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listen i know it's long but please out of the kindness of your hearts read me and help! i rate high for well thought out advice and i seriously one confused 15-year-old individual!
I'm met him in detention......
when i walked in the room it was like time moved a little slower, just like the movies.he was so beautiful and i couldn't help but stare. he was wearing black, his favorite color, like he always does.
I felt an immediate connection with him. Every time our eyes met in the dead silence it was like a shock of electricity.
he's a freshman I'm a freshman, but of corse, we have no classes together because thats how REALITY works. so when we got to leave i let it go knowing nothing would ever happen.
All i could do was think about him and wonder. You'd think for people in the same class in the same school we'd see each other. A couple of weeks later... i saw him. he was with my friend lisa and she introduced us. He said, " Hey! remember me? from detention?" of corse i did he asked for m number and later that friday evening he texted me we talked until about 11:00 at night.... then he called me. We talked for 7 hours till 6 in the morning. i didn't get any sleep at all but i never felt more rested. i've never loved any body, until that saturday morning i knew i loved him. we talked about everything but usually when im on the Phone with guy all he talks about is sex and i hate that thats why there short conversations.
He was different and thats what i love about him.
we just texted everyday from then on he asked me to go to the movie of my choice and would pay for it as long a went with him he was happy he said. i was pretty sure he liked me back at that point. the day of the movie he wasn't texting back, i got mad at him ignored him a couple of days, i still didn't see him at school so it was pretty easy. but i gave in he told me that his phone was done and he just coudn't i belived him i didn't we didn't have any other way to contact each other besides cells i didn't think to ask! well then shortly after our little reunion my dad took my phone away so we stopped talking un willingly, and i STILL didn't see him in school so what could i do? about 3 weeks after we stopped talking i see him and he's holding hands with a girl. I couldn't believe it then thats how i would see him with his girlfriend.
WELL, i did see him in school sometimes and he would walk me to class even though his class is on the other side of the school but then i just couldn't talk to him after the movie/cell phone thing it was kinda awkward so i didn't know what to say when he came up to me and i'd be like hi, yea, no, bye.
i accepted he had a girlfriend, i liked him to much to try and take away his happiness. they are still going out to this day.
WELL my friend ariel whos friends with him asked him if he ever liked me and he answered yea i did!!!! OMG! i got so mad he did like me and now i can't have him....or maybe i can
well now just recently he got his phone again but since we don't talk it's not like i can ask for it or anything and idk if it would be weird i know he wouldn't think its weird but if i asked my friend for his number this is how i know this information! and anyways i've been skipping my 2nd period on A-days to go see him in his study hall but he never goes to school but tomarrow im pretty sure hes gonna be there should i try talking to him in there for the first tie in months??? or what please help!!! LO(i'm)VE
I think you should txt him and just see where it goes from there. he might still like you and is just assuming that you dont like him. You really have nothing to lose. if he doesn't like you you are the same as you are right now, without him. if he does, then things will probably get better between you! So it really can only get better.
my bf is nice, i wont deny that. he may be crude sometimes but hes a nice boy. problem is hes not that sweet. he doesn't do things that you wanna go awww. not that hes boring or anything, hes just not cute either. hes funny and stuff but i guess im such a girl that i fall for the stupid little things like being called princess and sent cute messages etc. i feel like this is keeping me from falling in love with him. its a bit shallow i guess but those things are what make me fall in love. but of course i dont want to tell him this, I dont want him to be sweet if its forced and he feels like he has to. so my question is how can i indirectly influence him be sweeter, or more romantic?
i know some of you will want to say that maybe that's just not him, and i shouldn't change him because i cant, but you know what, this same thing happened to my friend and her bf. he wasnt the type to be sweet, but then i have no clue what she did and now hes like the cutest guy ever and romantic and all, even tho its not in his personality at all. So i see that it IS possible...how do i do it?
thanks in advance! =)
You could always do little sweet things to him. He will like it (hopefully) and return the favor. How long have you been dating? he may just not be warmed up to you all the way yet. And when your boyfriend does do things you really like, make sure he knows you like it. if he doesnt he may just feel stupid and stop doing it.
ok i hope i helpedd!
I’m Katy…
Okayyy…so there’s this guy
And I’ve been talking to him..and were friends
And I flirt with him sometimes b/c he’s cute
Well I’ve know him for a good 4 weeks about
And my friend came over one day
Well I was on aim talking to him and everything was good
Till I went to the bathroom
While I was gone
She was talking to him and asking questions
Like what’s your last name…how tall are you
Then she goes are you single?
