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Boyfriend having feelings for his ex?
Okay im 16 and transgender male, my boyfriend and i have been togather for a year now, before me he had a really bad relationship with a guy named josh who hurt him very badly, but ever since we have been togather he always brings josh up and it bugs me, im transgender male so i was born female but am now male, i feel threaten by josh who is not only his ex but who was also born male unlike me. Well the other night josh messaged him and asked to be his friend, my boyfriend wants his number to call him just to "brag" he says. Well its been two days and josh hasnt replied to him now all my boyfriend does is talk about josh more, and keep checking his myspace every half an hour to see if he replied yet it bugs the hell out of me. Whats going on i really want to trust my boyfriend or is he just using me to get to his ex...if so i have wasted a year of my life on this.....i really need help
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hun i say talk to him about how you feel if he starts throwing in his ex tell him your gone cause honestly that's not how people should treat a person that they have been going out with
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Dump him, Anyone who dwells on their ex is obviously still not over them. Your boyfriend wants his number, He checks up on his myspace. A year is a long time to be with someone, It is also a long time to dwell on someone you've dated before hand. If your boyfriend appreciated you and truly moved on there would be no reason to be trying to contact his ex his "bragging" is an excuse. You can't trust your boyfriend, He isn't over his ex and as much as he may or may have insisted he was...It's all a lie.
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