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how i can make women to like me? (link)
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theres really no magic way to make women like you.
make sure youre clean, shower regularily and dress nicely. be a gentleman. so sensitive, considerate but dont be femanine or overly sensitive.girls like to feel safe. they like to feel loved and feel like theyre protected and that everythings going to be ok and you need to make them feel that. but most importantly you need to be yourself.
make sure you make nice style
your not trying too hard and go out more.meet new people and youll meet some nice ladies
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Ok ths is a question for the women .I want to know what a woman thinks about her man .my problem is iv been in a relationship with my fiance for 6 years now and at first our love life was great .now its not so great .its been way over a year now that we haven't made love ,cuddle, or anything to that matter .and I just can't figure it out .I give her everything she could have ever wanted .I'm a hard worker I work 2 jobs to provide her with anything she wants and I'm sure a lot of women whould kill for a man like that .and all I ask in return is to make love from time to time but all I get is the cold shoulder .iv talked to her before about this but I don't get anywhere with her its always an excuse .I'm on the rag or it hurts to have sex .I'm at the wits end ! What do I do .don't I have needs ? I feel rejected and I feel like I'm only here for a paycheck .please anyone out there give me some feed back as to what I should do ,thanks ,,,,, (link)
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I agree with what the other person commented,another thing you could do it woo her...get dressed up,take her out to a romantic dinner buy her flowers,i know you do alot but try to make her feel beautiful again..make sure its a night shes not on the rag lol
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I want to really show my girlfriend that I love her a whole lot. I always tell her I love her but I want to prove it. What are some great ways to show my girlfriend who much I really care for her and love her? I want her to know that I completely and totally love her with every cell in my body. How can I prove that love to her? All idea are accepted and appreciated. (link)
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aww thats very cute!!!buy her flowers,take her out on exciting adventures...surprise her..and dont forget about the RE FOR HER :) shes a lucky girl
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hello im a 17 male and today was me n my girlfriends 6 month aniversery and i was going to go hang out with her but instead i went and hung out with my friend and i met this other girl and i ended up cheating on my girlfriend not anything serious just a few kisses but now i like this other girl alot and confused about what to do and who to go with (link)
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dont lead your gf on,she doesnt deserve it...if you cheated on her obviously your not happy with her.kissing is just as serious,a cheat is a cheat...id probably break things off just until you know what you want instead of hurting them both...try not to cheat next time
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My girlfriend is really pretty and we've been dating for 4 months. Before we started actually dating she told me about her passed and that she's hooked up with a lot of guys. She told me that it was "more than a dozen" guys she's had sex with before. I love her though and I told her it didn't matter and I loved her anyways. Well, lately she is been hanging out with these groups of guys. I know for a fact she's had sex with some of the guys more than once because she told me that before. I told her that it hurt me she was spending time with these guys that used her and she told me that it makes her happy to be able to spend time with these guys. I'm really actually getting mad because I'm hurt by all this and she doesn't understand what it's like to hear her laughing on the phone when they're out and me not knowing if she's REALLY safe from these creeps. I want her to have friends, boys and girls, but not the people who she has had sex with? especially that this one guy she keeps hanging out with told me (at school lunch break) he's been having sex with her when they get together. I don't believe him but I do think he's been hitting on her and that pisses me off that she lets that go on.
What do i do about this mess? (link)
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eeekkk i think you have to put her in a situation where its either your or them...ofcourse you should be angry these are guys that she had physical contact with and ofcourse you trust her but do you trust them?no i didnt think so!
I think you should lay it all out on the table,tell her that i know they make her happy but you should be the one making her happy...also let her know that other things make her happy too,she doesnt need anyone to make her happy she just needs you.tell her that you trust her but dont trust them because they spread rumours and just tell her about what one of those guyys said but mention that you dont believe them...she needs to realise that your the one getting hurt...i would be too!
