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danggg. what do i do?
im dating a jerk, but ive known another guy in my school for about forever now, and i think i am starting to like him. i told him last night that i think i rlly do like him. because we always joke around about liking each other. things arent weird today in school.. but im still clueless on if i should follow through. lets call him jay he is a senior at my school, he is friendly, cute, jokester, amazingly funny, and the sweetest guy you could ever meet. But the catch is.. him and my best friend Bree were together a while ago they werent dating but they kissed and stuff. i dont think she would be mad at me yet im not so sure.. any advice would be lovellyyy <3
thank youuu.
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First of all; why are you dating a guy who is a jerk? Dump him! You can do better. Now, about this 'Jay' guy... Does he like you back? You said he jokes about it, you never ssaid he did. But if he does and you obviously do, then talk to Bree. Find out if she is totally over Jay. Besides, they weren't dating. Just check to see if she is okay with it and if so, follow through.
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okay... first thing, if you are dating a jerk, say good bye. Do that before anything else. If you aren't happy that's a great reason, but you dont want it to get around that you are a cheater either. After you have broken up with your boyfriend, I would let that guy know and also let him know that you are interested in him a little more. Talk to your friend, and see if she is over him and would be ok if you guys started liking eachother and dating. If she wouldn't be ok with it, i guess you are going to have to decide your decision after that. If she is a good friend and it was longer than a month ago, she should be okay with it.
I hope i helped!! :)
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Wow...
Hun you have fallin in the exact same boat as I have. In fact his name was "Jay" also. lol
I think you need to follow your heart decide what is the best thing on your behalf. If you feel that there could be something great between the two of you and you like each other I say go for it. If your best friend isn't with him then it really doesn't matter that much. I would try too talk too your friend and maybe see how she feels.
-BahaiMa22
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First things first: Get rid of the "jerk" boyfriend. He's just going to hold you down, and if you know it's not going anywhere, then you might as well end it and save some happiness for a new boyfriend who treats you better.
Second..one the break up is over, ask you friend. Don't make it seem like you're asking for permission, you don't need it. Just say that you like Jay, and you don't want to make her upset by dating him.
Once your debt is settled, go for this guy who sounds wonderful. Be happy. =)
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