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Im a 17 year old female. I've been dating this guy for almost a year. He lives 3 hours away from me and the distance makes it hard but he says he wants to be with me and that it bothers him but its worth it basically. Well he's cheated on me twice, not physically. He's just traded dirty pictures and had phone sex (which to me is just as bad.HE also asked the gurl if shed like to hook up. Anyway the first time I kind of just blew it off but this time Ive taken it very seriously.(same gurl both times) I was going to break up with him but decided not to for some strange reason. I love him alot. Ive know him for two and half years and dated him for almost one of those like i said. Well he says he loves me and that he doesnt want to break up with me and that hed be really upset if we did. But then again he goes off and does that and since im not as close as her why doesnt he just end it and be with her. Ive tried talking to him about it and he just over and over again says he loves me and that he doesnt want to end it. I know he cant be using me for sex, because we don't do it that often seeing our distance situation. He cant be using me for money because i rarely buy him anything. so if he was using me i dont know what it would be for. I guess what im asking is, is it the distance that could be casuing him to turn to people closer to supply his needs? If he can't stay loyal why doesnt he break up with me? How should i approach the situation in a mature manner and let him know if it happens again im leaving without it causing a fight? (link)
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well i think it is just time you ended it. if you love something set if free. enough with the second chances. once is enough! but good for you for giving him a second chance but babii when he does it again with the same girl i think it's time to end it.-cupcakequeen
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So im going to college this fall. Ive always wanted to go to this one college, LEE, along with my parents. but i feel its turned more into their dream then mine. I have a long distant relationship (for 2 yrs) and want to go to a community college where he is(im 18 almost 19 and hes almost 20), to save money too. I found out im paying for all my college. And the Communtiy college is half the price of LEE. Id go to the college for general education then go to LEE, and while doing GE id be getting some classes for my major out of the way. but id be living with my boyfriend and my dad is a pastor so thats another problem. I recently moved in with my boyfriend but moved back home for college and now i think it was a very bad idea. cus i wanna go back and i know theyll hate im moving back with him and not going to LEE. what do i do? i dont want to go to LEE right now. And its all they talk about. (link)
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let your parents no that right now LEE is not the best option for you. show your parents how responsible you are, which could get some of that not trusting thing off your back. your almost 19 which makes you an adult. and if your paying for all of college by your self let them no that this is what you want to do. let them in on all the benifets that this community college is going to give you. show your parents how great the school is. but let them no that in the end this is your decision. why go to a school were your not happy? :)
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My mom said I could start a babysitting business this summer. I am going to make some poster ads for it. What should I write on the fliers though? I want a good flyer that people will notice and call me about so I can make some money. The only thing I know to put on it is that I can do babysitting. What do I write to get clients? (link)
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let them no you care about there kids and want to ensure there safty. include your name and how much you charge and if you charge extra for multipl kids. you also want to include if you have taken any babysitting classes and your home phone number also the best times to call. DO NOT INCLUDE- your address, or your age or sex. if they want a boy or a girl they will be able to tell by your name or your voice when you answer the phone. :)
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I've been friends with this guy for like 6 months now or so. He's really a great friend of mine. The weird thing is that he is calling more frequently now. My mom said she thinks that he likes me since he is always calling me to talk about this, that, or the other. I don't want to come out and ask him and be all embarrassed if he is just trying to be a good friend to me or something but I do want to know if he has feelings for me now.
So, if a guy calls you all of the time then does it mean he likes you? (link)
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it could mean he likes you or maybe he is just bored. it could also mean he is just trying to be a friend. If you don't want to come strait out and ask him just playfully be like "boy you have started calling alot." or "man my phone bills have really gone up" but make sure you say it in a joking tone because he might get offended and think you hate his calls. and if the calls are starting to bother you make sure you let him no don't lead him on. :)
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I heard that if you work out and exercise a lot that your periods are shorter and you don't get as many cramps. I just started to exercise last week but my period is the same this month. Well, I'm just curious if the stuff I read is true and if I should expect my periods to get better in a month or two.
