Well, my friends are always asking me for advice, and they say it helps them. So I hope I can help you! When people ask for advice they kinda have an idea of what the answer will be, but they need to make sure! Anyways I relate to so many of the problems, so I can answer things knowing what will come out in the end! I mostly know all about relationship problems...I hope I can help you! Yes, it is true that I am only 15, and I haven't experienced eVeRyThInG so don't expect me to be able to know everything! So, yeah I will tell you straight up how I feel and what I think you should do, so I hope you take my advice! Just holla at your gurl, and leave one in my inbox!
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hey my name is jess i really like this kid john. He told me that he liked me but also this other girl. I told him i liked him and ive been waiting for him to make the next move. Im scared that if i let ut my true feelings to him he will say that he likes that other girl more. its soo hard sitting hear waiting for him to actually tell me if he likes me or not. i dont just wanna ask him because its wierd. someone please help me
thank you,
jess (link)
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Well he told you he likes you, and you told him you like him so just wait cause he will soon realize you should be together. Don't bother him about who he likes more cause then he will get aggitated, and then tell you that he doesn't like you anymore and that he likes the other girl more. Think about it this way, would you want someone going...who do you like more over and over again? I wouldn't so don't do it to him. I hope things work out for the best!! Well, I hope I have helped!
[[*~Becky aKa Lil QT~*]]
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im izzy im 15 and relly confused i like just met this dude like um this year. hes pretty cool and i kinda like him... no i LOVE him! lol i guess u could say im obsessed! i got really brave nd I asked him out and ya he said NO butt his homies tell me that he likes me which is weird and i think he tries to hit to me HE likes me.. so well if he really duz likes me and I LOVE him shouldn't we go out?? i think so He's really shy& afraid to have a girlfriend. But I love him to death and I need him badly. &The sad thing is, is that I know he loves me back. How can I get him to get over his stage? What can I do to make him show his feelings? I know he likes me.. But how do I get him to show it and go out with me? (link)
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SLOW DOWN GURL! Wow, first of all are you sure it's love? It could be just a really big crush. And just to let you kno you went back in fourth with this guy liking you then you would say he loved you. Anyways, You can't really be for sure if he likes//loves you until he tells you. If he flirts with you and ONLY you then he probably does, but if he flirts with anything in a skirt then he is probably just being himself. So...he's shy? If he really likes you then he will eventually tell you. You just have to wait, and don't rush things with him. Don't worry he will see that he HAS to be with you. I hope I have helped!
♥Becky aKa Lil QT♥
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I used to see a guy from other country for no more than 2 weeks, i fell in love with him, but he didn't. How can i make him love me, i think he is Mr. Right for me. (link)
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Let him go hunny! OMG, you may think it's love, but you really can't fall in love in 2 weeks! Wow, it might just be lust...where you want someone so bad. Also, you can't make someone fall in love with you. They have to fall in love with you on their own. Well, I hope I have helped!
****Becky aKa Lil QT****
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I have a HUGE problem it all started on New Years.....well my mom and aunts and cousins all went out for new years eve and me amanda and a girl named katie from Iowa stayed at my cousin kristies house and she didnt tell her mom (my aunt) she bought some vodka for us and us all three got wasted and stoned off our asses and katie called some of her GUY friends to come over to my cousins house and one of our girls was left out (amanda) and katie and i got the two guys and i got the 17 year old and she got the 16 year old and they were sooo hott especially the 17 year old and i feel really bad because i cheated on my boyfriend but the thing is we barely even talk or communicate so it doesnt even feel like we are going out......i dont know if i should break up with him or stay with him because i REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY LIKE the 17 year old and he asked me to be his girl and i said YES....Please anyone tell me what i should do..because i did stuff with the 17 year old.......
P.S. im 15 1/2 (female) (link)
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Well, the first question you gotta ask yourself is...who do you wanna be with? It sounds to me like the 17 year old, so if that's the case then break up with your boyfriend. And you better hope that if you stay with your boyfriend you a)hope he never finds out you cheated and b)don't talk to the 17 year old. But if you stay with your boyfriend, you will have to tell him sooner or later that you cheated. Your better off breaking up with your boyfriend, and being with the 17 year old. Also, if you do that, you have a choice either tell your boyfriend you cheated or not. Cause you guys could still be friends or whatever, but it really sucks when your boyfriend finds out 5 months later that you cheated...yea I SHOULD KNOW!!!! So, I really hope my advice helps you! RATE PLEASE!
