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moody about boyfriend
i have been dating this guy for 5 months. when he's not around, i miss him to death.. but when he's around, he drives me nuts. it seems like he wants me to do stuff with him .. and i do. when we're done doing whatever, he just leaves! i don't know what to say to him! will someone please help me.
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if you mean crazy things like flipping out and abuse...dump him and tell an adult. maybe even the police. try and stay away from him (if its abuse...hitting, calling you names, sqeezing your arm too tight, etc). It also seems liek he's using you. Just getting what you'll give him then leaving you. totally not cool. This guy doesnt seem worth your time...no matter if i'm seeing it the right way or not. The situation also seems like hes a "player" the pimp image has become really popular lately. I wouldnt be surprised if he's cheating on you, esp. since he gets what he wants, leaves, and kicks you out of his house. I hope i helped. xo Erica
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He's practically using y0u. Get a guy that will accept what y0u want and where y0ur at and s0me0ne wh0 will be there and l0ve y0u -- d0n't waste y0ur time<3
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Sounds like a asshole.. if you ask me.. but i would just see if thats all he wants you for. Sounds to me like he may be using you. You deserve better and you know that. I understand your scared of talking.. but i'd say the best thing to do is to talk to him you aren't going to figure out the problem and a good solution if you don't talk to the guy talk to him first and go from there i mean dont let what he does.. bother you.. unless he does it to.. then i would seriously get help then he could be a bit abbusive-trix ((plz rate))
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I would get rid of that guy ASAP! You will miss him at first but in the end I think you'll be glad he's gone. He's jsut using you and if you don't get rid of him now, you'll be the one hurt in the end. I don't know you at all, but I know any girl deserves better than him. Good Luck and keep me updated! ~Brit
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he needs help, and u need to slowly move away from him
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just leave him for a change or say no
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ok, maybe its time to brake up with your boyfriend. there is obviously no heat between u two and it's time to move on. be careful with your choice of words because u don't want to get him angry and push him to the edge and make him do something crazy.
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Well, I think he is just using you do do things with you! Once you said he does things with you and then just leaves...gurl there's your hint! You should dump him a.s.a.p or he will just keep using you! And, if you don't dump him, he could talk you into doing things you don't want to do, and maybe get you pregnant. DUMP HIM!! Hope I helped you!
*-_-*Becky*-_-*
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sounds like he cares for u but kinda ends up using u....go to his place instead of him comin to urs or whatever and don't leave his side til ur satisfied
try donig things outside of the house too, shake things up
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aww im sorry hun..sounds like he might just be using you..sorry. you never know though..guys will be guys. when he goes to leave ask him if he'll stay a few minutes longer just to hang out and talk or w/e then tell him to call yah when he gets home kk good luck hun.
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i think hes using you. but talk to him about it.
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It sounds like you have a relationship with this guy that is based on attraction and very little else. Im sure that you are crazy about him but it doesnt sound like he returns that affection. You have to be willing to do things in a relationship that do not interest you (for most women this could be fishing with their love) so that you can spend time with the one that you love and so that they feel as though their wants and needs are important to you as well. If he is not willing to give that back to you I think it is time to move on. Also, you should not ever be in a relationship with someone who has a temper that you describe as "I dont want to get him angry at me because when he is mad he does crazy things". You need someone who loves and respects you.
Love yourself and move on.
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well what kind of crazy things does he do? if its like hurtful things u need to do something about it..and wen u's do stuff and he just leaves he might be just using you for sexual things sorry ..that could be it i think you should just sit down and talk to him and if he gets angrey with you ..tell him to chill ...or your going to have to end it? if thats wut ur guna have to do ..
candace*
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say this to him, "Hnny i know that you wanna d ostuff and all and you know i do to so lets do wahtever"
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Okay,when hes not aroun,you can do other stuff than miss him to death. And when he just leaves tell him that you love him and to call you. So that he will be thinking about you more.
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Well you just have to talk to him and tell him how you feel. Tell him that if he wants to do stuff with you, he shouldn't leave right after. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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