Does exercising regularly cause you periods to be shorter and go by quicker? And is it safe to exercise while I'm on my period too? (link)
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yes it is safe to workout when your on your period. for some people working out can make your period lighter. also some other ways to make your period lighter is yoga. or if you are really stressed out calmming down and relaxing can give you a lighter period. Eliminate fatty red meats and full-fat dairy, as these foods contain arachadonic acids that contribute to cramping. :)
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for the past 2 years, ive been liking this guy in my class. once he found out i liked him he stopped talking to me completely for the rest of the year (which was like 8 months) and that hurt me pretty bad. Before this we were cool with each other but then he heard that i liked him, he treated me like i had a sick disease. i also had my friend pretend to do a fake interview with him so we can learn his interests. he found out about that which also contributed to him treating me like some kind of stranger. I even apologized for that and he still acted like he hated me. He hardly talked to me that whole year. So anyway a couple of days ago, i saw him and he actually talked to me as I was walking in the opposite direction. He only said hi let me remind you that this is the first time he tried to start a conversation with me in a long time. He pretty much shouted it as if he really wanted my attention. Is this a sign that he's over what happened last year and actually wants to be friends or something? thanks for the answers
p.s please don't criticize me for blowing something as simple as "hi" out of proportion (link)
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i think maybe he was a little bit weirded out about the interview. but now he is over it. next time you see him try to start a conversation. if your worried about him being mad about you not saying hi back, tell him you didn't hear him because you were listing to music. (hey a little lie never hurt nobody:b)don't bring up any of the stuff that happend before. the past is behind you. just keep working at trying to be friends. :)
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Dear Mrs. Web,
My mother is a very demanding person.
Sometimes she can be really mean to me, and is driving me CRAZY, aswell as being emotionally hurt. She always yells and tells me how lazy I am. Because of this, I joined a Softball team, but It seems nothing has changed. She STILL is not happy enough, even when I am in a sport 5 days a week.
I am in all advanced classes, and I also have a 3.8 GPA. I have always strived to achieve in school to make her and my family happy. I have been in sports my whole life. When I was 10, I was diagnosed with excersize induced athsma. That made it hard for me to prefore my best along side very good athleates. I've tried talking to her, and suggesting other options. She wont even let me visit family, or hang out with friends until i join a Univercity Ski Team. I have skied since i was very young, and i just flat out hate it! and she knows that. But yet still wants me to do it.
We've even gone to counciling for this issue. I try my hardest to please her, but it sems like nothing is working.
Please help!
Katherine, 14.
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let your mom no how you feel maybe through letters or emails. maybe your mom is just stressed. offer to help her clean up around the house, or do the shopping. try again to let her no how you feel about skiing if you go to counciling bring up these issues there or talk to the councler alone, if your mom acts a different way there. :)
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~cupcakequeen~
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i caught my bf looking at gay porn ads on craigslist. he says hes not gay and that it was just jack off material. he used to live in la and visit me in sb. one of the ads that he put up was on my way from la to sb looking for a pit stop. he said that it steamed from a tramatic childhood incident that trigered him to look at gay porn. i told him that if was looking at gay porn it would be one thing but a seperate email account and looking on craigslist ads for gay adds to meet up is another. he said he never did and he is socially akward enough that i do sorta believe him and he's never done anything like this before. idk what to do. i want to get over it but i feel like i cant trust him now. i told him even if it was with a girl it still would bother me. idk waht to do :( (link)
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trust your BF unless he gives you a serious reason not to. Don't hold this aginest him Guys are always curious. If you talked to him about it trust his word and just go on with what you used to do. If you see him looking again confront him but don't start acussing.Ask him if he wants to talk about the tramatic event in his childhood. let him no that you will still be there for him. and if you still don't feel he is being completely honest maybe it's time to break it off. :)
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Okay, I live with my mom and my step dad.
they BOTH smoke. my step dad works on a boat for 4 days out of the week and then come home for 4 days. when he's gone my mom will smoke in the garage because she knows I hate the smell of it.
but when he's home they both smoke in the house.
