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Ex-Boyfriend
My ex boyfriend dumped me over about 2 months ago and im still hung up on him. Even though he's moved on. I really want to get back together with him and I can't stop thinking of him, and he doesn't even notice me anymore. What do I do?
SL
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Follow his footsteps, and try to move on yourself, or else you will always be stuck in the past where nothing is possible.
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Talk to him. If he dosn't want to hear it go and find a guy who cares about you.
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Take a deep breath....and do as he did...move on. Try to think of the things that make you happy, the places you like to go and people you really like to be around. Throw yourself into these. It's still going to be hard, but after a while, you'll find yourself thinking of him less anb less.
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Move on and get over it.
*plenty* more where he came from. If won't give the effort then there is no room for him, there are many men who will treat you how you deserve to be treated.
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Dear SL,
If he's moved on try to get over him. It's obivouis he's not worth ur time if he doesn't even know ur there. Just remember there are plaently of people out there who would want you. It may take time and life is short just try ur best.
Hope this helps.
Silver Lilly
P.s. do u know u have the same intainals as me?
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I think you know that you need to move on, but it's always easier said then done. You can't just change how you feel about somebody. Instead, you need to concentrate on being positive and distracting yourself from this guy. Try to avoid him and concentrate on going out with your friends, or try and meet new people. When you're having fun on your own, you'll gradually realise that you don't depend on him for happiness. Once you've got to that stage, the world is really your oyster. It's not easy to get over people that you care about, and there is no real way you can force yourself to be over someone. Eventually with some effort the time will come though when you are really ready to move on, and you'll be happier for it. Good luck.
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Stop thinking about him anyway. If he's moved on, why haven't you? Obsessing is only going to not only keep you hurting, but will keep you from meeting someone else.
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call him.... tell him how you feel...if hes got a girlfriend then either wait it out or move on he probably doesnt want you to feel bad over the situation....your best bet is to call him and tell him how you feel... i wish you luck -me
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Well, there are three options to this dilemma. One, you can continue to obsess over him and manage to hurt your own feelings because nothing will become of it. Two, you can move on as well, and be better for it. Or, there is the third option, which has actually worked out for me. You can continue liking the person, even though he is "taking a break" from you, and he will come back to you. Inevitably, you will break up again, which is as much grief as it was the first time.
The chances of this happening are slim to none. Save yourself further heartbreak with this person and move on, it's the best thing you can do.
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There really is nothing you can do, but move on too. There are plenty of fish in the sea!
-shay :-)
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