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ok well I have known this kid for about 2 years right. and we would date off and on. and this year I started dating him again and I introduced him to my bestfriend because I wanted them to know each other but I didn't want them to start liking each other.ok well my friend came up with the idea that both of us would date him at the same time. and I love my friend to death and i would do anything for her even this so I was like I guess. so after like 2 days I was like to my friend if you like him that much you can just go out with him I odn't like him anymore hes all yours. but I relaly didn't mean it so now the go out but I wanna tell her how I really feel what should I do?
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What "friend" would suggest that both of you date your boyfriend? What "boyfriend" would date your best friend? I think you didn't want them to like each other because you already distrusted your friend and you knew something like this would happen. You know what, hon? If he DID go out with her and she continues to go out with him, you DON'T want him anymore, trust me. And better yet, I'd take a long look at keeping her around as a "friend".
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Oh No! A good friend would have NEVER even suggested going out with your boyfriend. Tell her the honest truth. She hurt you and was a bit insane for asking. You'll get into a fight about it, but what she did was brutal.
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It's better to tell how you feel then keep them bottled up inside. Talk to them both at the same time and maybe it will help.
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First of all, doesn't that bug you that technically your boyfriend is cheating on both of you two for eachother? That's a no-no in relationships. Tell your friend that that he was your boyfriend to begin with and that if she really is a good friend she will lay off. But then if your boyfriend DOES like your friend more, then dump him. There are better men out there for you that will treat you how you should be treated.
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just point blank tell her
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first off ::slaps wrist:: letting your friend date the same guy as you at the same time is a no no..i belive there is a unwritten rule saying that you cant even date one of your ex's friends without there permission...its just not too nice..anyway...yes tell her how you feel let her know that you still care for him and you guys work something out...all in all i hate to say it but i think your relationship with this guy is done.....bad on your part -me
p.s. sorry if that came off mean
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First of all I don't think you should have given her an answer right away. I think you should have thought about it. And yes you should tell her how you really feel. If she's your best friend she should be able to listen to you and understand. BUT DON'T LET A GUY GET IN THE MIDDLE OF YOUR GUYS RELATIONSHIP. He's only a guy. And guys (sometimes) will do what ever you tell them to do.
~L~
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You probably shouldnt have told her that she had permission in the first place. If you go up to her and tell her she no longer has permission you could lose a big friendship. I suggest that you wait until the relationship is over and then try to date him again.
-shay :-)
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