Then he’s like that’s a lil informal is’nt it
Then she’s like I was just wonderin
Then he’s like yes I am….are you lookin??
Then she’s like oh you know katy is too
And he’s like oo I did’nt know that
(but the way he wrote it i'm not sure if it's like an awkward reply..or if he's intrested)
Then she’s like well know you do
Then he’s like won’t she be mad that you said that
And she’s like yea but don’t tell her
Well I came back and found out
I mad at her for doing that
B/c I’m not fully sure if I like him
But idk what to do
Like I think he’s gonna think I’m weird now…and it’s gonna be awkward but idk
And the next day I sent him a message saying don’t pay attention to her…she doesn’t know what she’s doing
He never replied
So now I’m freaking out and don’t know what to do…
Okay i wouldn't be mad at her.... she was just trying to help and it's not that big of a deal. If you need to just send him an email saying that was totally my friend, and idk how i really feel about you, she was just pushing things. and tell him you odn't want it to be awkward and stuff. or whenever you talk just act like it never happened and do the same stuff. I seriously don't think he thinks its htat big of a deal, he is probably just busy or didn't want to talkto you at the time because of her. It will blow over, something like this should definitely not ruin your chances with a guy,, all she did was ask if he is single then say that you are too. Just give her a break is my advice and try talking to him again. but if he doesn't answer don't overwhelm him.
hope i helped
pinkerss
Ok my boyfriend and I keep arguing because HE keeps messing up. It feels like I'm the bad person because I'm always getting mad at him. So I tried to keep it in one time because it felt like I was nagging & he found out and told me to always tell him when I'm mad at him. So I do! He messes like every other day & he's said he's not used to having a gf. Well, common sense should tell him certain things he does.
But when he doesn't mess up we're perfect for each other! We laugh & talk & everything! Its greeeat!
I don't know what to do. We've been together a month and I don't know if its a time issue and I have to let him get used to me or what? I'm tired of hearing him say "I'm sorry" all the time. But I love being with him when we're not arguing about his mistakes!
he sounds like he isn't the one for you. if he really cared he would stop. He obviously isn't sorry, and like you said the stuff he is doing is common sense. You need to let him know you are not a door mat, and that he needs to treat his girl friends better. My advice to you is break up!!
im dating a jerk, but ive known another guy in my school for about forever now, and i think i am starting to like him. i told him last night that i think i rlly do like him. because we always joke around about liking each other. things arent weird today in school.. but im still clueless on if i should follow through. lets call him jay he is a senior at my school, he is friendly, cute, jokester, amazingly funny, and the sweetest guy you could ever meet. But the catch is.. him and my best friend Bree were together a while ago they werent dating but they kissed and stuff. i dont think she would be mad at me yet im not so sure.. any advice would be lovellyyy
okay... first thing, if you are dating a jerk, say good bye. Do that before anything else. If you aren't happy that's a great reason, but you dont want it to get around that you are a cheater either. After you have broken up with your boyfriend, I would let that guy know and also let him know that you are interested in him a little more. Talk to your friend, and see if she is over him and would be ok if you guys started liking eachother and dating. If she wouldn't be ok with it, i guess you are going to have to decide your decision after that. If she is a good friend and it was longer than a month ago, she should be okay with it.
I hope i helped!! :)
I want to describe 3 boys, and someone tell me what kind of girls each one of them would like. But I don't want to describe it on here incase they read it. So someone just answer and tell me if you're willing to help. [15/f]
I am willing to help, just leave a question in my inbox!!
Kay hey um well im 14/f and i just broke up with my totaly awsome boyfriend becuase we are going to different school's so adter we broke up witch was last wensday the same say i got with someone else but i didnt really like him but he really liked me please dont judge me on this i am not a player or notin but me and my NEW boyfriend broke up today and my ex- boyfriend asked me out again and i said yes cuz he wants to come see me everyday and said he promises to so my question is do i stay with him or not ?? Please answer
love,
bubble gum
I would go for it!! You dont really have much to lose, and if you still like him, i think you should definitely go out with him. If you dont see eachother, then you can just end the relationship. Just because he is going to a different school doesnt mean that your relationship wont work. if you are both dedicated to the relationship and really want it to work then it will. '
Hope i helped!!
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im 13/f
i really like this guy who is one of my really good friends. however, i dont think he likes me more than a friend. how do i make him like me.
thanks!
you cant make someone like you. Although i would suggest just spending more time around him. thats all i can think of sorry if i wasnt much help
how do i make my relationships last more than 8 days cuz that is how long each 36 b/f have lasted
Maybe it's because you are too easy to get. Guys kind of like a challenge, but not if you are too hard. just play it cool...dont call him all the time, but still talk at school and on the phone some too. Dont try to rush anything either, good relationships take time. I hope i helped. If you dont think i answered very well, leave another question in my inbox, i will try again!!