*~*XOXO*Becky aKa Lil QT*XOXO*~*
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okay ive likes this boy for more than 7 months and i dont know wearther or not im in love or not. my symptoms are
-sleepless nights
-24/7 my mind is set on him
-i cry from missing him
-i dream about him
-im miserable without him
-everytime i see him im happy
-i smile everytime i heard someone talking about him
-i can pick him out of the crown in a heart beat
and there's probably more.
could someone please tell me.
i rate (link)
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I totally think you are in love!!! I feel the same way about this guy I have been with for 8 months!!! Hope things work out with this guy!
***Becky aKa Lil QT***
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ok can some one please help me here
my gf keeps getting her ass smacked by dudes and its realy getting me pissed off anyway should i beat the liveing shit out of the guys who are doing it? or just tell them to stop? (link)
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Sounds to me like someone is a little jealous..if she is your girlfriend, then you have nothing to worry about cause she is yours. But if this really bothers you then ask the guys to stop smaking *your* gf's ass cause it makes you feel uncomfortable. If they don't stop, then beat the shit out of them :-D!! lol, well I hope I have helped!
**Becky** aKa **Lil QT**
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i'm 13 and i have this one guy who likes me alot i dont like him as anything other than a friend..now that he likes me i hardly speak to him because i'm afraid people will start talking about "us." i miss him a lot though because he used to be one of my best friends! hes also a really good guy but i just dont like him. i dont know what to do or how to act around him!
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You shouldn't stop being someone's friend because of that. Tell him you just wanna be friends, and he should understand, and if people start talkin about you then just ignore it because friendship is stronger than anything! Hope I helped!
-*-..Becky..-*- aKa -*-..Lil QT..-*-
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MI go to Texas like, every summer. And two years ago my older cousin met a boy (let's call him ****). He hung out with us, and I didn't think much about him. This year they became A LOT closer. They love each other. And now that I think about it, **** is really hot and funny and nice. I LIKE him. And my cousin has him, what do I do?? (link)
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Back off of him. See, your cousin has him right now and you should let them be together. Don't try to break them up tho! When and if they break up just be there to comfert him, and he will see you as a grreat person. In the meantime, be with him a lot, and get to know him better! Hope I helped!
~*~&~*~Becky~*~&~*~aKa~*~&~*~Lil QT~*~&~*~
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Why won't you fuck me? (link)
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WHO IS THIS?!?! Maybe if I knew who it was then I *might*, lol just playin I am not going to fuck you...sorry! I have plans with another guy!!
~*^*~Becky~*^*~aKa~*^*~Lil QT~*^*~
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Will you fuck me? (link)
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lmao who is this? And the answer is NO...I am saving mine for that *special guy* lol!
~*Becky*~aKa~*Lil QT*~
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I'm 13/f in the 8th grade
There's this guy at my school, he's smart, funny, good looking, and mature. His friend told my friend that he liked me and I'm pretty sure he does since he treats me special and flirts with me a lot. Now I'm not really sure if I want to go out with him (I like guys with a more goth character), or I should just wait until highschool since maybe we're going to different ones. Well I believe he wont ask me out because he thinks I like this other kid (who I dont like anymore). What should I do? (link)
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Well, if your unsure you might want to wait till high school, but see if I think you should talk to him and get to know him better, and maybe after that you will like him even if he isn't goth. Also, talk to him, and tell him that you don't like that other guy anymore, he might just ask you out! Hope I helped you!
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i have been dating this guy for 5 months. when he's not around, i miss him to death.. but when he's around, he drives me nuts. it seems like he wants me to do stuff with him .. and i do. when we're done doing whatever, he just leaves! i don't know what to say to him! will someone please help me. (link)
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Well, I think he is just using you do do things with you! Once you said he does things with you and then just leaves...gurl there's your hint! You should dump him a.s.a.p or he will just keep using you! And, if you don't dump him, he could talk you into doing things you don't want to do, and maybe get you pregnant. DUMP HIM!! Hope I helped you!
*-_-*Becky*-_-*
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ok... well theres this boy named dave. and he likes me. everyday in school he flirts with me and i flirt back nothing harmful. but today when he asked me about homecoming i told him i was going with some friends. he wanted me to be his date but didnt state that. well he asked me if i liked him b4 and i said jus as a friend and ijust got out of a relationship that im still upset about and im not over my ex nor do i want to be. so with telling him i jus want to be friends and that im not ready for anything and that maybe ill see him at homecoming... was it the right way to handle it? i felt bad bc i dont like to hurt ppls feelings and he is nice and everything.. but im not into him.. did i handle it ok? (link)
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yes..u did what any1 w/a good heart would do. U let him down gently. Some ppl would have been mean about it and like would yell at him saying ewww ur ugly, no i don't like u, but u handled it the nice way. If u like this guy more than a friend, but don't want 2 be in a relationship just yet, then tell him that! Good luck on this guy, and I hope I helped ya!
