Is he using me to pass the time before he leaves for college?
Question Posted Sunday July 17 2011, 12:29 am
My ex and i broke were together for a year and a month, and have been broken up for one month. Through the one month, we would talk on and off and sometimes he'd be a complete dick and other times he'd be really sweet. He invited me to hangg out with him 2 weeks ago and said bring a friend so i said ill bring my friend Kyle.. and he blew up on me and everything because i was going to bring a guy even though when we broke up he told me he wasnt in love with me etc. so i didnt think hed care. And after that night we had no contact for two weeks up until two days ago, he called me and asked to hang out and i said sure. so it was me and him and we had so much fun.. he held my hand like he use to, kissed me and everything. but he is really into the clubbing and smoking scene which is whatever. then yesterday he called me and we hung out again all day.. we had so much fun and he would tell me he missed me so much and even got tears in his eyes etc. and kissed me alot. then today he texted me and i told him i was going out to a club etc. and we talked on and off. but then around 11 he called and said its going to rain so be safe please. things like this hed never do during our relationship. and he said he still loves me but i said theres a diffrence in loving someone and being in love and he said im not there yet.. but he still talks to other girls and i talk to guys which reallly made him jealous the past two days. so idk what to do? does he want to start something again or using me to pass the time before he goes off to college?
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