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broken down friendship
13/f
long story short is me and my friend got a little pissed at each other, no big deal, but when i tried to talk about it he turned into a complete asshole, i feel like hes changed and whenever i say that he just turns into a jerk with like "mk....i beg to differ...whatever" and so basicly i got rele pissed told him f u and i hate you and i sent him this email being like "this is the last email you'll ever get from me" and he sent bak "ouch that hurts" all sarcastic....and i really dont want to lose him as a friend, but hes being such a jerk about this....and i cant just pretend its all my fault if hes acting like this....what should i do?
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you need to takl about it face to face. alot can be misinterpreted in text. work it out. its no ones fault. you need to share the blame. if u guys r such good friends then u need to treat this as a rock in the road not the end of it for your relationship. it should strenghten your bond, not break it. the fact that you can wokr this out will say alot for you character.
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All friendships get into arguments, but the best thing to do to resolve everything is to just calmly talk to them about what happened between the two of you, and get all the feelings out of the way.
Just email him back and just apologize for whatever you did and for everything you've said, and you'd like to take another shot at being friends again, because you really miss him, and don't want to lose him over some stupid argument the two of you had.
And if he's willing to talk, just talk about everything that's been going on and has been going wrong, and how you feel hurt whenever it seems he acts different towards you or around everywhere else. He's just been ruder to you lately, and it really hurts your feelings. And then he can talk to you about whatever it is you did that might've upset him ; you learn, take it in, and grow from it.
Hopefully you two'll be able to be mature enough to handle a conversation and to resolve whatever problems lie in your way.
If he doesn't want to talk about anything and still wants to hold a grudge, I suggest leaving him alone to his thoughts and maybe try again after awhile once he's cool down for a couple days or so. If he still doesnt' want to become friends again, I'm sorry, but you're just going to have to repsect his wishes then.
I hope I helped.
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