-pinkers
Hi, I'm 13/f and there's this kid i know. Lets call him Bob. So, i went out with bob last year and then ended breaking up with him, because i reallly didnt like him anymore. This year, he asked me out again(like 3 times!!) and i kept saying no, but now im having some doubts, i dont know if i should go out with him or not, because there is someone else that i really like, but bob is also very sweet. Please help me! Thanks in advance.
I think that you should go with the other person you like. Bob does not know the meaning of no and sounds like he is going to get really naggy if you do go out. If you say no he should accept and respect it, not keep asking over and over again. he sounds like he's desperate and a big pest. If there's someone else you really like, i would go with them!
Hope i helped!
i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year but im starting to have major feelings for an ex boyfriend. i know its very bad of me but my boyfriend now just isnt making me happy anymore and i dont know what to do. my boyfriend lies to me about everything so im to the point i dont know whats real and whats a lie. hes lied about smoking (twice), going to a party, going to school, and to as stupid as how much he spends on something. i just dont understand. he tells me hell change but hes said that since day one and it continues. also on two occasions he didnt go to school once i found an earring and the other time i found an ankle bracelet. i asked whose it was and he told me he didnt know. i told him i thought he was cheating on me and he got all mad and said he wasnt. im just not happy anymore. i love him to death though. but my ex boyfriend and me have been talking the past 3 days and im not sure whats gonna happen but hes making me so happy. ive been smiling nonstop and hes making me feel whole i talked to him yesterday from 1:30 pm all the way til 5 am nonstop. on the internet and phone. i just dont know what to do. i dont want to hurt my boyfriend but in the same sense im not happy. but i dont wanna rush it with my ex boyfriend either. please help me
You should definitely go to your ex if you feel you are going to be happier with him. You are doing everything for your current boyfriend and he gives you back lies and disrespect. If you feel you need to, have a serious talk with your boyfriend and tell him how close you are to ending it. Tell him your trust for him is gone because he has lied to you so much. If you are not happy, there is no need to continue with your relationship with him, especially if he treats you like this.
boys dont like me im not sure why, how do you get boys to like you more? how do you act and stuff and dress? dont say be yourself i just want some tips
These are some things that i know of that guys dont really like about girls:
*teacher's pet or afraid of getting in trouble
*doesn't get their jokes
*doesn't want to mess around with them in class
*shy
*funky clothes (most of the guys in my classes like the girls who you can tell take time to look good *like doing their hair really cute or cute makeup or something*)
*all your friends are girls
What they do like:
*isn't a total troublemaker but gets in trouble a little for messing around, and isn't good friends with all the teachers
*you get their jokes and laugh at them
*someone who acts like they don't care about what people think, and isn't afraid to voice their opinion
*cute clothes that fit your bodystyle.
*you have a mixture of friends, from popular to geek to boys to girls.
Some ideas for doing your hair cute are these
*messy bun with a ribbon around it
*scrunched hair
*straightened hair
*curled hair with a curling iron
mmmk, well if you need some more advice just leave a message in my inbox, i will answer!!
Well I like a few guys. I`ll tell you about them.
Cameron - Hes sweet & cute but he likes alot of people. My best friend once dated him & still loves him. He will flirt with me & then flirt with somone else next period, its kinda painful.
Jesse - Hes a real sweet kid. & we dated once before. He was a amazing boyfriend but i broke up with him over somthing stupid. & now i like him again. He just got out of a realationship with one of my friends.
Kyle - Well he has never had a girlfriend before & i dont think he is boyfriend material but hes fun to be around.
* all the names were changed.
I dont know what to do.
To me, it sounds like Jesse would be the best boyfriend for you, though you should probably ask your friend if it's ok before you date him. Cameron just sounds like he might break your heart and you guys might break up pretty quick if you went out because he would always be flirting with other girls. To me, Kyle sounds like more of a good friend to you if you don't think of him as boyfriend material.
Just stop and think about who you really enjoy being around the most and what you are looking for in a boyfriend and who would give you that the best.
I hope i helped!
Hey!!!
I have a question. I am a girl and I wanted to know how to ask a guy out??? Please help me...
signed
confesed
P.S. All of the guys out there, is it easy to ask a girl out? Do guys ask a hirl out right away???
