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can you get pregnant from anual sex??? (link)
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This question was posted awhile ago, but so far all of the answers have been wrong. The answer is YES. Why, you ask? Simply because of the drip factor. You see, for anal sex to work, the female has to be lying face down or kneeling or standing, and gravity will sometimes guide sperm down to the vagina, causing pregnancy. STD's are also a risk, although no more than with vaginal sex.
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Is there any chance at all of a woman getting pregnant if the man wears a condom, without actual intercourse?
The penis would still be quite close (touching, probably) to the vagina, but not inside. (link)
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Whenever there is penile-vaginal contact there is a change of pregnancy, but the presence of the contact greatly reduces the chances by up to 97%. Being on the pill also helps, and doing both is the single best way (other than total abstinance from any sexual act) to prevent pregnancy and disease. But from the sound of things, you or whoever you were asking about is pretty damn safe! Good job! Incidentally, you SHOULD wear condoms even when there is no penetration or even ejaculation, because the sperm can still get in and there is often a bit of semen on the tip of the penis before the man ejaculates.
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please could u tell me what prison sentence someone will get for sexual abuse on a child of 10 years old (link)
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Depends on the age of the abuser and the State or Province in which the abuse occured.
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My friend got fingered by a guy, and she has had her period. I was wondering can you get pregnant from being fingered. Does that also mean ur a no a vergin anymor?? PLease write back thanx (link)
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Unless there is semen on his hand, she is not at risk for pregnancy. If he was just touching his penis, then there might have been semen on it, but if not I wouldn't worry. As for virginity, I don't think that she lost anything. However, nobody can define virginity for you. There are many different sexual acts and what you define as sex is where your definition of virginity lies. Wherever it is, what you need to ask yourself is does it really matter? Why is it so important? I don't think having sex means you lose anything, you only gain a new experience.
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i have been sleeping with 5 guys for the last 3 months and they dont know about each other. Recently my best friend and i got into a fight and she told 3 of them about each other. Now i am 1 month pregnant and i dont know who the father is. The guys that know about each other now dont want anything to do with me and i am really hurt. I dont know why they wouldent want a beautifull sexy girl like me in their lives. Please help me in deciding what to do. (link)
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ok, so far no one has given you any real counselling, so I'm going to try:
1. Did you use a condom every single time you had sex? A dental damn for cunnilingus if there was any? Protection, protection, protection EVERY SINGLE TIME? If the answer is no, then you must go to a clinic and get tested for AIDS, and various other STD's and STI's that you are at risk for.
2. Have you been to the gynocologist? If not, for heaven's sake, go! It is for your own personal health and safety and that of the baby, should you choose to have it. Also, if you choose abortion, you may need a referal from a gyno.
3. What are you going to do with the baby? From the sound of your question it sounds like you plan on keeping it, but you need to decide if that is the right thing to do. Can you support a baby for the rest of its life? Can you love it and care for it at all hours of the day and night, sacrificing your every desire to keep it warm and healthy? Can you provide for its health at all? Do you even want this baby? If the answer is no, then you might want to consider abortion or adoption. Many people posting answers to this said that abortion is evil, and many people share this belief, but depending on what country you are in you should have full legal rights to abortion if you want it. It is not in fact dangerous, it is a safe medical procedure that will not affect your future fertility and only you can decide if that is right for you. Not everyone is plagued by guilt, as some would have you believe, because abortion can be the right choice for both you and the baby. Talk to planned parenthood about this. www.plannedparenthood.org
Adoption is also a very real option for you. What happens is you contact an adoption agency during your pregnancy and tell them that your are however many months pregnant and that you wish to give the baby up for adoption. They will give you the names of couples or single people willing to adopt, and you will be allowed to choose the people/person to whom you will give your baby. In some cases you will be allowed to visit it and be involved in its life. That is usually the choice of the adoptive parents. This is all totally up to you. For more information on birth control, diseases, and abortion rights and procedures, here are some websites:
www.scarleteen.com
www.womenshealthcanada.com
www.womenshealthclinic.org
www.legaldirectory.ws
www.adoptionservices.org
I hope this helps you in some way. Good luck in the future.
And to some of the other people who posted responses to this question: What were you thinking? A pregnant girl came here looking for help and all you could think of to say is that she is a slut and that it is all her fault? You are not here to pass judgement, you are here to help people who do not have the answers. How she lives her life is up to her, and all we are here to do is help her make the right decisions in her times of crisis, that is, when she asks for help. She did NOT come here to be insulted and she is in a serious enough situation that I for one am ready to overlook personal disagreements with her lifestyle.
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My ex fiencee, Tim, left me two days before my birthday. He left me at the worst time of my life. Since then we haven't talked much...and now he suddenly shows up and tries to apologize. I am so angry with him, but I still love him very very much. I want to hate him...I really do...but I can't. When he left, I started getting my life back into order, although it'd fall apart right after. I have a boyfriend now, but he means next to nothing to me. I don't want to let Tim hurt me again. He'd been my best friend for three years before we started a relationship.