(the living room) my question is; if I go in my room to get away from the smoke am I actually getting away from it? or am I still breathing in cigarette smoke! i've seen that commercial on tv where there is now a cigarette that lets out water vapor, instead of smoke and its not unhealthy for the person! I want to get it, but im a kid so I dont have that kind of money.
my stepdad REFUSES to quit smoking, and since its not "my house" I have no say so as to where he goes to smoke.. HELP! (link)
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i am sorry to say but you are not really getting away from the smoke. when you open the door the smoke particles in the air come in. As for your mom and your stepdad think of some ways to let them no that you care about there health. Most of the time parents don't like to be told how to live there life, but it couldn't hurt to try. ask your mom if maybe for fathers day or a birthday you could get the water vapor cigarette. :)
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So there's some teens and their Dad living next door. My neighbour's yard si growing into a jungle, which is fine, but they've got a hedgegorwing right along the fence diving us (which I guess the teens thinks that it makes they're partying soundproof but it's not)and so they don't do anything and just let it grow so it's growing through the fence into OUR side and the ugly flowers keep falling onto our beautfiful freshly cut grass (which is one of the things my Dad puts a lot of his time and effort into maintaining his garden).
Franky, the dad must not own a lawn mower because
none of us has ever heard or seen him mowing the lawn.
Do you think that it's our problem (our side, we clean) or theirs? And what should we do? I don't think that if I tell them they'll be like "Oh sorry, we'll fix it then." The last time I told the teens (same age as me!) to turn down their music, they egged our house! (link)
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i think that it is your problem. if plantes and things are falling into your yard. you could take it apone your self to cut down the hedge that is coming in to your yard your self. Also try walking over there and asking them. You can also file a complaint to your county. One thing you could also try is going over there and offering to cut there grass. This may seem like a lot of work but hey you would get paid and this would neatin up there yard. :)
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I am 13 and a 7th grade girl. I have never gone out with a guy. There is this guy that I really like and I know that he likes me too because my friend asked him if he liked me and he said yes. He is always really sweet and I love to talk to him. I also like to talk to his friends. The only problem is that my friends think he is a nerd. He sort of is though but I'm ok with that because I'm pretty smart too.(straight A's) The only problem is my friends or other people will probably make fun of me for going out with someone in the "Nerd Herd". What should I do? (link)
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ignore your friends. Do you want to be happy? I hope the answer is yes. so if this guys makes you happy then go for it. your friends will come around and if they don't maybe they aren't the best of friends because they will want you to be happy. as for being made fun of just tell your self there jealouse of your fab new boyfriend soon there comments won't matter to you anymore.:)
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So theres this guy i really like and i told him i liked him we kinda had a thing and then we went to the movies he and his friend were really hot and he knew i liked him i think he kinda liked me to but i was only talking to his friend cause i was shy to talk to him and it was akward, so i was talking to the other guy the whole time and didnt talk to him i came back on msn and he wasnt acting the same it was like he was mad at me or something. Does he hate me? Should i talk to him? Should i say sorry? What Should i do? (link)
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you should say sorry. this other boy is probably upset. You told him that you liked him but then when you went to the movies you only talked to his friend. Let him no that you still like him tell him that you were shy to talk to him. he is probably confused by your actions so set him strait. :)
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i'm 16/f
i gained a little extra weight this winter, since i wasnt outside and wasnt active, and i'd like to easily and quickly lose that weight. my mom has some diet pills called relacore(sp?). would it be bad for me to take those at my age? what are the side effects if i did? (link)
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don't take them!!! if you really feel the need to take diet pills then talk to your mom about it. Your 16 so you should go outside and get excersize. get your friends to do it with you. and if your not the tipe to run on the treadmill then go swimming take yoga. you will lose that weight in no time and it won't even fell like excersize if your having fun. :)
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14/f
Yesterday, I went to this street festival where their was live music in Chicago. I was dancing and talking to this cute guy who looked 16-17. Later on we started grinding and just having fun. When I had to leave I kissed him and he gave me his number. We were texting and I decided to ask him his age. Turns out he's 21! So I lied and said I was 17 (I've been told I could pass for 17). He says he wants to see me again but I don't think that will happen since I was just in the city for the weekend. It was all in good fun but I feel kind of weird now.. I know we won't be like a thing and probably won't ever see each other again.
