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please help me
Hi, I'm 13/f and there's this kid i know. Lets call him Bob. So, i went out with bob last year and then ended breaking up with him, because i reallly didnt like him anymore. This year, he asked me out again(like 3 times!!) and i kept saying no, but now im having some doubts, i dont know if i should go out with him or not, because there is someone else that i really like, but bob is also very sweet. Please help me! Thanks in advance.
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i know how you feel ive been through the same thing. no i wouldnt go out with bob just becuase he's sweet because the truth is you dont like him. wait until something you really want comes along..thats what i would do. xoxo helpachick
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I think that you should go with the other person you like. Bob does not know the meaning of no and sounds like he is going to get really naggy if you do go out. If you say no he should accept and respect it, not keep asking over and over again. he sounds like he's desperate and a big pest. If there's someone else you really like, i would go with them!
Hope i helped! <3
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Even though Bob is very sweet, you shouldn't go out with him if you don't like him. This is being majorly unfair to him, because you're not dating him for all the right reasons ( you kind of have to like him too ), and that'd basically be like pity dating him which is only going to hurt him more in the end if he finds out, and to yourself because you're not dating someone you like and who'll make you happy. Also, that'll ruin your chances with the guy you do really like because he'll figure since you're dating someone else, you don't like him.
I would just sit down with Bob the next time he asks you out, and just explain to him that you're sorry, and you think he's really sweet and everything, but you just like him as a friend.
And go for the person that YOU really like, and that's going to make YOU happy. Never do something that you don't want to do, just because it's going to the make the other person happy.
I hope I helped.
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