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i am a teenage girl and i am living a teenage life hehe...i know how it is when you just want to ask someone something about your life that maybe is not important at all to anyone else but at that specific time its very important to you.You want an honest answer without stuff like ask your parents or friends sometimes you just dont want anyone you know to find out or its just embarassing but then you need a stranger to advice you honestly not lie to you.I started to advice my friends about their relationships and other problems and soon figured out that when ever there is a problem regarding friends,love problems,family problems they would always come to me for answers.They think i am doing a great job giving advices. So i started with some friends i met online they were happy too.I love to make people happy and when i give them advice i try to do it as honest as i can...

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So im 15/f and i so far have never took any chances! Ive never even kisseda boy for crying out loud becuase i am scared. I think my parentals made me this way. Anyways All my friends ONCE in awhile get together and drink. Now i dont want any rude comments but would it be all that bad to try it once? I am sick of being called the good girl, or princess! I meen i wouldnt get attatched to it would i? Is it as bad as grown ups make it seem?

it is bad. Who knows maybe you wont like it maybe you will but do you really want to play with that kinda thing. You could end up ruining your whole life for what just because everyone else does it.Its not such a bad thing to be called a good girl you know but if it really bothers you then there are thousnds of things you could do that are better like you could kiss a guy but drinking...??i mean how do you know you wont get attached no one knows that until they try.But still its your decision but i would recomend you not to try.

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how do you put your pictures on a disk?

you right click on the picture and you will see its written SEND TO: then you click dvd/cd-rw drive and you click on that or when you py=ut the cd and open it you drag the pic.

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At school today, we were discussing the French Revolution in History class. The teacher was talking about how back then 97 % of French people were Catholic and they stuck firmly to tradition. We then started contrasting that to these times.
Then out of the blue he asked how many people believed in a Christian God. Not one person put their hand up. I didn't at first because I was embarassed, but then I did. I was the only one.
Later I was thinking.. I'm not sure it was right for my teacher to ask this. Is there any sets of rules on this type of thing? Like are teachers not meant to discuss issues like religion, politics, etc? I'm usually pretty closed-up about this kind of thing.

It really bothers me when I think about it, because I don't see why it was necessary. I graduate high school in a few months and was thinking of saying something to him at the end of the year. So, can someone let me know their opinion on this? Was it wrong for him to ask this?

Thanks.

He is a teacher and he is supposed to teach kids that there are no differences between people with different religions but still he is a teacher and he can ask whatever he wants. If it helps my history religion teacher said that all people not muslims are going to hell and i felt like slapping him but then i though well who cares about him i know thats not true and i know he shouldnt have said that because he should be teaching us that all people are equal and stuff like that. But dont let it bother you so much maybe he just didnt want to hurt anyones feelings.

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I'm a really fast girl and I beat all the boys so nobody really admires me except for my speed I need help on how to look like ( i dress sporty)so i need all the advice that I cAN GET!!!!!!!!!!!!!

well try to be the best and beat all the girls but when it comes to boys they like to show girls who is the boss. You could buy nice cloths make your hair look different then usually.

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do u think that i should kiss my bf or wait until he kisses me? I am very lost but what should i do?

PLEASE HELP

dont worry you could wait for him to kiss you but he is your boyfriend so i think he would want to kiss you but he maybe doesnt know how so yeah if kiss him he will kiss you back or wait until the moment is right then you both can do it at the same time

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ok so here is a conversation i had with this guy that i like and i can't figure what exactly he meant in his last text message so i'm gonna type the whole conversation and i want you to tell me wat you think he means. I'll rate 5's to everyone that gives me an opinion. O and my name is *Debbie* and his is *Nathan* And this conversation was at 11:30 last night.

Nathan---how about we give what we both want a chance and see how good we really are together. hit me back adn let me know what you think you might like.

Debbie---in shock didn't reply for a minute

Nathan---are you going to text back anytime soon i would really like to know what you think before i go to sleep, i guess i could just call you.

Debbie---Well depends on what you really want.

Nathan---You know what i really want what is it you want.

Debbie---No i don't think i know what you want.

Nathan---I want you and you do know that what do you want, I wouldn't mind there being an US but that would be up to you. but what do YOU want.????

Debbie---(i sent this one to the wrong place)I want there to be an us to.

Nathan---are you there can i get a response please, just leaving me hangin ain't cool you know. I will call you in the morning but i want you to text me.

Debbie---I sent it to your phone instead of your screenname but i want to be with you.

ok this is where i get confused.

Nathan---i never got it but *that's good* i'll call you later ok.

Are we dating? What does *that's good* mean?

Thanks signed
really confused

i think he likes you and thats good means probably in his mind that now you two are together but in case your not sure ask him or durning the conversation you will figure it out

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Salam. i am a newer convert to Islam. my problem is i don't have any good influences near me. i go to Masjid when i can but it's in another city. i am trying to teach myself. but it's not going as well as i would have wished. Inshallah, i will find my way. but i live in a small town that's very racist. im not afraid to wear the hijab, but i don't want anyone i know to get hurt because of it. well i want to know of any sites that can help me in my learning. and maybe some people to contact. thank you very much. allah hafiz

Dont worry you dont need people to be muslims so you could feel like a true muslim. You chose your way and if you truly believe in the teachings of islam and the teachings of the holy book of islam thats enough.Every one has their own way some believe in Jesus some in Muhammed some in something else and i think you only need faith in things you do and no one can convince you otherwise.And as for racism take care of your family and remember faith is inside you not around you.People can be very cruel but as long as you mind your own buissnes i dont think they will hurt you or your family.

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well i have never really done IT but im afraid too
i heard stuff like you bleed
it hurts
etc.


people think im lesbian because im to afraid to get sexual

and guys scare because there whores
at least around here
i mean once iget a boyfreind and trust him
sure
but im really scared



because when i do get one
im afraid because i have never really done any hardcore sexual things






WHAT DO I DO
this is really gross
but i have no one to turn for advice
its to embarrassing to ask someone in person

hey i think you just answered your own question.
When a a girl trusts a guy and is sure that he is the one you want your first sex to be with and you have no doubts then HE IS THE ONE but if you want to do it just cause some people or even your friends think you are a lessbian or just to prove something then dont do it cause you will surly regret it. Remember it doesnt matter what anyone thinks you know you are not a lessbian (not that its a bad thing) and if you feel that you are not ready and you want to wait then isnt it better to wait and do it when you are sure and have no doubts that he is the one. Dont worry listen to your heart if its doubting then dont do it but the decission is yours and your only.

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