I know it's illegal since I'm a minor but what would you do if you were in my situation. I honestly though he was 16 or 17 but found out too late he was 21. (link)
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just let it go. there is nothing you can do about it now. you were only up there for the weekend. so your right chances are you will never see him again. In a couple of months you will have forgotten about him. i would suggest deleting him from your contacts just to make sure, since you are a minor. and if he starts stalking you make sure you tell someone (not saying it will but if it does). :)
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hi i dont have long distance on my landline telephone.(its verizon) so i can't make long distance phone calls. its even restricted so you can't make them by mistake. if someone calls me from a long distance number, will i still get charged for a long distance call? (link)
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with verizone you will. verizone charges for any calls made out of the USA. it's like if some one calls you, you still use your minutes. :)
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Ok i think i have been close to my period since i was about 10 im 12 now but i am fed up of waiting and need to know some exact signs anyone got answers? (link)
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no one can say for sure when you will get your period. It all depends on your body. you might even half to wait a few more years. But if your super active or short for your age or over weight you might get your period when your 14 or 15. if you haven't gotten it by the time your 17 then it's time to talk to your doctor. But trust me when it comes you'll wish it hadn't. :)
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okay im only 16 and by boyfriends 19. i dont know what to do because my mom says that im not allowed to date him because she said so, but i really like him and my mother just wont see my side. so what should i say so shell let me show her that i really like him and should stay with him?
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okay so the whole your mom is just trying to proctec you line is super corney but that's what i'm going to say. your mom doesn't want you to get hurt and that is why she most likly won't let you date him. thought you could show you mom that your responsible so in the future she will be more open to letting you date older guys (it is illeagle for you to date this guy) so dating him behind your moms back won't help anything.
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I just wont to know should i take a boy to the movies ever if he dont like me (link)
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of course! Just take him as a friend. no one says that just because he doesn't like you, you can't be friends. and hey maybe once he see's how great you are at the movies he just might start liking you. :)
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I live with my grandparents. My friend and I have been friends since kindergarten. Well I promised her that I would go to summer school. But Then my grandpa died. My friend is like a part of the family my whole family knows her so it affected her too. Well when summer school came she asked me if I was going but I told her that I'm not going to summer school because then my grandma would be alone. She was like " But you promised!" Then she hung up. This was like a couple days ago. We just got over a fight too. Now every time I call she won't pick up and I leave messages but she still wont call. How do I get her to at least talk to me? (link)
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your friend is probably just a little bit upset. give her time to cool off. invite your friend over bake something for her. be persistent but not annoying. you could also try writing her letters and leaving them in her mailbox. do things to let your friend no that your sorry about summer school and that you want to make it up anyway you can. if you guys have been friends for that long trust me she'll come around.
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When would you consider a boy and a girl to be dating? As in, what would be signs and what makes it confirmed? Thanks! (link)
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i would say it depends a little on your age. you are not really dating at 12 but maybe a 15. Also if you only see each other at school then this is not dating. But if you were to go to the movies or to the park that would be considered dating. I don't think there are really any signs you just kinda no but you should make sure that your both ready to start dating.
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