to fall in love with me, not her
Everyone likes her
She doesn't even know it, but it's true
And what am I...
-Kandi
Girl that your problem. Stop worrying about your friend, and stop being depressed!!!! Listen people like being around happy people. Let me guess your friend is really friendly and always seems to have a smile on her face, right? People like that. Stop being jealouse of your friend. Dedicate sometime to yourself go shoping and dont worry about guys. Make the guys you like your friends and dont obesses over them, just be happy worry about school and staying in shape. Then everyone will focus on you. Get a hobby so you have something to talk about. Try something cool like scuba diving or i dont know. Trust me it sounds hard but it is easy. You dont have to be fake, but be happy because you have no reason to be upset. do this and your whole life will turn around.
Smiles =)
This is mostly for girls I guess..... I went camping a while back and meet this really nice guy and we hit it off immediately...but at the point I didn't think about it. when i got home he had left me a message basiclly telling me that he really liked me and he wanted to hook up while we were camping. After a while of getting to like and know this guy, I realize that i am too young for him and we live to far away from eachother to have a relationship. The same day I told him this he gets a girlfriend. My friends say that I shouldn't talk to him and I should give him the cold shoulder, but I don't know what I'm going to do because he is coming down (a 2 hr drive) to see me, should I see him and be friends with him or should I call the trip off for him?
Sry bout length
NO! dont give him the cold shoulder. Heres why. He might have gotten mad and just gotten with this girl to get you angry. Let him think it doesnt bother you!!! HAHA. lol Be friends with him, theres nothing wrong with that!!! Besides I think he still likes ya considering he driving two hours to see you. And keep in touch with him (but sont always be the one keeping in touch let him call you up sometimes too) things might turn around. He might move or break up with this girl. You never know what is going to happen and there nothing wrong if you just stay friends. Just make sure not to mention his girlfriend ok?
GOOD LUCK
and i sure hope i helped
Hi. If it helps, I'm 15/f. Ok, I think I might be gay or bi. Lately, I have found myself wanting to be with a girl more than with a guy. A few weeks ago I was at the waterpark with a friend, and I checked out almost every pretty girl I saw. Now, honestly, I don't know if it is because I might be gay, or because I find myself wanting to be a lot like them. Also, there is this girl at my school who just graduated. We were friends, and she was also gay. We played softball together for 2 years. I found myself wanting to be with her more and more everyday. I have had this 'crush' on her for as long as we have known each other. First, it started out with her looks, but I as I got to know her, it became stronger. I haven't had a real 'crush' on a guy since then. I don't really find any boys that attractive any more, but I find myself checking out girls more and more often. Also, when I watch movies, I check out the girls more than the guys. It's just like the guys are there, and the girls are there for me. It's hard to explain. I mean, I don't really want a boyfriend. As awkward as this sounds, I WANT A GIRLFRIEND! You know, how usually girls dream of doing sexual things with a hot guy they see in a movie or something? I do that with girls!! Someone please tell me your honest opinion.
Alot of females have been going threw the same thing you are, me being one of them. It could just be phase. Nowadays people are really testing thier sexual boundaries, since being gay and bisexual is excepter more. But the truth is if you find a girl you want to be with, be with her, if you find a guy you want to be with be with him. Dont worry about being gay or not worry about being happy, dont label yourself! Experiment if you feel comfortable with it. The more you do the more you will find out baout your sexuality. Just please...Be Safe and use the proper protection!!!!
Hope I helped
so today my boyfriend came over to my place and wanted to see my myspace. he doesnt have a computer and cant see mine so i showed him it. there were to comments left by two guys both were my cousins friend and i only have talked to them once and he got mad about them. they didnt even say anything bad just\" hey life is good thanks 4 askin..
oh thats cool your coming to our skool i like that trust me your going to have alot of fun there and no im not going to summer skool.
but are you going to summer skool?? \" and the other one said\"hey how you doing? hows things going wich ya it was a pleasure meeting you last time ^_^ hope your doing great! \"
nothin bad but the first thing he said was i knew you talked to guys online and that you cheat on me.
someone please help me out!
