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i am 16/f.my boyfriend is very frank with me. he says there is nothing to be shy about when we both love each other. i know he has a point but i just can't stop getting shy. one of these days he asked me what i use to shave my genitals and i went red like a tomato. he laughed....did not mind though.i love him a lot and truly i have no problem with him. i just start getting butterflies when he gets closer with naughty chats or physically...and i am shy though i know i am very comfortable with him in every aspect . i know he will respect my feelings but still i am shy. and yesterday...he said he could not control so he started kissing me and stuff.....he didnot penetrate but he was touching me and licking me over there....i was moaning like hell....and twisting like anything...he had a hard time to put me in place and continue and i pleaded him to stop bcuz i was feeling shy but he continued..and suddenly i felt this urge to pee.....but he still continued and....i started feeling something i can't explain...like someone is tickling me and i want it to get over but i don't want it to stop .... finally he pinned me down with his weight n made me helpless n continued doing his stuff till i ....started trembling...he stopped and asked me to let go but i didn't, he said he wanted to see it but i didn't....finally he gave up. is this shyness normal?..was the moaning and twisting and asking him to stop normal?...was the urge to pee and trembling normal?....if i really let go infront of him...will he feel good or..will nothing come out other than urine?...plz help. he is really sad and i am too. (link)
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From what I have read you don't seem emotionally ready for this kind of relationship. That peeing sensation is the feeling you get before orgasm. All these things are. Completely natural and if you were to release this feeling it would feel very good. But only do this if you are ready. I suggest if you have sex to use a condom. Be safe and have fun
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Your Open Question: Why would my girlfriend plant an earring that isn't hers in our bedroom?
Before you answer with the obvious maybe she didn't or I'm just paranoid. I rummaged through our kitchen garbage and found the matching earring tied up in a bag inside the garbage can. Why did I search for it? Because I wanted to prove my innocence and I knew she was up to something. The question I want to pose is as follows. Is this a manipulation attempt, or she trying to break it off with me? (link)
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Why not confront her? Tell her you found the other earring in the garbage and ask how it got there. Just call her out, it is inevitable it seems so you might as well do it before it escalates.
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so i have had this guy best friend for about 3 years now and he tends to get a lot of admirers , he finds it annoying when a girl like him (unless he likes the back) and has always considered me as "the safe girl". I think im really falling for him now but have no idea what to do! Any ideas? (link)
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I was in this same situation when I was in school.
I had a great guy friend and he had a lot of girls that liked him, I fell for him and though we did end up dating I wish I had stopped myself. We eventually broke up and it destroyed our friendship, that was two years ago and we barely started talking again.
Weigh the pros and cons, there's plenty of fish in the sea but a good friend is hard to come by.
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My boyfriend and I broke up and he returned my things...He was using the strategy to try and talk to me but i was working so he did not catch me home.....i am usually at school on mondays but i had to be at work because my boss forgot and put me on schedule to work....he thought i would be home but i was working....we ended up talking on the phone and he thought that i hd been hanging out with another guy...he didnt trust me....i didnt trust him either....the conversation ended in him breaking up with me. A part of me is relieved and another in denial......I still have some of his tees and hats and stuff like that....I want to return it but in a very classy way. Would going to his work and giving them back while he is on break be a good idea? Or just dropping a box with his things at his door step? I want it to be a pinch for him...I feel it's so immature of him to break up over the phone....I feel like if he saw me it would be a different story... (link)
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When I broke up with my boyfriend he told me to return all the things he got me because I didn't deserve them. I simply put it in a box and left it on his porch. I sent him a text and said his stuff was outside. (Since it was raining I didn't want it to get ruined.) It's easy and painless.
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My boyfriend and i are 18 and a month ago we started having sex he was a virgin and the thing is he cums too soon just as i start enjoying it he only lasts a few minutes before he cums i'm not sure is there anyway to get him to last longer? (link)
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This is really common, in my previous relationships I've been with a few virgins, I find that it takes a long time for them to build up a long lasting time limit, you can try a few things that might help, try foreplay some days instead of sex, and when you have sex go for a few minutes, stop and try just maybe massaging his back and then go again, best of luck.
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I found out that my 15 yearold boyfriend got me pregnant.I called him and told him and he freaked out. He told he can't take care of a baby now and that he doesnt want to be part of this.I don't know what to do about the baby.I don't know how to tell my parents and don't know what to do about my boyfriend.I need help and I'm scared. (link)
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My ex boyfriend's mother was thirteen when she had him, it was hard, not only that but her boyfriend was 17 at the time, her parents had a hard time accepting what she had done. And when the time came she was so tiny that her birth was premature, he was born at six months, she almost died and they had a hard time, she raised him by herself and it wasn't easy. I suggest you take another test just to be safe. If it's positive you need to tell your parents, it will be hard but it has to be done, you might be surprised, I had a scare once, and I told my mom and she oddly was supportive of me. Then you need to decide the best option.
