well id like to help everyone in the world but ill have to start with you and work my way up
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Age: 16
AIM: tripp the ego
Member Since: December 25, 2003
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when can a girls really notice that a boy likes her?????? (link)
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ummm ask him??
me being of the male gender youd think i would know the answer to this question but i dont think there is a answer that will work for everone so look for the little things if he goes out of his way for you thats a sign if he shows up in one of your classes even thought hes not supposed to be there thats a sign (ive tryed it and it seems to work for me) ^^
well i hope this answers your question and if it doesnt please forgive me ive had no sleep in the past 36 hours -me
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okay, this guy likes me (im pretty sure) and i want him to ask me out, but hes too shy, obviously, so how do i get him to ask me out soon? (link)
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if hes too shy to ask you he may not ever ask you
go for it yourself
ask him if hed like to do something because alot of guys will get weirded out by a "date"
and remember if he says no dont get discuragede ask again later or just let it slide and go find a even more attractive guy -me
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Here's a question for you, oh brilliant chris. I've liked this guy forever and i just found out he liked me too. But this guys anger is the worst thing i've ever seen. He gets mad and hits me. And i don't want to talk to him ever again. But I can't hate him because I feel bad everytime I hate him. So we end up not talking and then he comes back and I feel like I have to forgive him. you know what chris. I need to kill him..
too bad that's not legal.
chris you make me laugh. haha. - Nikole the Banana. (link)
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you know what nikole...you need to forget this guy
theres plenty of other guys out there....
guys that will love you for who you are
you dont need a guy that your scared of and if he hits you again i told you id kill him for you ^^ no one hits my friends
but most importantly dont feel like you have to give him something to forgive him dont even feel like you have to forgive him
hate him? no you dont have to hate him
you have friends that will hate him for you just dont worry about him dont think about him stay away from him and that should work... but above all nikole remember this
i love you nikole and always will you will always be part of me and i wont forget you i hate it when i see you have a problem
remember those calls at 2 in the morning?
i miss them start doing that again ill listen i may not be too comprehensive but i will listen and give you my imput
much love -me
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Well I think the subject pretty much gives away what I'm going to ask you...what should we do?
We went to see a film (The Last Samurai btw) on Sunday.
I'm 16, he's 18. Clubbing (my friends suggestion) is not really an option).
Any ideas? (link)
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ok so the first date you guys saw a movie
not much time for talking while your trying to watch a movie
how about out somewhere to talk
get to know one another
try a coffee shop not a resturant because its so loud and theres alot more people
dont like coffee?
try a park go for a walk on the beach try a peir
any place where you and him can converse
its normally better that way
now maybe my ideas arent for you....im a hopeless romantic -me
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OK, Here's the deal. I kind of dated a guy a while back and when we stopped talking, I turned to his ex-girlfriend and found out a lot of stuff about him. It took so long to get over him and I can finally say that I AM OVER HIM for sure. Anway, his ex and I became confidants and we talked trash about him to each other all the time (ya know like girls do) and in a way, I really think that she's to be credited for me getting over him. Well, we were talking one night and I knew that the two of them had slept together when they were dating (they went out for like 2yrs.) and I told her that I was glad that I hadn't slept with him. He was her first and the only guy that she has slept with. She found out not too long ago that she has cervical cancer...she told me this and continued to inform me that her doctor had told her it was from HPV (the std). Ofcourse, she and I are both convinced that this guy is responsible for giving it to her (after all, he is the only guy that she has ever slept with). That's not my only problem: he has no idea that she has cancer and she is sooo scared to tell him. He and I share a mutual friend and that friend just happens to be my best friend (the two of them on the other hand hardly ever talk). So here's where the advice comes in, "our" friend knows about the cancer thing with the girl (he knows her too) and he has been on MY back about it ever since he found out (an accident by the way)...he wants me to tell the guy that he is carrying HPV and that his ex has cancer. I KNOW that he needs to know but why should I have to tell him??? I haven't even seen the guy in six months, he's dating someone now and chances are they're sleeping together. I would hate for someone else to get a venerial disease just because this guy is the selfish slug of a man that he is but i don't know what to do....PLEASE HELP! (link)
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im going to agree with him -me
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i really like a boy but i not sure how he feels about me . how can i find out???? (link)
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tell him or you will never know -me
