So i have a boyfriend and i dated someother guy on the internet like 8 times & we r friends now, we haven't met like hang out only have seen eachother like 3 times and he said he wants to go back with me but i dont know because i love both of them.. /: help! i dont wanna hurt anyone :(
i know distant relation ships arent worth it but im in love with him and my bf /:
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? tanvinautiyal answered Wednesday March 2 2011, 12:02 am: First of all, you should be faithful. Trust me if your boyfriend knows about this he will hate you forever..
Second, Ive been in a few long distance relashionships and they really dont work out because whenever you have a fight or disagreement, meeting up and sorting it out is way better than on the phone. And long distance means meeting up very rarely. But some long distance relashionships do work. My best friend is in one since the past year.
But if you really like this guy and the feeling is mutual from his side too then you should leave your current boyfriend. But please dont cheat on him, that would be terrible :(
You have to pick ONE. Sit down and think about it. I was in a similar situation and I gave up my boyfriend for this other guy because I did not want to hurt him. That is much better than cheating. Because I still talk to him and we do meet up :)
I am sure you want a happy ending to all of this.
purplelolabunny93 answered Wednesday February 23 2011, 5:25 am: why don't you do a list on both of them...what you like about them and what you hate.... if one does better then the other then you know who to pick... n you should really be faithful sweety cause honestly you could end up losing both of them.... [ purplelolabunny93's advice column | Ask purplelolabunny93 A Question ]
christina answered Monday February 21 2011, 9:40 am: Truthfully, you shouldn't be in a relationship with either of them. If you cannot be faithful to your boyfriend, then you shouldn't be with him. But if you're only going to break up with him to be with someone else, don't expect him to speak to you after that.
I don't think it's really fair to either of them, no matter who you choose because you're in love with both. If you're in love with your boyfriend, you're still somehow in love with your internet friend. If you're in love with your internet friend, you're still somehow in love with your boyfriend. Either way, you're in love with 2 people which is unfair to everyone.
I would suggest that you stay single and date no one, but if I had to choose for you, I'd say to stay with your current boyfriend. You never know if the people online are who they really say they are. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
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