I am 17 and my boyfriend will not make out with me yet, but I want to!! What do I say to him or what do I do?
well what you need to do is tell him be honest with him maybe he's just shy..... or maybe he just is a little scared.
Just try talking to him maybe he will loosen up a bit
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debating on whether to show these to the muse. im not looking for edits(im happy with what ive written), just opinions on how they make you feel, and if they seem deep enough. also, they might be confusing bc theyre written about personal situations..ps, only in high school (; These are peices ive had saved on my labtop for about a year and this is my first time opening them in awhile. perhaps show me your favorite, or generally what i could improve on, thanks. (again, i know there is many type o's and errors. butits late and i just wanted to get this out.)
You say you’re a cheater not a liar,
Then why do you not even bother
With all the people you said you needed
And all the places you said you wanted to be
Preferably, with me.
I stood there watching your white van roll away
With my damsel in distress heart with it
As I hear yout tires speeding up, I also hear my heart slowing down
With one last kisson the lips, you whispered
youd come back
And the time would be short,
If I keep you in my heart
Will I stay in yours?
Cause I know this story
I know the tragic ending
oF the poprock princess and the rockstar
Traveling to each new kingdom
Only to find a new fair maiden in each one
Just say it isnt like the rest
That im just not another girl
Don’t give in to the flow
I know it’s different
I know we’re different
You can’t deny the chemistry
Or the things you do to me
You said you never meant to get this far
And that my heart wassn’t a thing to mess with.
Stay with me , we can be magnificent
We can make things everlasting and terrific
We can show the world new things
And lighten the world day by day
Like white does on black.
And come into my arms
You know I need you mre than
Ive ever needed anybody
I just don’t want this to be the last time
I can feel my heart beating.
Remember back to the times when I was your only comfort
And you were the only one in my heart
Come back to the time where it was just you and me
Standing on the old dirt path
Clutching your arm so tight, begging you not go
I should have known this is it how it ends
Tear stricken face, and body so vulnerable
You did your best to get out without fumble
Come back t me, its where ive always wanted tyou
Come back to back to me you know I need you
If you just had the strength to follow your heart
Im sure we wouldn’t be this far apart
So bring in the phone calls, and the ever lasting texts
Youll only remain in my brain, so complex
Farther in distance day by day
But closer in mind as you fade away
Before your gone forever
Tell me one last time
How you wish you could stay and you could be mine.
You left me broken, on the old dirt path
With nothing but your shadow
My arms were trembling and my face was leaking
How could you just walk away.
Its 3 am and of course its you on the other lilnle
Expressingyour exhilaration and happiness of the show
Longing for your hug,
Or just a moment with you
I smile and tell you how proud I am
Making jokes, and living in the moment,
Traveling the country with each passing day
A phone call is all I get, an explanation of your day
Or maybe just a drunken recollection of your past
What happens when these calls stop
Am I left with nothing?
the next 2 are kinda of similar-
But then it hit me, and I realized that these minutes with him were numbered.; quickly decreasing with each passing breath. Trying ot gather my thoughts was useless, I was to marveled by his perfection. His touch, words, stance, smile. Everything seemed to come all tgether. And when he touched me, we blended into one. But then we started kissing again, and I wasn’t even sure hwo started it this time, only that he was holding me stable, being the support net that I truly needed more than anything else.He held me tight, tight in a little bear hug that I loved. We inched apart and then kissed again, and again. I knew I had to let him go, but how do you let the one thing that makes sense walk out of your life? I knew I had to, but I couldn’t. So I clung. I clung to him, silently begging him not to go with my tears. His soothing words only made things worse. I looked up at him, and it occurred to me that I would be happy just standing here, in the middle of a filth covered parking garage for my whole entire life, with him. Heck, I could be sitting on a bench in central park in below freezing weather with him, and would still love it. I knew I could stay with him for a long time, maybe even forever. I was feeling light headed, I didn’t want this to stop. Not Ever.
