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okay, heres the story. i was going out with this guy for well over a year, he didnt put any effort into seeing me though and he hardly talked. he would be rude to me and treat me like shit. when we were together we'd have the best time though. a few days ago i told him i just wanted to stay friends with him. we both cried a little but he didnt say anything. nothing at all. when i asked what he thought he'd just say 'nothing really' or 'just wondering why you're crying'. the other day i spoke to his friend, he said 'i heard you and sam broke up' when i asked how sam was doing his friend replied with 'yeah he seems good, he says its better you are friends'. i want to know why sam cant tell me that though. he just says he doesnt really know. if he likes it better just as friends why wont he tell me! its driving me insane not knowing what he wants or thinks :( i talked to him again today, he was a bit rude to me. its like he suddenly doesnt give a fuck about me, i know i dumped him but if he's got a problem with just being friends why cant he say? i just need some ideas of what people think is going on.
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Hi,
I hate to say this but I think that the better question is? Why are you concerned with a guy who you admit treats you horribly. Why do you care now, if he still doesn't care about you now that you're friends. This guy needs to be eradicated from your thoughts. Move on, don't give him the satisfaction of wasting your time wondering about it. Any guy who's playing mind games isn't worth trying to figure out.
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oh man!!!he sounds like an ass no ofence.I mean if he cant treat you right then he doesnt deserve you to begin with.the fact that he didnt fight to have you back or try telling you hell change etc is scarey.i mean he just took the dump and had nothing to say about it.I think you should give him space and try and win back the power.at the moment hes got the power because hes not comunicating with you and doesnt feel bad about anything etc while your being hurt by him and really frustraqted.you need to give him space to give him time to miss you.if he doesnt want to talk to you about his feelings then just try to let it go.hes not going to try no and who knows why hes blocked you out but since your not together anymore its not your problem.try to keep busy to make the time pass by.dont txt him just let him go and wait.if he doesnt come back then thats the answer you need.
im sorry you must be going through hell!
im here if you need someone to listen.keep me updated and stay strong
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