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ok i have had to decide between to guys and i have picked my neighbor not only is he the man of my dreams but is every thing to me i mean im just the girl next door and have the look to but i ran into a problem i cant stop thinking about the other boy can anyone help me find a way to put him in the past as a boyfreind but also be my friend too? (link)
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ok you know either you keep asking the same question over and over and over again or you have the same problen as alot of people...either read what other people have asked or get it the hell over with and ask him out -me
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MY EX BOYFRIEND BROKE UP WITH ME AWHIEL AGO AND I PROMISED MYSELF I WOULD FORGET HIM AND YET EVERYTIME I TRY I SEE ALL THE GOOD MEMORIES OF US AND WE STILL TALK SOMETIMES BUT HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND NOW AND IVE HAD OTHER BOYFRIENDS BUT I STILL THINK OF HIM IN THERE PLACES AM I JUST PATHEIC OR WHAT? (link)
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not pathetic... its ok....just work on getting over him -me
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okay im like with this guy on the net and stuff and we've like been 2geter for two months rite and i like really like him and like he's all like saying about how much he luvs me and junk and want to like sped eterinity with eachother and im like i don know and like what do i like do. (link)
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well from reading this it sounds like you havent even met in real life..... he probably doesnt mean anything he says hes probably an old dirty man who wants in your pants...dont buy into it -me
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Ok see here is the problem,I really want a boyfriend but I am afraid I will not get one because i am what some people call gothic and what other people call punk or a skater.I dont know what to do!I really want a boyfriend i feel so lonely without one what can i do to get one without changing who i am or what i belive in? Also i dont like getting rejected i think it is akward. (link)
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hey i know what you are going through i too am what most people call "gothic" it has gotten me many look and stares but i have had no problem with finding people who belive in the same thing as me... keep looking look in places that you like go places that you enjoy and if you find someone there you guys obviously have somethig in common -me
p.s. where do you live i may know someone who is looking as well email me at yoyofire.cr@verizon.net
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ok well I have known this kid for about 2 years right. and we would date off and on. and this year I started dating him again and I introduced him to my bestfriend because I wanted them to know each other but I didn't want them to start liking each other.ok well my friend came up with the idea that both of us would date him at the same time. and I love my friend to death and i would do anything for her even this so I was like I guess. so after like 2 days I was like to my friend if you like him that much you can just go out with him I odn't like him anymore hes all yours. but I relaly didn't mean it so now the go out but I wanna tell her how I really feel what should I do? (link)
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first off ::slaps wrist:: letting your friend date the same guy as you at the same time is a no no..i belive there is a unwritten rule saying that you cant even date one of your ex's friends without there permission...its just not too nice..anyway...yes tell her how you feel let her know that you still care for him and you guys work something out...all in all i hate to say it but i think your relationship with this guy is done.....bad on your part -me
p.s. sorry if that came off mean
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I guess, any answer to this is just a matter of opinion, but here goes....Um...Ok, my ex b/f has a new g/f, and they seem to being going strong. But, in school he seems so unhappy. I don't know. I still really like him. And I'm not saying that I won't date other people for him, or not hang out with my friends to just sit around and wait for him. But, I don't know. What do you guys think? (link)
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well its good that you sill show that you care about him dont be too strong with that though ask him whats wrong and if he tells you then youll know but let him know your there for him to talk to...maybe it has nothing to do with his relationship who knows...and your on the right track talking about dating others move on with your lie and youll see things go much more smoothly -me
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I'm a 16 year old girl. Lately I have been really distant and detached from everything, and I don't know what makes this attractive or if the moons are aligned or what, but all of the sudden I'm getting all of this attention from guys at school. Any other time I'd be thrilled to death, but right now I'm just kinda like, "Eh." The guys that have professed their feelings, indirectly or through my friends, are great as friends, but I'm just not interested in them in a romantic way. A month ago I'd even be happy to go out on a date with whomever, but now I want to be boyfriend-less and have a good time hanging with my friends and concentrating on school.
The one guy I do have a little bit of interest in is currently into someone else.
How do I turn these guys down without hurting their feelings or making an awkward situation? I still want to hang around with them with my friends, just not in one-on-one sessions.
