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if the boy i liked forgot my age and thought i was 12 still and not 13 is that a bad thing? and does that mean he doesnt like me? or do boys tend to forget girls age? i have repeated my b-day a lot of times in front of him (link)
some boys are like that, so i suggest you do this, meet up with a couple of your friends and make him be there too, then ask when everybodys bday is and someone is then bound to ask yours and you say it.(or better yet tell one of your friends to ask you, but make sure that the guy you like doesnt hear you ask your friend to ask about your bday)


I am a really shy girl...I don't talk volunteerely in school to anybody. I have this crazy idea to ask him out. He's seen me before, but we don't actually know eachother. I'm so confused. I want to ask him out because I realize this is my life and I have to start living it to the fullest.
Please...I don't want to confront him even though I would have to in order to ask him out. What do I do?...besides putting a note in his locker because there's cameras in my school so that's out of the question. Plus, my school is very loud and there's always somebody in the hallway. Please help me. I'm so nervous but you don't understand how badly I want to do this. (link)
ok i think that first you should become friends with him, then after a couple of days ask him out on the internet or on the phone, and if he rejects you just say: u actually believed me?!?!?
so that way it is less embaresing for you.


the boy i like well his mom says that he doesnt like any girls but is always hanging around me doe that mean he likes me?we do a lot of stuff like make jumps for my romote control car and we jump on my trampoline together and ride my scooter together do u think he might like me or is he trying to be friendly please tell me (link)
not sure, he is either really in need of a friend, or you are the first girl that he ever thuoght of asking out or even liking and he might be scared by the idea that you will reject him. ask him yourslef but not in person, try over the phone or online so that it is less embarresing for both of you. good luck!


well i used to live with my step mom. she was very abusive in many ways (ie) telling me i was worthless, throwing things at me, forgeting about me all kinds of thing she once made me stand in a corner from sunrise to sunset for 6 days straight but im getting off topic...im now no longer living there i was able to move in with my father who i realized that i wanted to live with after i could see through all the brainwashing done by my mother.... now its been a few months since i last saw her let alone talk to her...yet after all of the pains she has caused me i keep trying to reachout and make contact with her. i called her to wish her a happy new year and merry christmas and she never called me back to even say hi. yet im still filled with a conpulsion to call her once more and try all over agian. each time i do this im thrown into a depression that is hard to get out of. should i keep trying to reach out or should i go about it another way. please help

lost in fl. (link)
ok so i am guessing that your father split up with your step mother ( adopted mother)and i think that she is mad at your father for this and you are the only remainder of him that she has, so she was taking it out no you. i think that you should try to reach her becuase it is the right thing to do. maybe ask her why she did all those things. well good luck!


OK THE MAN OF MY DREAMS IS MY NEIGHBOR RIGHT HE IS ACTIVE HE PLAYS FOOTBALL AND BASKETBALL AND DOES TRACK BUT HE SAID WHEN HE GETS OLDER HE DOESNT WANT TO HAVE A PHYSICAL JOB DOES THAT MEAN HE IS GOING TO BE LAZY?ASLO HE DOESNT FLIRT AND IS 14 AND DOESNT HAVE PIT HAIRS DOES THIS MEAN WHEN HE GETS ALL THAT HE WILL BE MORE INTO GIRLS? (link)
hesw not sure and apparently you arent either, take some time to get to know him a little better, it will be for the best.


WHAT ARE THE SIGNS THAT SHOW A BOY LIKES YOU? (link)
TRIES to be funny, flirts, when something gets too seriuse he turs away.


iv got hungry eyes one look at him and i fantisize i feel the magic betweem him and i (link)
go for it


Why can't he see all the signs I try to make whenever he looks at me I try to look back and make eye contact but he always turns away too quickly. . i really love him! I cantt ake my eyes off of him. . and soemtimes I think he gets annoyed because I stare at him so much. . I just melt wheneerI try to go talk to him I cant do it. . im too nervous I dont have anything to say I men we could talka bout his football. . ugh and well I dont think hed like me. . and Im so negative. . Are his looks of anger? or for love? I dont understand if he likes me or not. . I rlly like him and I wish I could have a chance with him. (link)
you probably do, he doesnt want to make a commitment and he is not sure if he likes you either, but heres tip#1:dont stare at him so much
tip#2: talk to him about something.....anything.....then ask him out.....and if he rejects you then say: i cant beleive you fell for that...i was joking!