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I am a 30 year old female in a new relationship with a 35 year old male. I called him last night and he said he was on another line with his son and that he would call me right back. he never called back. the next day I asked him what happend and he said he fell asleep. shouldnt I be deserving of a text message or aquick call to tell me he isnt up for conversation especially since he said he would call me right back. (link)
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OFCOURSE YOU DOOO!!you deserve all the respect you can get from your man! I guess because this is a new relationship and hes a guy hes still in the first stages of the relationship where hes not clingy and still getting to know you. If hes like this from the start then it worries my!I think you should play his game and play hard to get, maybe even try to get him to chase after you instead of making the 1st movve. Wait till he txts you or calls you first,get him to do the chasing around for abit!Thats what you deserve. Hope i helpeddd
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I had to cut off communication with someone I had known for a long time,as she was married,and at the same time really out of control sexually,(swinging,involved in prostitution,leading me on,etc),and incapapble of honest communication with me.Honestly,though I had known her for many years,this last year I was getting intense anxiety attacks around her.Now,she is spamming me constantly,(I see her IP address),and coming around all the places I go to ,with her husband,places she normally would not go to,as she lives 24 miles away.I gave up trying to communicate with her months ago,as I never got an honest answer.We used to talk daily,and I stopped because she admitted that she was just leading me on,would not explain why she let her father in law feel her up in public,and a lot of other things that I thought were pretty gross.Why is she coming around and also spamming me? How do I handle this? (link)
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wooow!she sounds knocked in the head,no ofence!!!!
have you tried to change your email?or number?I know its so annoying to have to do that but it may just work!if not then threaten to tell her husband about everything (even if you wont really do it) try get a restraining order against her if she wont leave you alone...or even try talking to her one more time,maybe she needs to hear it one more time calmly,just say its over,leave me alone or i will get a restraining order against you or explain why you dont want to talk to her again.Hope i helped!sorry your in this creepy situationnn
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ok so me and my friend are supose to date soon but we couldnt this year because of broken hearts and so on but anyways she told me that shes a nympho which is a sex addict and shes cheated a lot in the past and for the past week i keep askin myself wat if she cheats on me? that is the last thing i need the past 2 years have been pretty rough on me and my heart can't take much more but i really love her and i want to be more than friends what should i do??? (link)
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you have two choices..either have a physical relationship which i think it wrong because you already love her and will only lead to heart ach.the other choice is to talk to her and put it all out on the table.she needs to know that your scared shes going to cheat on you.you cant go into a relationship having doubts and not trusting her.im sure you trust her with your secrets but its obvious that you have second thoughts about her cheating on you.lay it out and tell her that you really like her and dont want to be hurt
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Hi i recently shaved my vagina because i saw brown spots on it but then once it was shaved and i started scratching at the brown spots they peeled off i'm wondering if maybe they were just dead skin? or something? and now my vagina is itchy as hell is that normal? and it's all stubbly cause i missed some spots... :( PLEASE HELP i am 13 (link)
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its ok dont worry its very normal sweety.If your not used to shaving the area, the itching is probably caused by irratation. The best way to shave that area would be to take a bath not shower, soak in the hot water to open your pores and soften the hairs.
If you want a close shave, continue sokaing and use the INTUITION razor and shave in different directions to get the close shave you want, and yes by the next morning it'll probably feel stubble like a five o'clock shadow.. the hair just grows fast but id suggest waiting another day before shaving again till your used to it.
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I am 13 and a 7th grade girl. I have never gone out with a guy. There is this guy that I really like and I know that he likes me too because my friend asked him if he liked me and he said yes. He is always really sweet and I love to talk to him. I also like to talk to his friends. The only problem is that my friends think he is a nerd. He sort of is though but I'm ok with that because I'm pretty smart too.(straight A's) The only problem is my friends or other people will probably make fun of me for going out with someone in the "Nerd Herd". What should I do? (link)
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go for it!!!seriously nerds are the ones that are going to have a decent job and become doctors or engineers and get all the money.Being ssmart is not a bad thing,if you like him then nothing else should matter.if they make fun of you then theyr not your real friends.they should support you and be there for you.if they moc you then you tell them how you feel!
