Question Posted Saturday October 14 2006, 12:19 pm
Well I like a few guys. I`ll tell you about them.
Cameron - Hes sweet & cute but he likes alot of people. My best friend once dated him & still loves him. He will flirt with me & then flirt with somone else next period, its kinda painful.
Jesse - Hes a real sweet kid. & we dated once before. He was a amazing boyfriend but i broke up with him over somthing stupid. & now i like him again. He just got out of a realationship with one of my friends.
Kyle - Well he has never had a girlfriend before & i dont think he is boyfriend material but hes fun to be around.
* all the names were changed.
I dont know what to do.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? pinkers answered Saturday October 14 2006, 4:53 pm: To me, it sounds like Jesse would be the best boyfriend for you, though you should probably ask your friend if it's ok before you date him. Cameron just sounds like he might break your heart and you guys might break up pretty quick if you went out because he would always be flirting with other girls. To me, Kyle sounds like more of a good friend to you if you don't think of him as boyfriend material.
Just stop and think about who you really enjoy being around the most and what you are looking for in a boyfriend and who would give you that the best.
I hope i helped!
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MelLeDisko answered Saturday October 14 2006, 3:51 pm: Cameron - Well, if your best friend still loves him, I wouldn't try and pursuit anything with him. Chicks before dicks, I always say. And even if you were to get together with him, he's probably one of those boys who just continually flirts with people and might not even realize ( they mostly realize it though ), so you'd always have to watch out to see what's going on behind your back.
Jesse - I would talk to your friend about it first and see if she's alright with you dating him again. ( but you DID date him before her, so it shouldn't be that big of a deal ), but I would then just hang out with him more if you don't already do, and just flirt and just pull him over privately and explain to him that you're sorry over what happened before, and you don't even know why you broke up with him, really. It was a stupid reason, but you like him and you just wanted to tell him, otherwise you'd never say it. And if he wants to date, great! If he doesn't, then at least remain friends. Better friends, then nothing at all, right?
Kyle - Well, if he's just fun to be around, then remain being friends. If he's not boyfriend material, that obviously shows how far the relationship is going to go - nowhere ; which is basically like being friends anyway.
So mainly, if you were to go for any of these guys, in my opinion, I would go for Jesse. He seems like the best type of boyfriend ( you even said so yourself he's an amazing boyfriend ), and it seems like there'd be less drama caused ( hopefully none! ) compared to each girl.
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