Hey your bf is really jealouse, just like mine. But he has no right to tell you who you can or cant talk to. Tell him that those guys are friends and that you have not cheated on him, and that you thought he trusted you enouhgt to know that. But atleast this guy cares about you..maybe a little too much but be happy. Myspace can cause alot of relationship problems, he doesnt have one. And imagine how you would feel if he did and girls where leaving him comments..If you would be ok with that then its ok, but if you wouldnt I think its best you do what me and my bf of 2 years did. None of us have myspace and we are happy about it.
Best of luck to you 2
=)
ok i am 14 and my ex is 15 i was out of town for like a month so i stop call him because it was longdistance when i came back i was online and i IM him and we talk i told him i love him and i said ok and then he said he met a gurl at a party and she ask he to go out wit her he said yes i was so pissed .now he tells me he wants me and i constantly remind him he has a gurl .i tryed to move on it just did not work .he wants to have sex wit me and i went over his house he was flirting wit me and i had a lot of fun but i really ,truly want him back my question is how do you get someone back you truly love???????
thanks in advance
That was so messed up from him! This is what you should do. Dont pay too much attaintion to him for awhile. Next time he says he wants you, tell him that he had you, and that he couldnt even wait a week for you. Tell him you really loved him(if you have the guts to) and you dont think he feels the same. And that if he did he wouldnt be with this other girl and he has to choose.
You cant be to nice other wise he will use you stay strong and dont let him see that you really want him back
good luck girl
if he acts like a jerk stop talking to him and move on
ok well im a 15/f and my bf is a 16/m. we have been together for over a year now and i know what people are going to say your 15 sex can wait and i know it can. i mean i want to wait until later on in life but yet i sometimes feel like im ready to do it with him.. i mean me and him have talked about it before and he says he thinks hes ready but it all depends on me. i mean i love him to death and never felt this way about a guy before..he tells me he loves me alot and wouldnt make me do anything i wouldnt want to..hes told me that hes never felt this way and wouldnt know what to do if he lost me. but i mean when i say i want to i know for a fact ill chicken out because im so self conscience and like because of pain and possible bleeding. we talked about it last night and like when he wants to and stuff but he told me its up to me. like how do i know if im ready? how bad does it hurt? and like would i bleed alot? like i dont want to screw up and stuff like im scared to do it how do i get over it?
sorry its so long
thanks
(i rate)
Wow, I went through the same thing!!! My boyfriend was just as nice to me as your bf is to you. We are the lucky ones to find guys like that. And I feared the same things you do. And I would suggest not to do anything until you are sure. You can never go wrong with waiting, but if you rushinto sex you might regret it later. Your never going to get over that nervouseness, but you will know when your ready. Wait until the time is right. When I finally lost it, it didnt hurt at all. The things that you are worried about you shouldnt worry about at all trust me. Everyone is diffrent on how much it will hurt, but it will definatly hurt more if you are all tense. So when you two feel that its the right time try to relax, and dont worry about screwing up, its your first time and you will learn from it.
ok so i have been on and off with my boyfriend for about 2 months. He has dumped me 4 times and ive dumped him once and it's usually over a stupid fight and a day later he relizes what he's done and ask me to take him back, and i do. So it's summer and we dicided to keep in touch and stay togetasr. He recently got a myspace and is leaving all these girls picutres comments say damnn or cute pie, and gorgeous and stuff like that. I'll admit it i am jelous but should I be mad also. I dont want to confront him that would be way to awkward , i just dont no if i should be mad. Thankyou!
Girl..let me just say this...My boyfriend did the same thing cept he met up with one of the girls and cheated on me with her...
