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nervous girl
I am a really shy girl...I don't talk volunteerely in school to anybody. I have this crazy idea to ask him out. He's seen me before, but we don't actually know eachother. I'm so confused. I want to ask him out because I realize this is my life and I have to start living it to the fullest.
Please...I don't want to confront him even though I would have to in order to ask him out. What do I do?...besides putting a note in his locker because there's cameras in my school so that's out of the question. Plus, my school is very loud and there's always somebody in the hallway. Please help me. I'm so nervous but you don't understand how badly I want to do this.
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Well, if you find it hard to ask him out verbally, and the note in the locker is out, then why not be a bit more discreet. Find a time when his books are laying about, unattended, and simply slide the note into it. You could also opt to simply walk up to him, hand him the note, and keep going.
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ok i think that first you should become friends with him, then after a couple of days ask him out on the internet or on the phone, and if he rejects you just say: u actually believed me?!?!?
so that way it is less embaresing for you.
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It's going to be hard for you to get anything started with him since you're so shy. Since you said you don't normally talk to anyone why don't you start getting more involved in some school things or start talking tio other people and making friends and things so you can bring yourself out of the shyness a bit... then when you feel it is really time to talk with him and things like that you will be more ready.It will be better to socialize yourself to more other people before jumping in "Headfirst" so to speak...
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You should be his friend. If you have the guts to ask him out you sefinetley have the guts to go up and talk to him.
-shay :-)
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First I understand i'm shy too. Get to know him first! if you don't start a relationship, then u will just end up being good friends. you have nothing to loose. good luck!
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