next one:
We stood only centimeters apart, me sopping wet in those faded blue shorts and black t. Clinging to your damp yellow shirt, feeling your solid stomache bear all my sorrowful punches, trying to make you stay. I grasp your arms, you pull me closer, whispering sweet nothings to me. This wasn’t fair. I finally found happiness, and it was being taken away so quickly. I buried my head into your chest crying harder nad harder with each breath. You told me not to worry, I was amazing and that you’ll be back soon. When I looked into your weak eyes, I could tell even you weren’t sure about that. Begging you, pleading, doing anything to make you stay. I needed you hera with me. I needed to feel your body next to mine, to feel your fingers wipe away my bangs curtaining my face. You said I shouldn’t cover my beauty, to show it off to the world and make them jealous. I wish you could see how much you mean to me, how much I rely on you each breathing day. Knowing you had to leave, I only held tighter. One last kiss on the lips , I could tell I wasn’t the only one who was going through pain. I wish you stayed. I wish you realized how much you mean to me. I wish you were here, with me. Not there, with them. My grip finally loosening, accepting reality, we stepped apart. Giving me a once over, you pulled me back into your arms. “Your making this so hard for me” you whined. Stop being selfish, stop thinking about yourself, stop living for you and no one else. I know you don’t do that. I know your not an ass hole. I know that YOU know, that deep down inside you, you have the ability to put the bottle down. Your worth so much, so much to me. Closing my eyes, inhaling your scent , i realized I was being tugged away. Tugged away from merely someoneI couldn’t breathe without. I don’t even know you. You don’t even know me. This shouldn’t be hard, youre nothing in my life. An apologetic look filled your eyes as you were being pushed into the van. This was it. This is how it ended. Another tragic ending to this pointless life.
Their words are nothing to me.
Trying as they might, they cant penetrate this forcefiled of love.
Blocking every jab, and dodging every put down.
I know you, and I know your kind
Two whole different comparisons.
I never thought itd be you I’d find
The rockstar, and the small town girl
Your far , its becoming a blur.
Please, don’t let this memory
Fade away.
Forever waiting , but never patient
Give me back my heart that I lent.
I can’t deal with this anymore
It’s so damn hard to hold on to a heart
When theres so much in between
I know its for the best
So make this my last request,
End the texts. End the calls
Cause with every word exchanged
My heart just falls.
Deeper, and deeper.
Flag the white bandana, I surrender
Bring me my vacation, I retire
These long nights and unhealthy feelings
Cant be right. I’m not your slave
And your not my sire. Make this easy
Help me let you go. rip the frays from
The line we sever when we say this is over
Why is it that whenever my subconscious thoughts become actions, my fingers end up holding the phone with your voice on the other end.
You know you don’t have my heart, and it’s not yours to mend.
But the care and strength you put into making me safe is enough to prove your own thoughts wrong.
Another day , another worry. A new problem a new song.
“the worst feeling in the world, is knowing your not safe and I can’t do anything about it’
You repeat to me, time after time.
If only you could choke on your own words that your killing me with.
Silly and special, I’m your little wonderball you sya
If only how true yo knew that was
A hard outside shell, seeming unbreakable
But ot simply shatter at the slightest hit
Candy coated , and bittersweet
Filled with little suprises.
Your words like a noose aroud my neck
Leave me on edge
The edge of what could be, and what has been
They slither up around me neck,
Slowly constricting my airways
Tightening, tightening then loosening
You give me air so I can breathe, but
The entire time im holding my breath.
In my head I know im stronger than this
But these words mean so much
Coming from you. Anyone else
It would be a mere snowball flocked my way,
You sent an avalanche , leaving me numb
To everything around me. Cut the rope,
Melt the snow, I can’t deal with this .
Holding my breath with each silent day,
Ive brought this all upon myself,
I poured the kerosene that burnt the bridges,
The again what kind of victim are you if you merely watched?
No fetching of water, no calling 911,..was this your intentions all along?
I’ll be silent, waitng for the outcome. Standing tall as an oak
But knowing my insides are rotting, one day , when the breeze is blowing,
Ill collapse into the green green grass.
How can I forget the the drunken I love yous? I LOVE YOU,
The 4 AM talks of bittersweet goodbye & wheat thins are gonna be nothing but a tear jerker now. Tell me how your voice changes so quickly, loving and endearing ot frightful and dream breaking. We met as two but left as one, now im missing my other half.