Some ways to ask a guy out:
* notes are easy. Emails are good too
*Have a friend ask him for you if you are nervous
*Slip a cute note in his locker.
* Instant Messenger
* Just go up to him and do it!!!
Ok so i hope i helped...leave a note in my inbox if you need to.
i like this bboy put he like my friend he nos i love him but i want to go out with him and my friend asked him first and there going out and shes now my enimie wat do i do
well... not to be mean but there isn't awhole lot of things you can do. I mean- don't get him to like you by not acting like yourself. Most relationships don't last forever...so you're just going to have to wait it out. Sorry.
heyy its me again the girl whose best friend from forever likes her. well yeah so my friend was talking to him online and she was like who do you like and then listed names for example she was like hannah, elizabeth, carly? and lets say my names hannah so he was like hannah, lets not even go there. so then she like what do you mean by that? and hes like shes so elegant, and she looks better in a dress that normal clothes. I WAS LIKE WHAT!!!!!! im really confused now. what do you think he meant by that? well my friend today is gonna ask him what he meant and ask if he likes me, so help me with what that meant im TERRIBLY TERRIBLY CONFUSED!
He's probably just complementing your form and your personality. So i am thinking that you like him....soo i would just wait it out. Your friend will ask him and you will know. If he wont tell your friend the exact answer, have a guy friend do it. Ok, well best of luck to ya, Leave another message if you need!
okay well im in a bit of a BIG pickle. i have this guy friend and ive been friends with him ever since i was 3 years old. ive liked him on and off when i was younger but not anymore. the other day i was at his house for a party and my mom was talking to his mom and shes like well u no who he likes.
my mom - who?
his mom - guess.
then my mom guessed some of my friends and then his mom told her me!! im like WHAT!!!!!! when my mom told me. and his mom told my mom that he was going to take me to all of the dances.
im so confused because i dont know if she heard him wrong or if its true. help what do you think? its just i cant really believe it since no one ver really has crushes on me and i dont no why. but yeah HELp
sorry its long , ill give 5s for good answers
Well, i would just try talking to him more. You might actually want to go out with him. If you do go out and you just aren't into it you can always break up. Talking to him more will pretty much tell you if you would like to go out with him. It's not your mom or his mom's decision who you go to the dances with...so if he ends up asking you,, you could always go to one with him and if you dont have fun, you dont have to go the next time with him. Just be open minded. i hope i helped....leave another message if you need!
My boyfriend and I just broke up, and now I'm very depressed, I don't know what I should do to make me feel any better. Tomorrow's the first day of school and I don't wanna look too depresse and everything. What would I have to do to try to forget about this?
Well, my number one thing to do when getting over a break up is to just hang out with friends, other guys, that kind of thing. Just do things that you enjoy, and in no time i think you will be okay. Just tell yourself that it's not the end of the world, and you will meet another guy, that's even better this school year.
okay this is how it goes....
a friend of mine recently quit the smoking habit although he still is a heavy drinker,and the wierd part is that his girl left him because of he quit the smoking habit.So my question is,do girls get turned on by smokers or off?and do girls mind if their guys are drinkers? and finally,what should I say to my friend's girl?cause we all are pretty good friends and I wish I could help mend their relationship.thanks
Well, like the people below me said, most girls are turned OFF when with guy smokers, but not always. She might have dumped him because sometimes after people quit, they get very short with people and they are tempermental. I dont know, maybe that's why. I would just ask her, she might havea totally different reason. Don't try to hard to get them back together. They might just not like eachother now. If it doesn't work out, it shouldn't be your problem.
16/f
So there is this boy and he came to see my friend that was in a play with me. He was later telling her that he needed a girl friend and asked if i was available. After we hung out a few times I got really interested in him. That was in may now its august and nothing has happend yet. I know he is a shy guy but how can i make him feel more comfortable around me?.
thanks in advance!
ps- I don't like asking guys out. It's weird to me although when him and his best friend (and my really good friend) were talking he said girls should just say this to ask people out... I my name is (your name) I am unemployed, and I live with my parents... wanna go out? lol but that is kinda weird to me
Well, it would be kinda funny if you did ask him out like that...But, if you are shy for asking him out, it's probably because you are not sure if he likes you or not. I would just have a friend ask him who he likes, and see if he likes you. I played this thing on one guy i liked one time, i said, Hey i have a friend that really wants to know who you like. When it was actually me! it worked though, and we ended up going out. Since that was in may, i think you should start talking to him a lot, just to get reaquainted with him, ya know? Okay so try that, then leave another thing in my box if ya have any questions, feel free to tell me what you choose to do and how it goes!