There are three options.
One carry out with the pregnancy and give birth.
Two Carry it out and give the baby up for adoption, you can give the baby the chance to have a good life.
Three You can get an abortion, I am pro-life and I normal would be against it, but you are thirteen and your boyfriend hung you out to dry. You're so little chances are this is going to be an emotional and physical struggle. You could die giving birth if you're not big enough, and your baby could die too. I suggest you tell your mother at least and go to the doctor, see what they suggest...
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Hi, Im a female of 14. So there's this boy I like and last night while I was frenching him, people were like ew they're kissing. so today someone asked if i Frenched ir Madeout with him. I don't know the difference. What's the difference between Frenching, Making out, and just kissing? (link)
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Frenching is when you use tongue when you kiss, it's inbetween kissing and making out. A kiss is more of a closed mouth short exchange. While making out is a lot longer and open mouthed, it sometimes includes tongue and can go as long as you want.
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What does it mean when a guy throws things down your shirt, and looks at your lips and eyes? (link)
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Nothing, it means they are immature, all my guy friends do this. They even keep score.
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15/f
So there's this boy.
We've been pretty good friends for about a year or so now, and I really like him, I've liked him for a while, and I've heard rumours from friends that he supposedly likes me. My parents aren't terribly fond of him, but my brother and I love him. I've never had a boyfriend and he hasn't had a girlfriend; we're both kind of awkward, not really dating-type people, but all my friends tell mw we'd make a great couple. What should I do in this situation? All [serious] answers are appreciated :)
Note~ We have the same German class, study hall and lunch, and we have each other's numbers. (link)
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Tell him in person, not over text or phone, just lay it all out, it'll be really hard, but if he likes you too, it' be worth it.
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I have this friend and we've been friends for almost four years. I've finally buckled up enough strength to tell him that I liked him more than a friend. He said you know we've already had this conversation and if it happens,it happens. I really didn't quite understand what that meant. I don't want him to play games with me and I really hope thats not what he's doing. We talk on the phone a lot and we really just enjoy each other's company. What should I do? (link)
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If it happens it happens, let time show you, if it's meant to be it's meant to be. That's the best advice I was ever given when it comes to love (:
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I had sex on a Saturday morning and took a plan B pill Monday. I have had burning urination for the past 2 hours and it is now Tuesday. Does this mean I have a STD or side effects from the pill? Please help, I need answers but can't let none of family or friends know. (link)
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A sexually transmitted disease takes a lot longer then a few days to show symptoms. It could be a urinary tract infection.
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15/f
Well......There is this guy me and him are Best Friends even after we went out. He is a year younger than me but we diceied to give it a shot. We went out for like a week we wouldnt do anything like hold hands or kiss that kind of stuff because my cousis were down and they were ALWAYS around us. When we were going out I aksed why he liked me and he said the sweetest thing "I liked you the very frist day i meet you" That was sweet. But now he is going out with this girl a year younger than him and im mad because he said the only reason he is going out with her is becuase she will 'put out'. The only reason we didnt do anything was because of my family it isnt my fault.
So....my question is How do I deal with this i really like him.....and i wanna go back out with him but he is goin out with a girl 2 younger than me and 1 year younger than him. (link)
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You are 15, you do not need to be. "putting out"
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how long does a hickey last
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It really depends on the person, healing time varies, but I say about anywhere from 3-9 days.
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im a girl. and im 14 :p okay so, ill start rom the beginning. in April i dated this guy Magilla (ehh, code name). he was my first love and i dated him for three months.he left me because i wouldnt have sex with him. and i was so heart broken. id have alot of good friends that helped me. one of them was Jonny. Jonny at that time had a girlfriend that he was with for a whole year. so he was there for me through everything. so when school started again in August, Jonny helped me get to most of my classes and i started to really like him. and i knew he did too. me and Jonny would always get high together and have the most funnest time ever when we hung out :)he was like me brother. but i always felt like hed use me becase when his girlfriend wasnt there hed treat me like i was his gf. and i didnt like that. him and his gf broke up last week (its October now)and he asked me out. but......i dont like him as much as he likes me. being in a relationship with him is so different from us just being friends. his kiss dosent feel right. nor when we cuddle. im so confused. i wanna leave him but i know we wont have the same friendship we had befor. help? :( (link)
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I'm going to give you some girl to girl advice, I'm 18 now and when I was 14 I was where you were, well maybe 15 but eh.
So I dumped a guy who wanted to have sex with me, but we dated a year. Shortly after my best friend of 4 years uhm we'll call him "seth" dumped his girlfriend of 2 years, I was 16 at that time and he was 17
Well Seth and I started this relationship up, Our first kiss I got total butterflies, but after that, it started to feel weird, I just thought, I used to think of him as a brother and here I am with my tongue down his throat cuddling up watching movies with him. It's weird transitioning from friends to lovers. Because your mindset takes a bit longer to shift from friendship to relationship.