I’ll let you fly your way back to me, youll know where Ill be. Sitting here as usual waiting for the ever so faitfhful words of wisdom you seep through your mouth. You’ve taught me so much, you can just end this. You’ve said to much, you can just end this., You cant leave me here, broken shattered nad incomplete, baby your so over me and I have to even start on you. To tell you this would be absurd, do risk the chance o f rejection? Not a chance. So for now ill sing lonely lullabies to anyone waiting at my window, looking odwn on them they wont be bal to see the disappointment nt n ny face when it isntu r gleaming smile shooting right back at me. If I could do this over you know I would, id go o the top of every hill, only to tumble down into your arms.id
Send a smile my way, make me laugh day by day
Show me the ropes and teach me the course
I want this , but must not force
We’ve taken two steps forward and none back
With our feelings drying right out on a rack
Everythings, everythings open
We ran this race and finished in pace
Som uch time with lots to do
No point in rushing to be with you
If its love we can wait,
If if its love its time we can take
We know how we feel, and we know how to deal
Todeal with the distance, to deal with the emotions
Keep me laughing, and Ill keep you smiling,
Keep me missing and ill keep you wanting
This is so absurd, the way we act
For mere strangers we do not act
One day we’ll be together
Youll spin me round and round forever
We’ll lay in bed making silly faces
We’ll lay in bed with good graces
Our time will come, and when it does
Our hearts will be ready for all it brings
But for now we must wait,
For the time of our souls
To beg togheter again
For now we are only memories
Only far off dreams distanced by fences and trees
We’ll hop the fences and climb the trees
And spend the days swimming the rivers.
Our connection is something undeniable
go for it you will never know if you don't try... in my opinion they are good
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So i have a boyfriend and i dated someother guy on the internet like 8 times & we r friends now, we haven't met like hang out only have seen eachother like 3 times and he said he wants to go back with me but i dont know because i love both of them.. /: help! i dont wanna hurt anyone :(
i know distant relation ships arent worth it but im in love with him and my bf /:
why don't you do a list on both of them...what you like about them and what you hate.... if one does better then the other then you know who to pick... n you should really be faithful sweety cause honestly you could end up losing both of them....
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my gf believes shes found her soulmate. its not me. you know how much that hurts? i have never felt this bad in my life. and ive had a pretty horrible life. and ive felt pretty horrible in my life. please help me. i cant take much more of life
Don't feel bad, I know how that feels. Just let her go she is a bad person, if she wasn't feeling you the way you was her she should have told you. Find someone who will cherish you the way you cherish them. There're alot of people you need to look in the right places
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Ok, a few years ago, my best friend got involved with this guy. I liked him when I first met him, but then I found out from several people that he was weird. So I convinced her to stop going out with him (they were never really "together"). Ok, he called her non-stop; she never picked up and he wouldn't take the hint. He even got her number and called her at work. Finally, I called him and told him it was over. She never heard from him again after that.
Now, however, I found out that he is dating my cousin's friend. I don't really know her, but I think I should warn her about him. This guy is a weirdo and a stalker, and I think any woman he comes in contact with should be warned about him. I just don't know if it is my place to tell her. Any help would be appreciated.
I think you should warn her sweety she needs to know what type of person she is dealing with.....
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Okay im 16 and transgender male, my boyfriend and i have been togather for a year now, before me he had a really bad relationship with a guy named josh who hurt him very badly, but ever since we have been togather he always brings josh up and it bugs me, im transgender male so i was born female but am now male, i feel threaten by josh who is not only his ex but who was also born male unlike me. Well the other night josh messaged him and asked to be his friend, my boyfriend wants his number to call him just to "brag" he says. Well its been two days and josh hasnt replied to him now all my boyfriend does is talk about josh more, and keep checking his myspace every half an hour to see if he replied yet it bugs the hell out of me. Whats going on i really want to trust my boyfriend or is he just using me to get to his ex...if so i have wasted a year of my life on this.....i really need help
hun i say talk to him about how you feel if he starts throwing in his ex tell him your gone cause honestly that's not how people should treat a person that they have been going out with
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Okay so there's this guy I went to school with in middle school and I never saw him after 8th grade ever, in August on 2010 I SAW HIM and I was all goo-goo gagga over him , haha ! Butt.. I was pregnant, now I'm not and we are always texting and flirting .. But I'm still with my daughters father, and I plan on leaving him . (Thats besides the point) I've seen this guy twice and it seems as if we really like each other but when we see each other we don't have much to talk about, What can I do to fix this ? I get shy and I don't know what too sayyy . I really like him and I want to see if this will work out. Any Ideass?