OK GTHIS BOY I WENT OTU WITH TELLS ME IM HOT AND THAT IM BEUATIFUL AND COULD HAVE ANY BOY I WANTED BUT HE SAID ALL THIS AFTER WE WENT OUT SO IF HE SAID I COULD GET ANYBOY I WANT HOW COME NO BOYS AVE ASKED ME OUT? (link)
i think that they are afraid, but if you like somebody and they wont ask you....ask them out and if they reject you say: I CANT BELEIVE YOU FELL FOR THAT I WAS JOKING!


IM 13 AND THE BOY I LIKE IS 14 SHOULD I TELL HIM I HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM OR WAIT TILL IM OLDER? IM REALLY REALLY SCARED OF REJECTIONAND I MWORRIED WHAT HE WILL SAY... SHOUDL I WAIT TILL IM IN 9TH GRADE OR SHOULD I TELL HIM THIS SUMMER WHILE HE IS OVER SWIMMING I DONT WANT TO BREAK OUR FRIENDSHIP IM JUST SCARED OF REJECTION PLEASE HELP ME!!!! (link)
ok i think you should ask him now, and if he rejects you just say:OH MY GOD YOU ACTUALY THUOGHT THAT I WAS SERIUS?!?!?


OK THERES THIS BOY THAT I WENT OUT WITH LIKE A MONTH AGO(HIS NAME IS BEN) AND I MEAN HE WAAS GREAT AND STUFF BUT I LIKED MY NEIGHBOR EVEN THOUGH IM NOT GETTING ANYWHERE WITH HIM I LOVE HIM STILL BUT I STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR BEN ,BUT KNOW HE HAS A NEW GIRLFRIEND BUT IM THE TYPE OF GIRL THAT LOOKS ON THE OUTSIDE OF A BOY FIRST AND BEN JUST WASNT WHAT I WAS LOOKING FOR BUT ON THE INSIDE HE WAS NOW YOUR PROABABLY GOING OT SAY LOOKS DONT MATTER AND THEY MATTER TO ME BECAUSE I DESERVE A HOT GUY LIKE MY NEIGHBOR BUT HE IS JUST NOT LIKE BEN IN THE INSIDE? (link)
ok think of it this way: would you rather spend your life with: a very hot guy that you dont love, or a person not so hott but you love him and he loves you. in the end youll need someone that will comfort you and love you, not someone who will make you look good in front of your friends.


MY EX BOYFRIEND BROKE UP WITH ME AWHIEL AGO AND I PROMISED MYSELF I WOULD FORGET HIM AND YET EVERYTIME I TRY I SEE ALL THE GOOD MEMORIES OF US AND WE STILL TALK SOMETIMES BUT HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND NOW AND IVE HAD OTHER BOYFRIENDS BUT I STILL THINK OF HIM IN THERE PLACES AM I JUST PATHEIC OR WHAT? (link)
i dont think that you are pathetic at all. i think that you shouldnt even remember the times that you had together because that makes you think of all the "what ifs" just move on......youll find someone.....alwaya remember: no guy is worth crying over, but when you find the one that is.....he wont make you cry.


WHAT ARE SOME GOOD THINGS TO TALK ABOUT WITH YOUR CRUSH? (link)
well......first you should find out what kind of things he likes to do.....ask him questions.....and when you get an idea of what kind of thing he likes to do....talk about that and tell him your what you think about that......becuase if you dont be yourself he might like that person and when you start acting like yourself again........itll be a dissapointment.....but im sure that you a great person and that you will do fine......GOOD LUCK!


if i had a dream about a boy that i dumped like a month ago and i liked the dream does that mean i like him? (link)
not really, sometimes when you meet a guy and you think he is really sweet you have trouble telling the difference if you want to just be friends with that person becuase of their qualities, or if you really do like him. but do you get a starnge feeling every time you see each other? if not then theres nothing.....yet


im in love with my neighbor and even if we have to runaway im gonna marry that boy someday (link)
i dont thin that you should runaway and get married with him, there is no reason to, unless your parents have something to say about it, then you should listen to them and think about what they have said. when you think that you are ready to marry him then you should. but dont get married too young becuase what if he was just a crush and you find someone else.....and its too late to get out..........


ok i told my mom i was going to tell nick i like him but she said no becuz hshe said he is the type of boy that will run off and never come back but im not really sure about that aslo if i do tell him that i like whats a godo way to tell him? (link)
i think that your mom might be right, but first i think that you have to get to know this "nick" before you start something serius ( sorry about my spelling), and once you get to know him and you still feel that you like him then you should tell him that. and just remember......no guy is worth crying over.....and when you find one that is......he wont make you cry.




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