You can go ahead and break it off, your friendship will not be the same no matter what. Sorry, I've been romantic with a few friends, and i've only successfully stayed friends with about 3 out of 7 of these guys and these were brief encounters, I am talking about one night, I didn't date any of them except for Seth.
Well anyway, you can break up with Johnny and try and be friends, but it won't be the same, or you can give it some time, it will feel weird for a while but it's just because of that transition, it's kind of like breaking in a new pair of shoes, it takes some getting used to that feeling.
I say give it a few weeks, and if things still weird simply tell him it feels weird and you'd rather have your friendship back, he might understand he might not. You are 14 though, remember that. Chances are when you are 18 you will have a different boyfriend and different friends.
I'm not with Seth anymore and he and I are not friends, we are complete strangers to one another and it sucks, but I love the time I had with him, it was the best relationship I've had so far. You could miss out on a great experience but you could also lose out on a friend.
Sorry if I confused you further but I hope this helps dear (:
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As a guy, sometimes I have trouble initiating sex, but mainly when asking for something only for myself.
My girlfriend has no trouble with oral sex, she isn't grossed out by it, and she says she likes making me feel good. We've been together for a year, and normally she has to initiate this.
We have slightly different libidos, so there are times she'd rather give oral than have full on sex with me, or during her period.
Sometimes I end up feeling selfish when it's only me getting pleasured and she isn't in the mood for it, which is one reason why I have trouble asking her for it. People have said "just be direct and ask," but there is literally no romance in that.
Is there any good way to ask her for oral sex when I am wanting some, or any indirect way of showing her that I want it? Also, I'm not going to push her head down or do anything that direct or degrading. (link)
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There's no other way than asking for it, there can be romance in asking for it, but ask indirectly, imply it rather than ask.
For Example:
"Babe, I love how good you are at oral."
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"I was just thinking about how good you make me feel when you [insert dirty deed here]"
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So my boyfriend went out of town a few weeks ago and promised he'd kiss me when he got back and that sorta didn't happen we both got nervous and he kinda kissed me right above my lip... so anyway he's gone again and I had been so mad that I didn't go for the kiss the last time so I promised I would kiss him on our next date which is in a week. I'm terrified! I really want to kiss him because I love him but I'm just so nervous about how to bring it up and when to actually do it on our date. This is my first kiss and his also so I have no idea what to do.
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You will know when the time is right, you'll get this feeling in your whole body just to kiss him, listen to that feeling, but if he doesn't look like he wants to then don't keep going. Just close your eyes slightly turn your head open your mouth only slightly and softly close them on his.
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How many regret breaking up with there first love?
we break up with our first loves (didnt fall out of love) because we want to go out and have fun and party with their friends and think maybe after a few years they will just find another person. How many people end up doing this and regret loosing their first love? Just out of curiosity, and how long did it ever take you to realize it was a mistake? tell me your stories, i really would like to hear them if you dont mind :) (link)
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I don't regret it but sometimes I miss what I had.
I dated this guy for a year my first love, we lost our virginity to one another and were happy with one another. Well I grew tired, of the same person I wanted to see what it was like to be with other people, he was controlling and paranoid. Well I broke up with him and two years later here I am. Sometimes I look back and miss it, he made me happy. I talk to him sometimes and visit him. I still love him but not the same. I miss it now and then and I tell him when I do. But I would never get back together with him.
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My boyfriend and i have started having sex we were both virgins we are both 17 and everytime we have sex he doesn't last that long his penis goes soft and i can't get him hard again i'm not sure if it's nerves or not but he only last a couple of minutes and soemtimes it takes awhile for him to get an erection he's really embarrassed im not sure what to do how can i get him to last longer? (link)
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This is very common for males when they first start having sex, it may take several times for it to start lasting longer, don't let him get embarrassed. Don't let it be a big deal, if he goes soft or he cannot get an erection, whisper in his ear that it's okay and then bite his ear lobe lightly and suck on it, kiss his neck and rub your hands on his body. Don't let him think you care it went away. This will arouse him and hopefully will help. Good luck (:
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How do you kiss?? I've never kissed before besides my dresser and I'm going on a trip in 9 days and I wanted to know just in case? How can I practice (link)
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Don't hang your mouth open, close your eyes right before turn your head slightly and just kiss them slightly opening your mouth at the time.
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.. my friend and i had sex but not to the point where my cherry was broke & im not shure if he "got excited" in me or not.. if he did.. is it possible for me to get pregnant?
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By got excited do you mean he became erect or he ejaculated, in any case if you did not use protection then it is likely especially if he ejaculated, I suggest you get the morning after pill, even if your cherry isn't broken you are still able to conceive, if it has been more than 78 hours after then wait two weeks to take a pregnancy test.
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