So my boyfriend went out of town a few weeks ago and promised he'd kiss me when he got back and that sorta didn't happen we both got nervous and he kinda kissed me right above my lip... so anyway he's gone again and I had been so mad that I didn't go for the kiss the last time so I promised I would kiss him on our next date which is in a week. I'm terrified! I really want to kiss him because I love him but I'm just so nervous about how to bring it up and when to actually do it on our date. This is my first kiss and his also so I have no idea what to do.
14/f
Additional info, added Monday July 25 2011, 3:46 pm: Thanks for the advice, I did it! It was great and led to a few more after... :) But I kissed him!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? QueenofBlues answered Sunday July 17 2011, 12:57 am: Trust me, I've been where you are. I've had my fair share of awkward first kisses and things like that. Maybe you feel that you're not ready and that you're too nervous...but who really is ready for a first kiss? If I were you, I wouldn't "bring it up", I would just try to let it happen. When you talk to him, be kinda flirty and keep getting closer to his face...maybe make a joke about it somehow saying he missed your lips last time. Basically, no advice is really gonna help you with your first kiss. You may have a plan all worked out, but it totally changes once you're in the situation. All I can say is...good luck and kiss that boy! [ QueenofBlues's advice column | Ask QueenofBlues A Question ]
melissa123 answered Sunday July 17 2011, 12:40 am: in my opinoin if your this nervouss then i don't think your ready. when you kiss someone it just happenes, it's not planned because when it is, it just doesn't turn out righht.
smileydino answered Sunday July 17 2011, 12:22 am: You will know when the time is right, you'll get this feeling in your whole body just to kiss him, listen to that feeling, but if he doesn't look like he wants to then don't keep going. Just close your eyes slightly turn your head open your mouth only slightly and softly close them on his. [ smileydino's advice column | Ask smileydino A Question ]
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