-bEcKy-
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well lets see there is this guy i know and i think he flirts with me but i dont know he talks to me and he always lays on me and you know is really touchy..like sometimes he will rub my arm and i dont know if he is like flirting or just being a guy.. (link)
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lol, same w/me, but lets just say it is flirting! Gurl, he likes u...good luck w/this guy. Hope it works out 4 the better. Hope I helped ya!
*+*Becky*+*
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well i have this friend lets call him fred well fred and i have known eachother for hmm 6 years or so and hes 2 years older than me so hes 15 and a sophmore and im 13 in 8th grade anyways fred used to hate me but now he wants to get with me there are two problems..
1) he has told me himself he cant keep a girl for longer than 3 days, but those 3 days cud be the best 3 days of my life since i've liked him for 6 years
2) he told me he does weed now im not sure if he still does but he told me he quit and im not sure if i shud believe him
3) i smoke and he's okay with that but i dont want to get him addicted by bein w. me
4) we live 30 mins away from eachother but im movin to his town this summer so when im a freshman he'll be a junior... (link)
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Follow ur heart!! I think it would be fine 2 go out w/him, but it's ur decision, I can't tell u what 2 do. Well, I'm not here 2 tell u what 2 do, just tell u what u can do. So, just follow ur heart, but if u really like him then that's what counts. I think it's really bad that u smoke, but yea again I can't tell u what 2 do...but u should stop. Hope I have helped u!
-*^Becky^*-
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There is this girl that I really like, and she likes another guy. How do I get her 2 like me 4 me, and not like the other guy? (link)
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Well, just be urself, and if it was meant 2 be then she will see. Let her like the other guy, but u just keep being friends w/her, and she will see how good of a friend u r. Then she might "like like" u, but u never know what will happen. Just let nature play it's course. And just 4 me...be urself, and not some1 else, trust me, ok! Believe me I know how the girl will act b-c I know who she is, and I know who wrote this, so yea trust me...hope I have helped u!
-**-..Becky..-**-
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so is it okay 4 your boyfriend to call you baby but you wanna call him something other than "babe" but not like hunny, hunnybun, or other corney names?! like call him baby too or would that just be weird?? (link)
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Call him anything u want...its ur bf! Hope I helped.
-Becky-
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I like this guy and I've liked him for a year now. At the beginning we both loved eachother but we didn't go out. then he lost feelings for me and 'fell in love' with another girl. he went out with the girl and hes extremley sad because she broke up with him. I'm always there for him, i talk to him when i can and try to make him happy. I love him but he doesn't know. And if he knows that I love him he'll tell me that 'i need to move on because we can't have nothing together' or he'll tell me 'good-bye forever then'...and then that has me depressed. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!!!!!!!! :( (link)
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hey, well same has happened 2 me...but eventually he will come crawling back 2 u, just give it time. He will see that he can't live w/out u, so he will beg u 2 go out w/him...trust me it's sweet revenge...lol if u know what I mean! Just keep on making him happy when he is sad and he will soon see...hope I have helped ya!
[[**^^Becky^^**]]
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I am totally in love w/this boy...
Well, we flirt all the time, but there is another guy that I flirt with, and he asked me out!! I want 2 say yes, but I'm still in love w/the other guy...
What should I do?? Please help me! I rate 5's!!
*-*-**cOnFuSeD oVeR gUyS**-*-* (link)
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hey, omg...SAME W/ME!! neways, follow ur heart b-c it will alwyas know what 2 do. If u like both of them then thats a real hard thing 2 deal with, but chose the guy u like the most and go out w/him. I would go out w/the 1 u like b-c the guy u luv flirts w/u, but if he hasn't asked u out yet then he isn't going 2...so go w/the other 1. Hope I helped u!
**Becky:)
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i need ur help my boyfriend i think is cheating with my best friend and i dont know what to do when i talk to my friend about it she denies ever talking to my boyfriend but like the next day i see her hugging my boyfriend and kissing him on the cheek it gets me irritated and i dont kno what to do and if i go up to my boyfriend and ask him about it he says he never talks to my friend signed confused??:-/ (link)
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Get both of them in a room w/u and just tell them wut u think is going on. U might get some news u don't like, but since u r doing this then be prepared. Hope I have helped.
xoxo-bEckY-xoxo
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