talk to him about how you feel and if you still feel like you don't want to be with him then tell him he could have visitation rights for his daughter but you also got to make sure the other guy is willing to accept the fact that you have a daughter and be willing to deal with it and help you with your daughter....sorry thats the best i got
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My exboyfriend and I broke up less than a week ago and he has some serious issues and thinks im crazy (because im not going to lie i got angry and said some hateful things, but doesn't everyone do that after a bad breakup?), but thats just to make him feel better for the decision he made. I am unemployed and have applied at over 30 places and the one place that calls me back is in the same shopping center to where he works (and it looks like we will be working the same hours). Once he sees my car or me going into work he is going to think im stalking him or "oh she got a job right beside me so she can spy on me or harass me" i just want to get over him and hope that nothing will happen. my plan is to just go to work; in and out with my head down and not even look his way. I wish i had a choice to not take this job, but i need it and have no choice. How am I going to deal with working right next door to him? what if he blows it out of porportion and starts to harass me? Please help!
I understand your problem and i think you should just dont pay mind to him it shouldnt matter what he thinks any more as long as your intensions dont involve him.......
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Okay so I'm Bi and I have a Bi friend, whom I kissed at my friends 13th birthday. She and I are both very open about being Bi and I'm 12 and she is 13 we are both girls. I know we are to young to be kissing and dating and stuff. But after I kissed her a really latched onto her and stuck around her and ended up REALLY liking her. She has a boyfriend who is aware of her bisexuality. We slept in the same bed that night, although my other friends were afraid to let us. I don't know what to do about this or if I seriously like her or it's just the effect of kissing her. I don't know. Please help me!
I'm a bi girl to and trust me you should both talk about your feelings twords each other and see what happens... inbox me if anything....
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Me and my bf have been together for a few years now, lately we've broken up but then get back together (its mostly been off).
We're together as of this moment but lately things have been bleh and off between us, and by off i mean we're not that close like we use to be.
When we have sex it feels like he wants to get it over with, or if we do then its just once and that's it. Before we would have sex twice sometimes 3 times a day and he would not keep his hands off me, now he just doesn't touch me at all and it also feels like he just doesn't want to have sex any more. I'm the one that as to insensate it.
Is he cheating?
Btw i'm 23 and he will be 30 on his birthday. And also we do not live together either.
I need more information on your bf behavior to help you inbox me if you can. I would really like to help.
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Ok so me and the guy were super close we texted everyday idk what happened... Now my other friend that goes o a different school she started to talk to him and so Im sure that there talking has slowed down aha but he has been talking to me but not major like texting. Anyways the other back up guy he and G don't get along like they pretend o like each other but really they don't. That's mainly the side stories and how I chose between them I did a pro con list for each of them and G had a lot of pros so I just asked him! Oh yeah I got a restricted phone call last night but i dont know so. Like dont care what you think he'll say well I do a little but I just want to know already what do I do and um just type all of ur opinions aha ok thanks !
Okay lol well ask g and see what happens im sure he will say yes and if he doesn't then ask the other one let me know what happen!!!
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I dated this one guy like 2 months ago. He broke up with me because supposively he didnt want to cheat on me. I got mad because before we got together he was dieing to go out with me and becoming bf and gf and he said he was in love with me and all this crap then he just ends it like nothing. :/ AFter about a month he texted me and started bragging about his new gf. I got mad and didn't text back. Then a month later he texted me again asking me how have i been. Should I keep talking to him as friends or should I just forget about him and lose contact ?
P.S. I'm 15 and he's 16 .
I think you should tell him the truth about how you felt about him before and tell him that you don't want to hear about his new girlfriend because you're his ex now and you rather that your friendship doesn't revolve around his new relationship. If he has a problem then tell him you can't be friends with him and delete the number.
