Hi my name is yousif and i need some advice.Ok here's the thing..i like one of my cousins who is also a twin..they are almost identical but i can know which is who and naturally i like one more than the other..this is probably my biggest crush so far(i hope you dont think its weird to like your cousin)..the problem is i donno if she likes me back..i see her once a week in my granpa's house(we go to different schools and have different friends)..and when we do see each other we r always in the same room with our relatives(including our parents)..i can tell she is the shy kind..sometimes i stare at her(i cant help it) and she knows it but she always looks away or to the floor..im not worried about other guys(especially strangers)because she rejects guys she dont know(im not saying shes a coquette)..anyway can u plzzz help me know if she likes me back without having to make a move or do something funny in front of my relatives..im running out of people to ask and im more desperate for an answer than ever..she just looks damn good even without makeup(couldnt help writing it)..thank u
someone1234 answered Monday April 24 2006, 7:50 pm: Hey sorry I got your message so late but you have a serious issue. I don’t think it is weird at all but a relationship with your cousin would not be very healthy. And if you two do go out the family will not be too happy about it, on top of that if you break up imagine how horrible that would be. I suggest you find someone else. Anyway almost everyone has that hot cousin, most people ignore it. I know you must feel horrible but try and find another girl. If it doesn’t work out and u still like her then there’s only one thing you can do.
*You have to talk to her, this is a big step and you have to be ok with the fact that she might totally freak out but I help you with how to avoid that. As far as knowing if she likes you, you should have an idea. And if she notices you looking at her does she look at you too? Just look out for signs. You really should have an idea though. If you think she does talk to her.
***Tell her you need to talk to her in private, don’t straight out tell her either, say something like
"(Her name here) ummm what do you think of me? "
She will answer something like
"Uhmmmm...your a cool kid... I guess"
She obviously won’t say she likes you, that is when you have to say something like
You: "just a cool kid right"
Her:"huh? "
You: "well do you find me attractive? "
Then you will hear one of these answers
Either: "uh yea I guess"
Or: "what are you talking about your my cousin"
If she answered the first one say: "look I feel really weird about this because you are my cousin but I think I like you. "
If she answers the second one make something up like: "because there’s this girl I like and I don’t know if she would find me attractive. "
Please answer me back based on your age I can tell you what to do, a younger girl would take things differently.
And I really would like to hear how things went, whatever happens you will still need more advice; either on how to move on, or how to make the relationship work.
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