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I guess, any answer to this is just a matter of opinion, but here goes....Um...Ok, my ex b/f has a new g/f, and they seem to being going strong. But, in school he seems so unhappy. I don't know. I still really like him. And I'm not saying that I won't date other people for him, or not hang out with my friends to just sit around and wait for him. But, I don't know. What do you guys think?
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I'm interetsed in knowing that if he IS unhappy, what makes you think that it's automatically the new g/f that's doing it. If you are still on a friendly basis, then ask him if there's anything he may want to talk about. Tell him that it appears that he's a bit unhappy about something and let him kno you're there. Let me caution you, though. Stay away from any type of "getting back together" talk. If it's NOT his girlfriend that he's unhappy with, your insensitivity may just run him away.
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Talk to him, as a friend. If he has another girlfriend, don't be a homewrecker. Just explain that he seems down and you care about him and want to listen to him and help him out. AS A FRIEND.
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Talk to him. Ask him why he looks so unhappy. Try to get through the route of the problem.
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First of all, how are you so sure that he is unhappy because of his new girlfriend? Maybe it could be some other reason, but why don't you find out first? Talk to him, see how he's doing and what the problem is. Who knows? Maybe you can help him with it and you two might hook up again!
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I think you're in denial here my friend. You said it yourself they are going strong. Just because he may seem unhappy at school doesn't mean he's not getting along with her girlfriend. Maybe there are other things that's on his mind. Face the fact that it's over between the two of you and that there may never be a chance of reconcillation. If you catch yourself thinking of him, focus your attention on other things. Time heals all wound. Your's will heal too.
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Does he always seem unhappy? Some people are just like that. I dont think you sit around and just wait for him though. Stay a friend of his and maybe you two will go out again.
-shay :-)
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well its good that you sill show that you care about him dont be too strong with that though ask him whats wrong and if he tells you then youll know but let him know your there for him to talk to...maybe it has nothing to do with his relationship who knows...and your on the right track talking about dating others move on with your lie and youll see things go much more smoothly -me
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