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Is he going to realise? Or is he just a waste of time?
My boyfriend broke up with me over a month ago. I brought up the break up, and he did it. Any way it was only until after we broke up that I realised how much I loved him. We discussed getting back together but he didn't really make an effort, so I told him to make a decision and he couldn't. He says he still loves me he just doesnt know what he wants right now. I told him I no longer want to be friends with him. And that we wouldn't be speaking again. He was a bit angry with me for this. I told him i'd met a few guys (which I had, nothing serious. I'm SINGLE) and he said it hurt him.
Literally 3 days after I told him I didn't want anything to do with him he starts flirting with this girl in a club and kissing her. My friends all saw him, and he kissed her and stuff. One of my friends knows her from college and she said that the girl he kissed fell out with him that night. Do you think he's doing this because he knows i'm out with other guys? He's trying to get over me? Do you think he's gonna contact me again now that it didn't work out with her?
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I think you realizing how much you love him after the breakup probably has more to do with the fact that you don't have him anymore than actual feelings of love. Being dumped usually has accompanied feelings of bruised pride, and hoping that the person who dumped you realizes their mistake and wants you back.
This guy had an opportunity to get back together with you and he didn't do it. Even if he did want to get back together with you, why would you do it? He is clearly out trying to find other girls and has no standards because he is making out with them right after meeting them. Do you really want to be his second best girl? If you peruse him you are telling him that he can just pick you back up whenever he wants to. You deserve someone who knows what they have when they have you, not after making out with, and dating other girls to figure out he can't do better.
I would completely quit talking to him and move on. You deserve better.
Good luck
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I hope for both your sakes he doesn't contact you - and realistically, he probably wont.
Is he going to call you now that it didn't work out with some random girl he kissed at a club?
Probably not. He had lots of chances to get back with you, none of which he took. You then did a very sensible thing and ended communication with him.
There are lots of random girls at clubs to kiss.
Keep at that smart thing you did, and don't contact him. It is very unlikely he'll contact you. You told him you didn't want anything to do with him. You told him you were moving on and getting over him and meeting other people. It’s perfectly fair of him to start moving on and getting over you and meeting other people. It’s extremely unlikely, if you were that clear and direct with him, that he is going to come running back to you because it didn’t work out with one of the millions of other girls out there.
I know it’s hard, but it’s time to truly let it go.
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you both need to start being honest with what you both want and if you both whant to be together then mack a effort to bein a relation ship you should not be messing eachother round and trying to score points it is your feeling you are both messing with you need to sit him down and talk it through with him and figer it out what it is you both whant and if you dont whant to be together go yoursepret ways and get on with you life.
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