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Gahh...Need someone to read and help..Please?
Some people at school are taking the mick out me.. e.g the way i dress the way i look the way my hair is the way i act.
Its just annoying!
I dont feel anything but stress! Grrrr
and i was wondering how i would deal with this..People say i should just like ignore them, But obviously its not that simple expecially when they tell me their gonna beat the **** out of me and when their telling me to go kill myself.. They make me feel like no1 cares about me or anything!!!!!!!!!
Someone help?
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I know you said ignoring them won't work, but that's all you can do. You can't wave a magic wand and make people stop picking on you. I know sometimes it would be nice to be able to do that, and I know how you feel, because I've been through what you're going through. It's tough and it hurts when it seems like no one cares.
What I learned is that you just need to, whenever someone says something, act like they didn't see it. Walk away and get yourself away from the situation. If you can't, act like it doesn't bother you, even though I know it does.
If you can trust your parents, try talking to them about how you feel. Don't ask that they get involved, because it's your lesson to learn. Parents can really help sometimes.
If you have a really good friend, they can help also. Sometimes just talking out your feelings and having someone reassure you that you're not crazy can really help.
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Oh, don't let that stuff get to you. Yes, it's true to ignore them, but if they're threatening you, you should tell someone. Not only that, but I would practice a bit of self defense, just in case. I know a bit of karate so I can put up with some of that stuff here where I live. If people keep on bugging you, tell the school. Bug the school about how much people are picking on you. If they can't do anything, tell more adults. Tell every adult you know until it has everyone's attention. You need to fight back, but try it peacefully at first. Negotiate with those people. If that doesn't work, do what I do and say: "I'm sorry." I say this all the time and it just makes them a bit confused. ^^ I hope this helped a tad bit.
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Hi!!!
I know this will sound like if i didn't know at all and i'm saying this to answer the question blah blah blah it isn't...
The thing that actually people want when they do that is to BUG YOU (you probably know that) so if they are not reching they're goal they will eventually give up... so you have to act as if you didn't care (which is not the case but just act) and when they see you don't care the will get bored and move to someone else... believe me, it ALWAYS works... sometimes it takes a while but it will workk...
so i hope it works out
take care
toodles
Aly~
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