You have to talk to him about it. Ask him why he would be leaving comments like that, if he argues with you tell him "Look I am not trying to get into a big fight, Its just that reading those comments really made me feel bad. I mean would you like me to be leaving guys comments like that?"
Overall I suggest neither of you have a myspace, it just causes problems. I forgave my boyfriend and we both got rid of or myspaces. We have now been together for a year and 8 months and are happy.
If he wont get rid of his myspace and you cant take him leaving those comments, leave him (**FOR GOOD**) before he brakes your heart.
is it okay that my boyfriend is 3 years older than me? I'm 13 and he's 16 is that bad?
Well, how well do you know him? Older men tend to take advantage of younger women. But if you know him well and you guys really like eachother dont worry about it. It is perfectly fine. But if you dont know him that well and still want to have him as a boyfriend, although there is nothing wrong with it keep an eye out. Wish you guys the best of luck.
Smiles =)
My boyfriend and me are on sports.. He’s on baseball and I'm on softball and on Friday after my game we are going to take a shower together in the girls locker room not having sex just taking a shower together… and I was wondering what I should do because I’m scared he’ll be the first boy who ever saw my body… EVER!!
my questions are..
-what if his mom is looking for him(his mom works in the school)
-what should i do with him in there
-what if my coach comes in
I’m 15 and we’ve been going out for a while now.. About 6 months and I just need to know what to do.. Thank!!
Well first of all you need to make sure that nobody comes in there at that time, stay one day for awhile and see if anyone comes in, I guess there would be some people that clean the girls locker room. And if his mom is looking for him I am sure she wont find you guys in the locker room. Just incase when you are going to leave you step out first and make sure the cost is clear. But honestly really think about it, make sure you really like this guy and that you will be comfortable with being naked around eachother.Also remember this is a guy and you never know. You dont want to put yourself in dangerous situation if he wants to do more than just take a shower. I am almost sure he will try to do more but now that I am done preaching on here is some advice.
* It is normal to be nervouse but try not to act nervous, try your hardest to relax
* Before you get ready to go to your game make sure you shaved well (lol)you do not want a hair patch on the side of you leg. Look at yourself naked in the miror and repeat these words "Damn Im sexy" (lol) it helps boost your confidence.
* And basicall just be cute/ sexy. Flirt a bit (as much as you feel comfortable with)Tilt your head back and let the water run over you hair look at him smile ect... If there's soap or w/e help him wash off, and kiss. It all depends what you are comfortable with.
* If he wants to do more dont be afraid to say no. You should never let him try to convince you to do something you dont want to do. And any way heres a good line just in case "I dont want to go that far in a situation like this/ I want it to be safe and intimate when we do that."
Just have fun but be careful, if youd o get caught they might let both of your parents know, and word gets around fast and you might get labeled as a slut.
Hope I helped and if you need more advice feel free to ask. =)
Hi my name is yousif and i need some advice.Ok here's the thing..i like one of my cousins who is also a twin..they are almost identical but i can know which is who and naturally i like one more than the other..this is probably my biggest crush so far(i hope you dont think its weird to like your cousin)..the problem is i donno if she likes me back..i see her once a week in my granpa's house(we go to different schools and have different friends)..and when we do see each other we r always in the same room with our relatives(including our parents)..i can tell she is the shy kind..sometimes i stare at her(i cant help it) and she knows it but she always looks away or to the floor..im not worried about other guys(especially strangers)because she rejects guys she dont know(im not saying shes a coquette)..anyway can u plzzz help me know if she likes me back without having to make a move or do something funny in front of my relatives..im running out of people to ask and im more desperate for an answer than ever..she just looks damn good even without makeup(couldnt help writing it)..thank u
Hey sorry I got your message so late but you have a serious issue. I don’t think it is weird at all but a relationship with your cousin would not be very healthy. And if you two do go out the family will not be too happy about it, on top of that if you break up imagine how horrible that would be. I suggest you find someone else. Anyway almost everyone has that hot cousin, most people ignore it. I know you must feel horrible but try and find another girl. If it doesn’t work out and u still like her then there’s only one thing you can do.
