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Why can't he see?


Question Posted Tuesday January 6 2004, 7:52 am

Why can't he see all the signs I try to make whenever he looks at me I try to look back and make eye contact but he always turns away too quickly. . i really love him! I cantt ake my eyes off of him. . and soemtimes I think he gets annoyed because I stare at him so much. . I just melt wheneerI try to go talk to him I cant do it. . im too nervous I dont have anything to say I men we could talka bout his football. . ugh and well I dont think hed like me. . and Im so negative. . Are his looks of anger? or for love? I dont understand if he likes me or not. . I rlly like him and I wish I could have a chance with him. . we never get to talk anyways except 4 lunch but he is with all his friends. . and so I just want to atleast be his friend! My life is so horrible MAKE IT STOP! HELP ME! Iw ant to ask him out. . should I I mean I have known him 4 4 or 5 months already. . but I only know that hes funny, sweet & really cute. .HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Additional info, added Tuesday January 27 2004, 12:05 am:
*I dont like this kid anymore*.

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OneMan answered Wednesday January 7 2004, 6:04 pm:
First of all, quit lying about "only wanting to be his friend". You want to be his friend because you see that as an "in". Once you are though, you know you're going to try and do everything in your power to try and make it more. So, either accept that now, or your setting yourself up for hurt. What if he did allow you to become friends, and that's it. How horrible would you feel?
Now, approach him from a point of his likes. Make him WANt to talk to you. Dig up something that you know he will find ineteresting and try striking up a conversation from there. Soon, you'll start to see clearer signs of how he feels.

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Advice_Goddess answered Tuesday January 6 2004, 8:32 pm:
You cant love someone you dont talk to. You can have a crush, but thats it. Why dont you just talk about his football? If he wont talk back, he is not worth your time. If he is receptive and seems happy to talk to you, good for you. Keep talking to him, make friends, then, if you feel that you know him well and that you are good friends and you still want to date him, ask him out.

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jenjen answered Tuesday January 6 2004, 6:31 pm:
Well talk to him and try to make sure he's single
if he is then make sure to get the way he wants it to be.

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shay*shay answered Tuesday January 6 2004, 5:05 pm:
I think you should go for it and talk to him. There really is nothing you can lose. If a guy came up to me randomley I'd definetley talk to him. Go for it!
-shay :-)

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rabidweasel answered Tuesday January 6 2004, 3:15 pm:
ok many girlf will agree with me guys are dense just come out and tell him you like him...we have hard times figuring things out that girls think should be obvious....tell him and if that doesnt work then move on -me

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metawidget answered Tuesday January 6 2004, 2:58 pm:
Lick his forehead.

He'll have to say something, or you'll have to say someting, or he'll just run away screaming.

In any case, things will change, right?

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SilverLilly answered Tuesday January 6 2004, 2:48 pm:
You should try and send him a note and ask him to meet u somewhere so you can talk in private maybe then it would be better to talk without anyone around. And about the lunch thing ask if you can sit with him and his friends and just try to talk. You never know till you try hon.

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