Me and my bf have been together for a few years now, lately we've broken up but then get back together (its mostly been off).
We're together as of this moment but lately things have been bleh and off between us, and by off i mean we're not that close like we use to be.
When we have sex it feels like he wants to get it over with, or if we do then its just once and that's it. Before we would have sex twice sometimes 3 times a day and he would not keep his hands off me, now he just doesn't touch me at all and it also feels like he just doesn't want to have sex any more. I'm the one that as to insensate it.
Is he cheating?
Btw i'm 23 and he will be 30 on his birthday. And also we do not live together either.
julie75 answered Saturday January 29 2011, 9:27 pm: You didn't give quite enough information on his other behavior. Has he been avoiding your calls? Blowing off dates? Putting his phone on vibrate? Any other change of habits recently also would be a good indicator of possible cheating. I'm not sure from what you've told me that he's cheating but it is a possibility. He could be going through something with his family or work or something else that he's not ready to share with you. It sounds like you need to sit down with him and have a little heart to heart with him. Maybe plan a little surprise romantic get-a-way. Sometimes a change of scenery can do the heart good and jump start the relationship again. I hope this helps and good luck. [ julie75's advice column | Ask julie75 A Question ]
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