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How can I tell I guy I like him???
Hey!!!
I have a question. I am a girl and I wanted to know how to ask a guy out??? Please help me...
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P.S. All of the guys out there, is it easy to ask a girl out? Do guys ask a hirl out right away???
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The best thing to do is to invite him to a group get together, while he is there talk to him or get a friend to see if he is interested in someone...if not...then while at the group event or just after...just ask him if he would like to go to a movie or something..the main thing is to play it cool and slow...if he says no...act like it is no big deal and move on....
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Well i can answer your ps,no its not easier for us,we still get just as nervouse and since guys are usualy the ones to ask a girl out if a girl says no it could really hurt their ego.
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Well, its just like a boy asking a girl out. Men are simply expected to do the 'asking out', but don't let that stop you.
One of the best ways I've been asked out, so to speak (and I'm a guy), was when this woman said to me while at dinner "So...are we going to date, are you going to ask me out...or are we just really meant to be friends?" I was surprised, though not totally, as I had been asking myself the same question. But this way at least I knew she was interested, and its cool having (at least in my mind) having someone be forward and not having to play games.
As a guy, answering the 2nd part:
No, its never easy, at least for me lol. I like to get some clue that the attraction is mutual before I am the one to possibly make the first move and look like an idiot. Flirting = a good thing.
As for asking someone out right away...usually I dont, I'd rather get to know someone a little bit first. But sometimes you have to, for various reasons. But all guys are different, some guys are totally fearless and ask out women they have never met wherever they go, no matter what. Other guys are hesitant, and take their time.
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I think notes are cheesy and putting anything in writing can backfire and be used to humiliate you if it does not work out. Just casually ask him if he would like to hang out sometime after school or on a weekend. Find out something you both have an interest in first, and you can go do that together. Is there a new movie or restaurant or activity you both would like to go together? If it is too much pressure to go out just with him, try a group of your friends and a group of his friends hang out, or at least a double date...you could say you want to set another couple up, and just go "as friends"...pretty sneaky, eh? Good luck!
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Some ways to ask a guy out:
* notes are easy. Emails are good too
*Have a friend ask him for you if you are nervous
*Slip a cute note in his locker.
* Instant Messenger
* Just go up to him and do it!!!
Ok so i hope i helped...leave a note in my inbox if you need to.
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first things first, boys find it hard too cos girls r like wolves beautifull, deadly & hang around in packs & you aproach 1 then the entire gang start eating at you making fun of u untill there is nothing left to make fun of and all there is left to do is crawl away feeling like shit. sos i was getting a bit carried away then. no lads dont go right away. but atleast your willing to admit it aint easy well there r 3 ways to ask a lad out:
1. you go straight ahed & ask in there face infront of their friends
2.you catch them alone & ask to the face (difficult)
3.you ease it on like "i was wonderin if you would like to ... you no..... get some cofee or owt like dat if your not too busy"
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