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HELPPP PLEASE
im izzy im 15 and relly confused i like just met this dude like um this year. hes pretty cool and i kinda like him... no i LOVE him! lol i guess u could say im obsessed! i got really brave nd I asked him out and ya he said NO butt his homies tell me that he likes me which is weird and i think he tries to hit to me HE likes me.. so well if he really duz likes me and I LOVE him shouldn't we go out?? i think so He's really shy& afraid to have a girlfriend. But I love him to death and I need him badly. &The sad thing is, is that I know he loves me back. How can I get him to get over his stage? What can I do to make him show his feelings? I know he likes me.. But how do I get him to show it and go out with me?
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Give him time and be there for him as a friend when he needs you. Does it mean that you both need to be boyfriend and girlfriend? No. Would it be nice? Of course. Sit him down and talk to him about it. If you've already done that or don't want to try, then try not to show so much that you are in love with him more than just a friend. Why? Well if he is shy then he might be taken back by your actions or the way you talk to him. If you really do love him and need him, then wait for him to come to you instead of making him feel like he needs to go - wait for him to want to on his own.
Trust me on this one - its 10x more difficult for guys to show/express their feelings than girls. Might he be afraid? Of course. Instead of just telling him to just do it and follow his feelings, tell him to sort it out and that you'd be willing to talk about whatever with him. I'm sure he'll come around with some time. Hope that helped and good luck.
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Just ask him why he won't go out with you. And maybe tell him he was giving you mixed signals and you don't want them if he won't go out with him, but try not to sound mean.
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SLOW DOWN GURL! Wow, first of all are you sure it's love? It could be just a really big crush. And just to let you kno you went back in fourth with this guy liking you then you would say he loved you. Anyways, You can't really be for sure if he likes//loves you until he tells you. If he flirts with you and ONLY you then he probably does, but if he flirts with anything in a skirt then he is probably just being himself. So...he's shy? If he really likes you then he will eventually tell you. You just have to wait, and don't rush things with him. Don't worry he will see that he HAS to be with you. I hope I have helped!
♥Becky aKa Lil QT♥
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Tell him that. say "listen boy.i know you like me! and you know i like you. so just get out of your shy stage and go to the movies with me on friday!" if your brave enough to ask him out then you're brave enough to say that!
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well, the fact that he said no, doesent sound to promising,but if you like him, id suggest telling him how you feel(in private) and let him know if he changes his mind the offer stands. be careful taking a young guys friends word over thiers, sometimes boys do this to each other, even if thier friend doesent really like a girl. so try to get all your solid info from him.good luck
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