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Is he worth it, and is she really my friend?


Question Posted Saturday July 16 2011, 8:43 pm

this is long but I'll try to make it short. so I've been seeing this boy for one year now but we broke up recently because he said he's still in love with his ex but i told him i'll wait on him maybe his feelings will fade away however the other day i was running true my girl friends phone which is his friend too but she happen to be really close to him than me anyway i saw some text msg from him telling her how he's crazy about her, during our relation we had problems because of her but he would always say they jus fren and she would say he's jus like i brother to her thus i found out that she would be talking about me with him how im with his friend etc . i still like this gay altho we left we still act like we together we still ahve sex etc . is he worthed and is she really my frien?

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Additional info, added Sunday July 17 2011, 1:21 am:
if she's a good fren why didnt she tell me about this in the first place insteadin of lying about it and even tho i found out both of it the tryna turn it around on me because i went true da phone.

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QueenofBlues answered Sunday July 17 2011, 1:11 am:
From what I hear it sounds like you initiate most of your relationship. The fact you told him that you would wait for him even when he admitted to being in love with someone else after a whole year probably makes him think that you are always someone he can depend on if he wants a relationship. He's obviously talking to your friend but he still acts like he is in a relationship with you and he still has sex with you.

I don't think this guy is worth it. There are plenty of guys out there and even if you feel like you love him now, you're probably gonna meet someone a thousand times better in your life and laugh at yourself for even liking this dude. As for your friend, I don't think she's really doing anything wrong. I mean, the guy is the one who told her that he was crazy about her, it doesn't necessarily mean the same for her. If she's a good friend to you otherwise, keep her.

Hope this all works out for you girl!

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