*You have to talk to her, this is a big step and you have to be ok with the fact that she might totally freak out but I help you with how to avoid that. As far as knowing if she likes you, you should have an idea. And if she notices you looking at her does she look at you too? Just look out for signs. You really should have an idea though. If you think she does talk to her.
***Tell her you need to talk to her in private, don’t straight out tell her either, say something like
\"(Her name here) ummm what do you think of me? \"
She will answer something like
\"Uhmmmm...your a cool kid... I guess\"
She obviously won’t say she likes you, that is when you have to say something like
You: \"just a cool kid right\"
Her:\"huh? \"
You: \"well do you find me attractive? \"
Then you will hear one of these answers
Either: \"uh yea I guess\"
Or: \"what are you talking about your my cousin\"
If she answered the first one say: \"look I feel really weird about this because you are my cousin but I think I like you. \"
If she answers the second one make something up like: \"because there’s this girl I like and I don’t know if she would find me attractive. \"
Please answer me back based on your age I can tell you what to do, a younger girl would take things differently.
And I really would like to hear how things went, whatever happens you will still need more advice; either on how to move on, or how to make the relationship work.
Really hope I helped
well my ex and i went out for about 6 months and i got really attached and then she broke up with me at the valentines day dance. well i still have strong feelings for her, but she has a b/f now and im really missing her. well she says she is missing me back and she says she still loves me, but yet she wont brake up with her current b/f to be with me. im starting to fall in love with one of her friends from soccer but i still love my ex more than her friend bu tim getting the feeling my ex is just making up that she misses me, and i told her if she doesnt brake up with her current b/f for me im gonna ask someone else out, but she doesnt know that its her friend from soccer that i like. idk wut to do. plz help me.
If you people broke up, you broke up for a reason, and she has moved on. I would definatly not suggest going out with her friend, especially if they are good friends. Forget about her and her friend, find someone else, and if she does still like you she will come crawling back, then it will be your turn to decide wether to forgive her or not. And if she doesn't come bak she wasnt right for you in the first place.
Hope I helped and if you need more advice feel free to ask.
so as most of you know i WAS in a relationship with a abusive guy and i told him that i want to break up with him..and he brok two of my ribs...and gave me a cuncution...:-(
but on the flip side hes goin to juvey!! and i realized (thanks to ALL of u!!!!!) that he was an a** hole. plain and simple..and all i get are threatining letters/phone calls..but what i am afraid of is his friends. his friends stick by him 100%..and my house got TP (toilet paperd) and lilke a dead rat was on my door step (says my mom) and like i got threating letters in my locker saying "bitch if u tell ill kill you" or "we know you told hoe, were ganna do what jake did" (jake rapped me.)
so PLZ help!!!!
These guys are threatening your life! You have to call the police and no one will call you a baby for it, trust me this is some serious stuff and these guys are a**holes! Im glad you got away from that old boyfriend, stay away from these people and never be by yourself. They gave good advice here by saying to take the notes as evidence. Dont ever communicate with your ex, EVER, if he calls dont accept the calls. Just get to the police, you have to make sure nobody will hurt you again, you sound like a great girl and you are very brave. Dont let these a**holes ruin your life.
please get back to me and tell me how everything went, I wish you the best of luck and Im sure everything will work out just fine.
So I'm 15. And I'm a female,
is there something wrong with me?
I'm attracted to older guys, I'm sure they dont like me. Or wont ever, but I find myself wanting older guys, like they seem more appealing to me, because like ALL the guys in my grade are so imature. I wish theyd grow up. I dont know though.