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So ok I'll sum up from the way beginning alright so during the summer I was in a a group thing and me and this one guy let's say G well me and him became very close we always talked bout kissing each other but we never did and I regret it to this day. So G is a sophomore and I'm a freshman we have french together now but before we had math in math it was just awkward between us he was allways flirting with girls and he would barely make eye contact with me but now in French we've actually started to talk so since sweethearts are coming up I with the little confidence I have asked him to the dance. But since it was right wen the bell rang and we were going opposite ways he paused and turned around and said L I'll let you know later. I was so proud of myself but now it's Saturday and he hasn't texted or called. I think he called on restricted but I don't know because my phone wasn't with me at the time. I feel like I'm starting to regret this. He's kinda a Bad ass guy so he likes to to do stupid stuff and talk to girls and I'm pretty sure he wasn't going with anyone cause he said the day before to his friend if he goes stag he won't go. So like I don't know what I'm suppose to do now this is all stressing if he says no I have a backup but I kinda need to know so I could inform my backup friend well there's some side stories to this that might be why but if you want to know I'll send yous a private message!
i would like to know the side stories.
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Okay, I'm sorry if this is long, or complicated I just need some advice. So I guess I'll start from the beginning then:
So it started in fall of 2009. I met this incredible guy on facebook... ( family friend knew him, not a complete stranger or anything) We didn't talk or anything, maybe comment on each others status's occasionally and then birthday's. Then I had some health problems and he was really nice during it. So a while passed and summer began. Around June we started talking a LOT .. like all the time just about anything. Then in the end of June we started dating. Again talked ALL the time about absolutly everything, our future, each other. It was amazing. We visited each other and everything.
Well apparently his mom found some of our IMs that she didn't approve of and I will admit we did mess up and talked a little to much about somethings we shouldn't. She doesn't like me, thinks I listen to bad music and that I'm a bad influence on him.
Now we get a limited time to talk, like it even matters because she reads everything!!! I feel like I'm talking to her. I can't talk about my music, or school, or heck no on our future. Idk what to do. Its so frustrating. I Love him but I just don't know if I can do this much longer... what would you do, or what do you suggest for me to do.. please I am so confused
okay its okay if its long i have no problem with that at all as long as your heard and getting the advice you need. try talking to the mother about the situation and how you feel, i'm sure your a good person show her that your different then other girls. make sure she understands and have her tell you how she feels after you get your point across.don't let her interupt you cause once she interups she might turn the whole conversation around. if that doesn't work let me know what happens and i will assist you again. the best way possible.
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It's a bit of a long one!
I have two friends who I've known for a few years and in this time they've made their feelings known for each other which is fine by me. The trouble is, he doesn't know what he wants, where as she wants a long term relationship with him. She keeps asking me for advice and I'm just running out of things to tell her. I tell her that if something was going to happen, I think it would have happened by now. But then things do happen, like they kiss or he tells her he loves her and loves spending time with her but then seems to pretend like it never happened. When she asks him if they're going to get together he says maybe, I just don't know what I want. They're planning to go away on holiday together for two weeks in June this year and she wants to know if she should go all the way with him, but she doesnt want to ruin their friendship as she thinks he'll just pretend like it never happened, which will mean she will end their friendship because things haven't changed, which would also ruin my friendship with them too. What advice should i give her?
Thanks in advance!
wingyan has a point..The best thing your friend can do on this holiday is back off a little and let them both get to know each other in a more intimate way and discover how compatible they are.if that doesn't work then just hit me up if you need any more help mii name is lillyen and you can contact me in anyway
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About a year ago my ex lost his mother and then a couple weeks later his brother followed. And soon after that we ended up breaking up. I thought he had moved on because i found out that he was back with his ex girlfriend a month or two after we broke up. I was happy for him because it meant that she could help him cope with everything that had happened to him. We last talked in August and he was really rude so I never again tried to make contact with him until about a week ago he text me and we started talking again it was fine for a couple of days he seemed like his old self until a couple days ago he starts getting really depressed about his mom and brother and I try to talk to him and he shuts me out... But heres the thing he was with his ex for 7 months after his mom died how come he could act so cold towards me but have a real relationship with her? I don't get it.. I want to be there for him but I don't want to get screwed around either.. What should I do?
you have to tell him that being rude to you is wrong cause all you trying to do is be nice and help and if he throws a fit then tell him to leave you alone.