Ugh. (link)
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well either way if you hurt the guys or not your going to have to tell them...we dont catch on to things like that too quickly.... but just be straight up with them i know i like it better when the person doesnt make up some long fake stroy so it wont hurt my feelings as for the guuy you like just wait it out but dont wait too long you gotta move on for all you know maybe hes interested in you but if he thinks youll be waiting for him when his current relationship breaks up then it will never turn out good for you....move on and see what happens you never know you may find someone a whole lot better -me
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If you're still stuck on an ex who has a new g/f, are you as pathetic as you feel? (which is very pathetic) (link)
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pathetic? yea right.... no your not pathetic...if anything it just shows you how much the guy meant to you...no go out there and find someone who means more to you and wont leave you -me
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Why can't he see all the signs I try to make whenever he looks at me I try to look back and make eye contact but he always turns away too quickly. . i really love him! I cantt ake my eyes off of him. . and soemtimes I think he gets annoyed because I stare at him so much. . I just melt wheneerI try to go talk to him I cant do it. . im too nervous I dont have anything to say I men we could talka bout his football. . ugh and well I dont think hed like me. . and Im so negative. . Are his looks of anger? or for love? I dont understand if he likes me or not. . I rlly like him and I wish I could have a chance with him. . we never get to talk anyways except 4 lunch but he is with all his friends. . and so I just want to atleast be his friend! My life is so horrible MAKE IT STOP! HELP ME! Iw ant to ask him out. . should I I mean I have known him 4 4 or 5 months already. . but I only know that hes funny, sweet & really cute. .HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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ok many girlf will agree with me guys are dense just come out and tell him you like him...we have hard times figuring things out that girls think should be obvious....tell him and if that doesnt work then move on -me
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Who said he had a GirlFriend? All I said was that he had moved on. (link)
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no one but i was guessing that when someone says that there ex has moved on it normally means moved on as in "he moved on to another person"
im sorry for any incoinveince this could have caused -me
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My ex boyfriend dumped me over about 2 months ago and im still hung up on him. Even though he's moved on. I really want to get back together with him and I can't stop thinking of him, and he doesn't even notice me anymore. What do I do?
SL (link)
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call him.... tell him how you feel...if hes got a girlfriend then either wait it out or move on he probably doesnt want you to feel bad over the situation....your best bet is to call him and tell him how you feel... i wish you luck -me
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ok so this is the problem a month ago tommorow i started dating this guy. he treats me like a saint. he says he loves me and his brother and father tell me how good i am for him.in fact that after his life went downhill, im the only thing to make him happy, but im unhappy. im not physically attracted to him. and i kno thats shallow, but he likes to be very physical. today this guy i really like asked me out, i said yes w/o thinking. i really dont want ot hurt the guy im with now. and i refuse to cheat. im so confused and hurting inside like u would not believe. he did nothing to deserve this, its just i felt like i was smothering. maybe im wrong. i kno i am, that i should be able to make myself love him the way he does me, but i cant... i just cant. god please help me, and tell me what to do. im soo confused (link)
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well tell him how you feel unless this is some horriable joke to get back at him for making you feel like shit when he tried to be the good one and save you the heart ache.....oh well i believe you, you were in a bitchy mood
no worries and above all thanks hun love ya to death
^^ p.s. gotta love the girlfriend
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WHAT SIGNS CAN U GET FROM A GUY TO KNOW HE WANTS TO BE MORE THAN JUST FRIENDS. ALSO SIGNS FROM A GIRL. (link)
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hahahaha you just want all of us to do the work for you...thats half the fun of dating trying to find out whats going on...all i can say is goodluck ^^
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WHEN TALKING TO UR CRUSH WHAT THINGS SHOULD U AVOID WETHER U R A GIRL OR A BOY. (link)
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DONT start by asking if hes single that wont work....but i normally would ask about things that can branch off onto another subject like
"do you atch any anime?" which can branch off to "whats your favorite?" to "do you like j-rock/j-pop at all?" basically just talk about things that you know something about dont pick a topic tat you know too much about because that can intimidate whoever your trying to talk to...i know when my girlfriend switches languages in midsentence sure it sounds cool but im left feeling slightly stupid...hoped that helped ^.^
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