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So my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year.
The thing is, sometimes we'll have a shitload of fun together and I'll be the happiest human in the world. Those days, we'll have good conversations, probably spend a lot of time together, and just have a lot of fun wherever it is that we go. But then there'll be other times when things between us are just tense and we'll just have a very heated argument about stuff that's barely even important (probably because we're both stubborn and refuse to change our minds). Or on weekends, he won't even bother communicating (calling, AIM) for days in a row. On those days, I'm just asking myself why we're even together.
What the hell do I do? I feel like our relationship has bipolar disorder or something. (link)
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LOL @ your relationship being bipolar...To me it sounds like theres nothing wrong with your relationship.I mean ofcourse after a year your going to be a little sick of eachother and if you didnt have those heated arguements id probably think there was soemthing wron with the relationship. all these things are what makes the relationship real.to me it sounds like you enjoy eachother's company so dont throw it awya because of your arguements.you need to be strong.youv got this far why not work at it a little bit longer?
talk to him and ask him what he wants.do you know how he feels?ask him not to get angry with you because you just wnat to have an adult conversation to see how we both feel and what you both want.maybe even make a list or pros and cons and weight out the odds.are the arguements the only thing thats bothering you?because if so thats not a good enough reason to break up.If you stopped loving him or werent happy and felt that the spark has completely gone then i would question the relationship
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I am a 20 year old woman and my boyfriend is 21. We have been togeather for 5 years and living togeather for 3 years. He has always said how much easier it would be if we lived in seperate houses, because we are constantly arguing over who's turn it is to clean what, and he drinks quite a bit. Now recently he is saying he feels like he holds me back and i could make something of myself if i never met him. I explain it wasn't him that changed me but at the same time i think he might have. We have to live togeather because right now finacially we can't afford not too, but i have all of these thoughts swirling in my head. I feel as if i am not getting anything but mixed signals. I love this man with all my heart and i know he loves me but i'm not quite sure we are "in love" anymore. The only thing that scares me is this was my first boyfriend and i couldn't imagine having anyone else by my side for the rest of my life. What do i do!!! (link)
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you stay with him and work something out.even if you have to make a roster.this isnt soemthing huge to argue over.it doesnt matter who cleans what.
you have been together for 5years thats a long time ofcourse it wont feel like it was the first time you guys started dating because at that time you were still getting to know him and excited to see him.
go on dates,go out to dinner, watch movies together.try and surprise eachother now and then
just because the hunny moon stage is over doesnt mean your relationship should be over too.to be honest i praise you for being with someone for 5years some people cant even do a year.
talk to him about it.it seems you both have an open relationship so talk to him and tell him you wnat to go out on dates and be surprised and you need to do the same to him
but whayever you do dont breakup unless your reallly not happy
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you have this person whom you know by name only in high school. he migrated to London after high school.. and then you met years later during an event.. constant communication formed after he left... is it possible to fall in love for this guy even though your a thousand miles apart? i mean, by the way he writes his post.. his blogs.. his pictures.. is it possible? because there's something pulling me towards him.. i've done a lot of things to avoid thinking about him.. but my feelings for him got deeper as we talked online.. :| (link)
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its soo very possible!its not as if youv never met him.you know him,youv spoken to him and you cant stop thinking about him.its very normal.for example i have a friend that met a guy online and they had nevr met just chatted and web camed etc and were in a long diatance relationship for over a year and he finally moved to be with her and theyr still together!its very veryy fine.i myself am in a long distance relationship. we had met etc just like you and we started talking online and i fell for him that way.he doesnt have to physically be there in front of you for you to fall for him.if you get along with him and he says the right things then ofcourse youd fall for him.thats how humans are.
the question is.do you think its worht falling for him?is there a chance that you two would be together?do you think he likes/loves you back?what im trying to say is,its ok to love him but what happens next?