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So my boyfriend came over a week ago and we talked for about 3 hours...at first I was upset with him because I felt like we were growing apart and fighting a lot more about stupid things and he didn't want to talk to me and fix things. After a lot of tears, he finally broke through and told me how he felt. After that everything just flooded out from both of us and we made a huge 'break through' in our relationship. We both decided that even though we're in love, in the long run we probably weren't going to last. But I asked him if we were still going to try and he said yes of course...sooo we're still going out and things have been going better then ever since then but I was just wondering if this will be good for me. I love him and I love hanging out with him, but should I keep being with him if our personalities clash? We haven't gotten into any fights lately, but I'm sure we will eventually start again...I mean, yeah we fight a lot but the good times ALWAYS make up for the bad times...So what do you all think? Should I run this thing into the ground? Or might we actually have a chance? Any advice is good, thank you all so much.
I don't want to sound like a bitch but I think that you should keep the relationship going if it doesn't work out the way you wanted then tell him its done and try to find someone who is some-what like you but who isn't exactly like you
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I have been wanting to go to a nudist beach for years, with my husband of 36 years. We are both in our 50's yet fit and well. My husband has a very large penis and he feels that will make him uncomfortable. I have told him that nudists do and will not look or share, just get on with being nudists. How can I get him to feel comfortable nude in public? I have told him there will be plenty of other large penis on the beach and not to worry. Thank you in advance!
Tell him to imagin just you and him on the beach...i am sorry but thats the best i got...
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my boyfriend loves his ps3 blacks ops game. most of the time its what he talks about. finally i told him i don't care about black ops. and then it was like, we don't really have anything to talk about. we have been together for about a year and a half and are both 16 in highschool. i love him, i really do, but i get scared that we will split up because we never have things to talk about. other than the same old, how are you, how was your day, we don't really have much to talk about anymore. should i look for topics to think of to bring up in a conversation? but that seems desperate because we've been together, its not like a first date. but it feels like it. :(
Try going out together to do new things you guys should have common interests if you been together that long. and try to just be yourself and talk about anything.
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I went thru a bad thing with this guy "J." It took me a year to get over it. I stopped dating and looking for guys for 1 year 6 months. Mostly because I found that I never could like anyone in that way. Until I met "T." It was pretty much an instant thing we started talking in class laughing mostly. He makes me laugh. He has a girlfriend. They've been together almost 2 years. He's also a flirt. He's probably a player too. I don't know. I know he's never cheated on his girlfriend, just flirting. I know he likes me. I really like him. Sometimes we text a lot sometimes we don't. Right now he pisses me off because I don't know if he's playing me but when were together its diffrent. I can help but smile. He's beautiful to me. Maybe not to other girls but to me. I don't know what to do. Like he doesn't let me close to him like emotionaly. He does want physical but its hard to talk to him about us because I don't want him to know I'm so in to him if he's playing me. Ill play right into the game I don't wanna play. Like yesterday he texted me randomly and just said am I Hot? I said he was cute. He said why am I not Hot? Well he is but I wasn't gonna tell him that. So I said why does it matter he just said he just wanted to know. I said sure you are. He said that wasn't an answer. Why ami not hot. I said i dont know I can't think of any real reason your not. He said ok. I said what was the point of that. He didn't answer. He does that a lot when he doesn't want me to know something I guess. Today he texted me and said he was in the hospital. That he flipped his fourwheeler. Well naturally I freaked. I said What?! What'd you Hurt? He said I think I broke a rib. I said oh. Dang freak me out. He said what'd you think happened. I said I don't know I figured you'd really got hurt. He said a broken rib can puncture a lung and I could die I said yeah I know. He said exactly and I said. Okay. Bye. I realized exactly how freaked id gotten over him and id realized how close id let him get to me. Well he said whatever your such an a** I said want me to worry bout U? He said your an a** I get hurt and all you say is bye. I said sorry you got hurt he said whatever go do what u gotta do. I said I'm not doing anything. No answer. Soi sent him another saying I wasn't trying to b an a** I figured you'd be busy. No answer. I texted him again a couple hours later and said you alright and no answer. I guess he's mad. What do I do about that and what should I do about the whole situation. I don't want to get played. I don't want to get hurt. He has so much power ovr me and I absolutely hate it. I've never been so powerless. I'm a very strong person normally. Please and thanks for helping I'm 16 & he's 17 if that matters.
okay just tell him what it is if he's not good to go then try giving him space to think....
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