MY EX BOYFRIEND BROKE UP WITH ME AWHIEL AGO AND I PROMISED MYSELF I WOULD FORGET HIM AND YET EVERYTIME I TRY I SEE ALL THE GOOD MEMORIES OF US AND WE STILL TALK SOMETIMES BUT HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND NOW AND IVE HAD OTHER BOYFRIENDS BUT I STILL THINK OF HIM IN THERE PLACES AM I JUST PATHEIC OR WHAT?
OneMan answered Friday January 9 2004, 1:30 pm: No, you're not pathetic. It's common for us to freshly see the "bad" in someone WHILE we're breaking up or shortly after having done so. As time goes on, however, we have a tendency to remember the good that cam along with the relationship, as well. That's where you are now, I would think. It's very normal and doesn't make you pathetic in any way. All it takes is a little more time and you'll soon be able to think about the "good times" without feeling the need to have them again. [ OneMan's advice column | Ask OneMan A Question ]
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