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getting someone back you really love
ok i am 14 and my ex is 15 i was out of town for like a month so i stop call him because it was longdistance when i came back i was online and i IM him and we talk i told him i love him and i said ok and then he said he met a gurl at a party and she ask he to go out wit her he said yes i was so pissed .now he tells me he wants me and i constantly remind him he has a gurl .i tryed to move on it just did not work .he wants to have sex wit me and i went over his house he was flirting wit me and i had a lot of fun but i really ,truly want him back my question is how do you get someone back you truly love???????
thanks in advance
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Hi, honesty is the best thing that you could do. Tell him that you like him and would like to get back together again. What I don't understand is if he's already going out with another girl, then why does he all of a sudden want to get back with you and HAVE SEX. It sounds as though he wants 2 girls and you for some sex, then what from there? He may dump you and had been using you just for the pleasure of life. I would just be very very careful about this guy. You may truely love him but true love is when 2 people love each other because they enjoy each others company, not just for the sex and seeing someone behind anothers back. I could be wrong, but it does sound a little fishy don't you think? Be careful about what your going to do. Give it a bit more time then if he isn't improving then he isn't worth your time. Daniel.
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Dear Friend,
Are you blind? This boy is using you. Sounds like you're still friends, but he doesn't deserve anything more. You shouldn't be the one worrying about how to get him back - he should be begging you. Give it time. You're still young, and soon you'll see that there is more to a relationship than this type of behaviour.
Don't let anyone pressure you into doing something you don't want to. Your body, your call.
Love,
Ainsley.
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That was so messed up from him! This is what you should do. Dont pay too much attaintion to him for awhile. Next time he says he wants you, tell him that he had you, and that he couldnt even wait a week for you. Tell him you really loved him(if you have the guts to) and you dont think he feels the same. And that if he did he wouldnt be with this other girl and he has to choose.
You cant be to nice other wise he will use you stay strong and dont let him see that you really want him back
good luck girl
if he acts like a jerk stop talking to him and move on
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