*Alone by nature*
Abby (link)
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Do not get back together with Tim. He is immature and cannot make a commitment, either to you or to himself. Break up with the boyfriend who means nothing to you, because you are wasting your time. You do not need a boyfriend.
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Why can't he see all the signs I try to make whenever he looks at me I try to look back and make eye contact but he always turns away too quickly. . i really love him! I cantt ake my eyes off of him. . and soemtimes I think he gets annoyed because I stare at him so much. . I just melt wheneerI try to go talk to him I cant do it. . im too nervous I dont have anything to say I men we could talka bout his football. . ugh and well I dont think hed like me. . and Im so negative. . Are his looks of anger? or for love? I dont understand if he likes me or not. . I rlly like him and I wish I could have a chance with him. . we never get to talk anyways except 4 lunch but he is with all his friends. . and so I just want to atleast be his friend! My life is so horrible MAKE IT STOP! HELP ME! Iw ant to ask him out. . should I I mean I have known him 4 4 or 5 months already. . but I only know that hes funny, sweet & really cute. .HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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You cant love someone you dont talk to. You can have a crush, but thats it. Why dont you just talk about his football? If he wont talk back, he is not worth your time. If he is receptive and seems happy to talk to you, good for you. Keep talking to him, make friends, then, if you feel that you know him well and that you are good friends and you still want to date him, ask him out.
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OK so here's what happened this weekend...
Friday; after work Jon came up to me and told me (with beautiful eloquence) that he fancied me.
Saturday; I went to meet him after work to talk to him.I was sufficiently confused that he guilt-tripped me into saying that I liked him back and getting his mobile no. etc.
Sunday; he asked me to meet him and we spent a couple of hours in town talking.
Monday;he asked me to meet him (again) and I said I had to much work to do.
Today; I will be seeing him and would like YOUR advice as to how to let him down.
He is a very sweet person but I don't like him enough to want to go out with him especially with the complication of working together.
HELP!
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Be casual when you are together. Ask if its ok with him if you guys just hang out and dont date. If he's such a sweet guy he'll probly be cool with it, although slightly hurt.
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I think I'm addicted to the internet. I'v been on for at least 6 hours today. The thing is though, I don't know if me being on this long partly has to do with the fact that I hardly go on all week becasue I don't have the time. Is there any way somebody can help me. The time is 12:07 am right now and I got on at 8:30 (probably only taking a 30 minute to an hour break)
I feel so crappy! (link)
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Go for a walk.
Draw a picture.
Join a dance class.
Get your ass outside!
Not going on all week should not result in weekend addiction. Repeat after me: you do not need the internet. You do not need the internet. You DO have a life. You DO have a life.
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ok well here is the deal i hate these things because they are all alike but i need to no
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ok my friend and i are semi close and he isnt really that cute but today when i passed him in the hall in the morning his eyes caught the light just right and i literally stoped and just stared at him and i mean last year he would make my knees go weak and melt every time i looked into his baby blue eyes (they are like brad pitts eyes in interview with a vampire when he is a vampire not before) and he has the most gorgeous lips but i have to say an ugly nose lol any way the other day i told him his sister told me he had little pink piggy's on his boxers and after i told him hes like well i do see and he showwed me cuase he was wearing them that day and omg i cant stop thinking about him but what i want to know is it love cause i am only in 9th grade or crush or nothing oh and jsut to let you all no io posted before and the title of that post was snibble it was under love relationships (link)
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It's called infatuation.
Not love, infatuation. Never confuse the two.
And if you like him maybe you should try to talk to him a little more and to spend some time with him, hmm? (And I wouldnt read too much into him showing you his boxers, because in 9th grade all boys will do that).
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Does anyone know of a good leg exercise? Ever since I stopped taking gym classes, my legs have gotten out of shape. Would you know a good one for both weight loss and to get them back into semi-shape? Esp. for someone with not a lot of time or space? (link)
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wall sits and jump squats spring to mind...
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I have a friend who's about to be initiated into Wicca. I know what Wicca's about, and that's mainly why I've been hoping he wouldn't. He's getting initiated on Saturday, and I'm really worried. Is there anything I can do to talk him out of it in five days?!? (link)
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What on earth is wrong with Wiccanism? I love Wicca, I think it is a wonderful religion, and I have always wondered what the problem people seem to have with it is. But there are alot of misconceptions about it out there, so maybe that is what you are thinking of.
It is not your place to talk him out of his personal beliefs, no more than it is his to talk you out of yours, so back off or be prepared to deal with him being hurt and angry that you would meddle in something so personal and important for him.
