I am 13 and a 7th grade girl. I have never gone out with a guy. There is this guy that I really like and I know that he likes me too because my friend asked him if he liked me and he said yes. He is always really sweet and I love to talk to him. I also like to talk to his friends. The only problem is that my friends think he is a nerd. He sort of is though but I'm ok with that because I'm pretty smart too.(straight A's) The only problem is my friends or other people will probably make fun of me for going out with someone in the "Nerd Herd". What should I do?
CuPcAkEqUeEn answered Tuesday June 15 2010, 7:54 pm: ignore your friends. Do you want to be happy? I hope the answer is yes. so if this guys makes you happy then go for it. your friends will come around and if they don't maybe they aren't the best of friends because they will want you to be happy. as for being made fun of just tell your self there jealouse of your fab new boyfriend soon there comments won't matter to you anymore.:)
christina answered Friday June 11 2010, 8:17 pm: Ignore your friends. You can date whoever you want. They don't have to be around him, they don't have to kiss him or hold his hand, and they don't have to talk to him. They are not the one dating him, you are so your opinion is the only one that matters.
Be with whoever you wanna be with, and ignore your friends comments. The only time they need to step in-between you and somebody you're dating is if your significant other is abusive towards you and is a threat.
This guy sounds like he wouldn't hurt a fly. Go out with him. You like him, he's a sweetheart, and you enjoy his company. Do what makes you happy sweetie. Ignore those who try to bring you down. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
gr8fruit answered Friday June 11 2010, 7:20 pm: Hey there,
If you like the guy and you know he is a sweety, then go for it! It does not matter what your friends think about someone you want to date, it is your decision. Not everyone likes the same kind of people, so they don't see the same side of him you do. If they are your friends they should respect your desire to go for a nice guy like him :) They aren't really your friends if they don't support your interests. Your opinion is what counts and they will learn to like him eventually. You know what kind of guy is right for you, so trust your heart <3 [ gr8fruit's advice column | Ask gr8fruit A Question ]
sia answered Friday June 11 2010, 7:13 pm: go for it!!!seriously nerds are the ones that are going to have a decent job and become doctors or engineers and get all the money.Being ssmart is not a bad thing,if you like him then nothing else should matter.if they make fun of you then theyr not your real friends.they should support you and be there for you.if they moc you then you tell them how you feel! [ sia's advice column | Ask sia A Question ]
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