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I'm twenty and I have butterflies. :)
20/f, do not laugh at me, haha..
I've started hanging out with this guy that I'm really really starting to like. It's been a long time since I've gotten butterflies like this, and I've had them ever since I met this boy. I'm pretty sure he likes me too, because we openly flirt, but we've only hung out once before and that was with mutual friends. We're both SUPER shy.
We're hanging out at his house alone Friday night and I'm really nervous. We're gonna watch movies and stuff and through texts we've been flirting and "joking" about us cuddling and holding hands.
Basically, and excuse me for being such a loser, I need to know how to naturally make flirty physical contact.. like how do I put my head on his shoulder while still kinda being cute and subtle? I don't want to sit far away from him like middle schoolers do. Any other tips and advice for movie date night you can offer??? I haven't dated in over a year. Help! Thanks in advance, advicenators.
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I agree with jobrolvor. Take a deep breath, smile, and hold his hand. Or when talking or laughing, nonchalantly tap his shoulder.
Sit close to him on the couch. There are many opportunities to show him you want to be touched.
I like the scary movie technique, very brilliant.
When you two greet each other, give him an extra long hug, make direct eye contact and a nice long peck on the lips...
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hopefully he will make the first move, since he is the guy, but if he doesn't then just make sure you sit down right next to him on the couch. when you talk or flirt with him put your hand on his leg or shoulder to show him that you want physical contact. you could always watch a scary movie and then it won't be weird at all if you grab his hand!
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thats is awesome, if you havent got butterflies in your stomach since a long time, maybe your heart is telling you that this time its you chance to shine , go for it, there is nothing more magical than be in love trust me i went there
good luck
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this is soo cute and soo exciting!!!
ok welllll i would begin by sitting next to him and like cuddling a pillow or soemthing.be casual about it because he may even do the first move, through out the movie if he hasnt made a move then id probably pretend you feeling alittle tired and just lean on him then after awhile put your head on his shoulder and then nuzzle into him.take it one step at a time.like smiel and look into his eyes but dont put yourself too out there or he may take that fro granted...oooo i hope it goes well!!!
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