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All of my freinds have guys that like them and their all going out and everything. As far as I know nobody likes me. How can I find out if anyone does? Or how can I get somone to like me. Its verry annoying when all of my freinds are always going out and I'm always at home. (link)
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If you try to get someone to like you, then its not you they like, its the fake person you have created for them and that's not solving the problem. Come to that, what is the problem? That you aren't dating? Come on now, you do NOT need boys (or girls) asking you out to be happy. Really, I'm sure you're better than that! If its REALLY REALLY REALLY important to you (and it shouldnt be but if it is) then just ask one of your friends to set you up and have a double date. Thats my advice, either forget it or take the initiative. You should probably just forget it.
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The musical director at my theatre company has asked everyone who plays an instrument to bring it with them to the next rehearsal. I travel to rehearsals on the bus so I'm not sure whether I should. The cello doesn't belong to me but to the County music service although the case is my own( it's a hard case at least). The cello is on my Household Insurance.
Do you think I should bring it or not? I have been specifically asked to bring it because there is a shortage of bass instruments. (link)
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Bring it and be crazy careful. Try to keep it as out of the way as possible. Or talk to the music director ahead of time and try to work something out. Actually, go with the second option, its the best one.
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my ex and i are very good friends and i have found a new boyfriend. let's call my ex "Chicken" we are very comfortable and open with eachother so i told him about the new guy in my life, who i shall call "Squishy". after, Chicken was very quiet then asked if i love Squishy. What does this mean? he won't tell me. (link)
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Just because you two are over doesn't mean Chicken is ready to see you with another man. He isn't jealous of Squishy per se, but he wasn't expecting replacement. He hasn't found someone new yet, and its probably bothering him that you found another man before he found another woman. Just don't shove anything in his face, be quiet about your new relationship, and let him get used to the idea.
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My boyfriend is physically incapable of selecting decent movies for us to watch together. I keep trying to coach him on it ("okay honey, now see, this is another lame flic about rich people killing for more money...") but it's not working. He just doesn't understand the words "pick out something intellectual". I end up chosing most of the movies myself now but it'd be really nice if I could just say, "Pick something up on the way here and we'll watch it" when I'm feeling lazy. Got any tips on how to make him get it? Is this a sign that he's just not right? (link)
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Um...no. Its a sign that you have different taste in movies. Maybe its time to accept and deal with that, hm? Like, some nights you pick the movie and some nights he does and you do this fancy little thing called COMPROMISE? Because my guess is that he LIKES his "dumb" movies and probably isn't the biggest fan of yours. Either watch a bad movie every now and again, or don't watch movies with your boyfriend.
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I'm on my period and have really awful cramps. What's the best drug to take? Aspirin? Tylenol? I'm tempted to just take them all. (link)
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Go for midol. Or equate, for PMS. Aspirin is good too.
Whatever you do, don't take tylenol for cramps.
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i don't know if i'm pregnant or not i don't think i am but i'm not certain but i don't have any money to go to the doctor or get a test is there any other way to find out if i am or not?
also my nipple is bleeding and it hurts, what's wrong with it? (link)
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I have no clue whats wrong with your nipple. Did you cut it? No? Go to a doctor right now.
There are certain signs that a person is pregnant: lack of mentrual period, morning sickness, etc. We all know them. But better than guessing by symptoms (Because they can mean other things too) is just buying a home kit. They really aren't that expensive, and they're pretty reliable. They measure the level of a certain hormone in your urine that increases with pregnancy. Another option is going to one of those free sexual health clinics. Find a good one in your area and get checked out.
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I heard this ad on the radio for these parties... they're like tupperware parties, where women get together and buy stuff... only we're buying sex toys instead. Since I've got all these boring married coworker gals who are always inviting me to their make-up parties and kitchen selling things, I was thinking of setting up a sex toy party.
I'm totally serious.
Would this be a bad thing to do with co-workers? What exactly is a sex toy party? If I call the shop that's offering this thing will I get suckered into some awful deal my friends will never forgive me for? (link)
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Please do not do this. Please. You said yourself that these women are boring married women who throw kitchen parties, and you honestly think they are going to show up for your sex toy party and buy things, for themselves and their husbands, right in front of everyone? No, that is just setting yourself up for a major fall. I promise you this party will be a fiasco.
If you are set on at least trying, bring up the subject at work. Say "I was listening to the radio the other day, and heard about these sex toy parties" in a nice, neutral voice and see how they react. If they seem excited or interested, well, you could give it a shot and if they are disgusted, forget it.
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I'm going on a three day camping trip and want to pack a first aid kit, but it's gotta be really small. What are some of the more important things for me to carry? I really don't get injured much so I'm not that worried, it's mostly that everyone around me is like "you GOTTA have a first aid kit" and all that. (link)
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Well, if you need it to be tiny and don't hurt yourself much, I would suggest taking your basic bandaids, gauze, medical tape, disinfectant soap )Purell makes an excellent hand soap, very small and carryable)and some chlorine tablets for purifying water (if needed). Nothing fancy, nothing space-consuming, you know.
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