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my friend i've known sense i was 9 and he was 16, bumped into each other like 4 months ago. his family spoils me rottin and they treat me as their owin (i mean i've known them sense i was 9). My mom knows he's way older than me but she feels as if he is her son. But wat neither of our parents know is, we have been talking to each other more and more each night, i walk 2 blocks away from my house so he can pick me up and take me to school. During my lunch time he brings me food, and after school he lets me drive his car (i'm praticeing for my linces)he basicly does whtever i ask him to do. its not about sex with him, because if it it was he wold've left me alone a month and a 1/2 ago.
But 2 days ago we were playing a game (21 questions) and out of no where he tells me he wants to be with me FOREVER. then tonight on the phone he tells me AGAIN, he said he would get me a place to stay, help me get a part time job, (he already has a full time job, that pays good)and anything i need he's got it covered. But its the whole FOREVER thing that makes my skin crawl... i'm not sure where my feelings are with him, but i know i like being around him. i know he's serious about "FOREVER" too, but i don't know what to do.
can you give me advice please... i'm confused. (link)
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its sweet hes said forever.but you know that things may not always go as planned.i mean dont let the word forever scare you because you maybe together and find out its just not working.you need to just think carefully about what you wnat because once your with him and maybe break up your friendship may never be the same again.if you dont fele the same way then let him know because if you dont he might think you do and try something and you maqy reject him and hell be even more hurt.just think carefully and i mean dont worry about the forever thing because who knows,you maybe together and you may end up wanting him forever in the end
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well i feel like i shouldnt need any advice on what i should do for my baby of 2 years who i love deeply!!!! (link)
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what about a ring ingraved?with like the date you both started going out??
ummmm probably buy him something that will last him forever.like something that wont get wrecked through time.
or a watch with an ingraving??
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okay, heres the story. i was going out with this guy for well over a year, he didnt put any effort into seeing me though and he hardly talked. he would be rude to me and treat me like shit. when we were together we'd have the best time though. a few days ago i told him i just wanted to stay friends with him. we both cried a little but he didnt say anything. nothing at all. when i asked what he thought he'd just say 'nothing really' or 'just wondering why you're crying'. the other day i spoke to his friend, he said 'i heard you and sam broke up' when i asked how sam was doing his friend replied with 'yeah he seems good, he says its better you are friends'. i want to know why sam cant tell me that though. he just says he doesnt really know. if he likes it better just as friends why wont he tell me! its driving me insane not knowing what he wants or thinks :( i talked to him again today, he was a bit rude to me. its like he suddenly doesnt give a fuck about me, i know i dumped him but if he's got a problem with just being friends why cant he say? i just need some ideas of what people think is going on. (link)
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oh man!!!he sounds like an ass no ofence.I mean if he cant treat you right then he doesnt deserve you to begin with.the fact that he didnt fight to have you back or try telling you hell change etc is scarey.i mean he just took the dump and had nothing to say about it.I think you should give him space and try and win back the power.at the moment hes got the power because hes not comunicating with you and doesnt feel bad about anything etc while your being hurt by him and really frustraqted.you need to give him space to give him time to miss you.if he doesnt want to talk to you about his feelings then just try to let it go.hes not going to try no and who knows why hes blocked you out but since your not together anymore its not your problem.try to keep busy to make the time pass by.dont txt him just let him go and wait.if he doesnt come back then thats the answer you need.
im sorry you must be going through hell!
im here if you need someone to listen.keep me updated and stay strong
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It started almost three years ago. I went to the doctors for an itchy problem that was not going away. As it turned out, I had trich. The doctor stated someone has been messing around. I asked him that my husbands ex had it in 1993, was it possible it had stayed dormant before it infected me? He didn"t answer. Then last Oct, I had a pap smear, it came normal, with the HPV virus too. I was terrified! Since vfinding this oput, I've lost interest in sex. I"m too afraid of catching anything. Since Oct, we have had sex 5 times. Am I wrong to feel this way? (link)
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oh no!i really do think you need to talk to your husband.i would also be asking questions if it was me and become alittle suspecious.