I just hope its nto wrong for me to like odler guys? Because I have no interest in any of the guys in my grade =/
Theres nothing wrong with it just be careful cause older guys tend to take advantage of younger girls, and the guys who you find immature now will eventually grow up and then everything will be fine =)
this week end my best friend's family is coming over for easter. The boy I like is my best friends brother so he's coming to. I'm really worried I'll do something wrong and make him not like me because i think he does like me. what should i do??
Just relax and be happy, dont try to impress him, and dont spend all your time with him. Let things flow, whatever happens, happens. Just try not get nervouse and if you think you are then dont hang with him that much instead hang with your best friend and if they are both together go into your room and breath in deeply, then breath out. Continue till you are ready, then walk out the door with a smile on your face (not a creepy smile though)
I am sure everything will go great
good luck! =)
ok u r 16...and im...younger. anyways i have a boyfriend...he is one cool kid, and i really like him!! but im not so sure my friends approve :-\
i love him so much...but every little thing he does is wrong in ther eyes. i am not willing to give him up, but i dont want my friends to hate me!!
wht do i do?
-boy troubles
You have to tell your friends how you feel girl! Tell them that you really like him and it makes you feel bad when they say mean things about him. If they are your real friends they will understand and I am sure they wont hate you. Just make sure that you spend time with them too; not just your boyfriend. Like maybe you can make fridays for your friends and all of you go out to get your nails done or go to the mall. And stuff like that.
(And I dont think going out with your boyfriend and them would be a good idea until they accept him; which can take awhile. Remember that if they are good friends, they are probably just trying to protect you)
If you told them and they still bother you about it they are not your real friends and I suggest you find others by joining a club or going to volunteer somewhere.
Hope I helped and if you need any more advice just ask =)
14/f
Okay, here's my problem. You see, I really like guys, I really do. I go on dates with them, have crushes on them, they are the ones I want to have a relationship and all that.
But recently I have felt something new. You see I have my friend friend, let's call her Katie. Katie and I are inseperable, always going places together, hanging out whatever. I enjoy being around her so much. I've always felt just fine around her, until about three months ago.
I don't know what happened but soon I felt like I always needed to impress her, look pretty in front of her, and I saw how beautiful she is. I swear she is the most gorgeous person I know! And when she comes over now I just want to be close to her and hug her and touch her. I mean I caught myself starring at her chest the other day and having some daydream that she was kissing me! I don't know what's going on!
Like last night she spent the night at my house, and we sleep in the same bed. Normally it's a double bed, but since I'm rearanging my room it got reduced to a twin. So we srunched together close and I felt so guilty because I enjoyed her body pressed up against mine. And while we were talking all I wanted to do was just lean in and kiss her. It's so weird! And half the time I just want to hold her and know that she is mine and she like me as more than a friend.
But the thing I don't get is that all my guy friends say that they could see us together as lesbiens and i always brush it off because I like guys but her and I always play around kiss each other on the cheek and spoon (the sleeping poission) while we're sleeping, and strattle each other when we're play fighting, just being silly. And some days she says "Sometimes I swear I am a lesbian." and she says it in a joking way, but does she mean it as a joke? I just want her so bad, she's like my other half.
So am I bi? Can you just someday wake up and feel sexual towards someone of the same sex? And if so, if I am bi, how do I tell her? Because she knows me so well and she'll figure it out soon. So what do I say to her? Do I ever tell her that I like her in that way? Thanks for any advice you can give me. I rate high.
Hey I understand I have gone throught the same thing, dont worry your just in a experimental age, those guys remarks probably put those thoughts in your head and now you are thinking about it. You probably arent bi and your friend has probably thought about it too just next time she makes a comment about being a les ask her if she is seriouse cause you think you are. From there what ever happens happens, dont worry about being bi or not cause at the end you should just do whatever you feel comfortable with, and remember dont label yourself this just away to learn more about your sexuality. So what if your bi or strait, the truth is you are not sure right now.
If you need more advice feel free to ask, I know what you are going threw.