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I am being Stalked by a creepy married person! How do I handle this?
I had to cut off communication with someone I had known for a long time,as she was married,and at the same time really out of control sexually,(swinging,involved in prostitution,leading me on,etc),and incapapble of honest communication with me.Honestly,though I had known her for many years,this last year I was getting intense anxiety attacks around her.Now,she is spamming me constantly,(I see her IP address),and coming around all the places I go to ,with her husband,places she normally would not go to,as she lives 24 miles away.I gave up trying to communicate with her months ago,as I never got an honest answer.We used to talk daily,and I stopped because she admitted that she was just leading me on,would not explain why she let her father in law feel her up in public,and a lot of other things that I thought were pretty gross.Why is she coming around and also spamming me? How do I handle this?
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I'm one of the older advisers on this site, so my advice will be more parental in nature.
You do not say how old you are. If you are under 18 this woman is committing several crimes with stalking being only one of them. Child abuse would be another, molestation would most likely be another, yes she has not touched you but a recent case in Maryland a man was convicted of child molestation without ever touching the child. Depending on the laws in your state I can see several other crimes that she is committing that would carry stiff prison time, up to about 20 to 30 years all told.
My advise if you are under 18 tell your parents what is happening and have them call the police. What is happening is most definitely a police matter and your parent need to file charges.
If you are over 18 you need to contact the police. Tell them what is going on and follow their advise. File for an order of protection. If noting else this will alert her husband as to what is going on, unless he is already aware and approves of her actions. If she violates the order of protection she will be locked up.
Unless and until you take the proper steps to stop her she will continue to harass you. The proper steps start with; under 18 tell your parents and have them call the police. Over 18 you call the police and follow their advice.
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wow creepy.. I would get a hold of the police. first off the spamming you is hacking that will be a federal offence. i know you have known her a long time and probably dont want to get her introuble but you have to think of your safety first.people like that can be very dangerous
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wooow!she sounds knocked in the head,no ofence!!!!
have you tried to change your email?or number?I know its so annoying to have to do that but it may just work!if not then threaten to tell her husband about everything (even if you wont really do it) try get a restraining order against her if she wont leave you alone...or even try talking to her one more time,maybe she needs to hear it one more time calmly,just say its over,leave me alone or i will get a restraining order against you or explain why you dont want to talk to her again.Hope i helped!sorry your in this creepy situationnn
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