I really do think that a healthy relationship needs sex.im scared that if you dont have sex with your husband he will try find it somewhere else.dont be afraid of having sex because really theres a risk in doing anything and everything.if you dont have sex then you may loose your husband.if you do then hell be happy but you may not be.just think about what risk you want to take and who you want to please.
i think your husband should go get an STD test done before anything.if he loves you then hell be willing to do it.
i hope everything turns out for the best
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There's this girl at school(we'll just call her K) and I love her, no not I have a crush on her, but love. Recently, I told her I loved her by following her advice, but messed up horribly(if you would like to know how, you can e-mail me at bcelaya12@gmail.com) and so now I thought maybe I could try again, but this time do it right. So this is how I'm going to tell her.....:
First I will say, "Hey K, can we talk really quick?" then she will reply how ever she pleases. Next, I will look into her eyes and say, " K H(representing her first and last names), I love you." Then it will either be, we become boyfriend and girlfriend, or I will break off our relationship for good. Is there anything I need to do differently or anything I need to add?
Thanks in advance!
-musicissoul301
And if you have any questions about anything I just said, my e-mail is somewhere in there, just find it and e-mail me. (link)
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yeah i agree...dont say can we talk really quick. im really iffy about the idea of you telling her you love her.it may scare her away.i think you should start small and work your way up.so first ask her out on a date and get to know her.tell her that you like her alot instead of saying the L word.give her time to love you back.
next time yyou see her i think you should say hey K,i was wondering what you were upto on saturday.. do you wnat to go to the movies with me...something along those lines...remember start small and work your way up
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I've been dating this guy for a month now but he lives 3 hours away from where I live. He seems like a really nice guy but the long distance is making me nervous because everybody says it can't work out. We're both pretty young still (15 & 16) and so it makes me feel hopeless and, like...why am I even trying to be a good girlfriend, right? I don't know what to think right now. Is it possible for a long-distance relationship to really stand the test of time? Should I stick with this relationship or is it best if I move on to somebody closer to where I live? (link)
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this is hard.the thing is that it depends on the person. if you really wnat it to work out and really want to be with that person and no one else then it can work but you both have to want this not just you.
i have a friend that had an overseas relationship with this guy that she had never met in real life.they only talked on the phone,msn,facebook,went on cam etc and a year later of being together like that he actually moved accross the world to be with her and now theyr still together!things like this dont happen enough but it can happen.things can work out but you both have to wnat it.
you have to try first before you can give up otherwise you cant say you tried.
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20/f, do not laugh at me, haha..
I've started hanging out with this guy that I'm really really starting to like. It's been a long time since I've gotten butterflies like this, and I've had them ever since I met this boy. I'm pretty sure he likes me too, because we openly flirt, but we've only hung out once before and that was with mutual friends. We're both SUPER shy.
We're hanging out at his house alone Friday night and I'm really nervous. We're gonna watch movies and stuff and through texts we've been flirting and "joking" about us cuddling and holding hands.
Basically, and excuse me for being such a loser, I need to know how to naturally make flirty physical contact.. like how do I put my head on his shoulder while still kinda being cute and subtle? I don't want to sit far away from him like middle schoolers do. Any other tips and advice for movie date night you can offer??? I haven't dated in over a year. Help! Thanks in advance, advicenators. (link)
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this is soo cute and soo exciting!!!
ok welllll i would begin by sitting next to him and like cuddling a pillow or soemthing.be casual about it because he may even do the first move, through out the movie if he hasnt made a move then id probably pretend you feeling alittle tired and just lean on him then after awhile put your head on his shoulder and then nuzzle into him.take it one step at a time.like smiel and look into his eyes but dont put yourself too out there or he may take that fro granted...oooo i hope it goes well!!!
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