about

heyy i'm andrea i was born in New York and i've lived there all my life. and yes i am very short but proud:-P i love singing acting and swimming, the sport of my life. i also like listening to music...rap, pop, rock, r&b, and country or whatever is on the radio. my friends and my family are the most important poeple to me and i love them soso much especially my younger sister Ashley(this was orginally her advice column but she gave it to me shes such a sweetie!)
i always try to give good advice and im usually very honest, which doesnt help my rating but thats ok lol;-) usually im very out going and loveable, unless im in a bad mood...but ask me whatever you want and ill try and answer it as best as i can i lovve getting stuff in my inbox:-) love ya's ♥

advice

18/f
Ok so I know this is really stupid of me asking by what are some cute pet nicknames for my boyfriend

Please don't say cutie pie or sweetie I'm looking for something original and cute

tiger is my faveee=]
i always say to my boyfriend after like a game "you go tigerr"
lol

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15/f. when a boy asks you out in person, what are you supposed to say? you can't just say YES. that would be weird. what else can i say?

well if you really liked the guy you could always say, "yeah id really like that."

i always thought that sounded cute=]

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I have this friend thats a boy, and I don't know if I should get him something for Valentines Day gift. We aren't going out or anything, but we are "very" close. I doubt he'll get me anything, but I want to get him something. I need your advice if I should get him a gift, or shouldn't I? If so, what do you think I should give? Thanks a lot!

-confused

Just give him a card that says, "thanks for being such a good friend, happy valentines day" and maybe attach some candy to it.

hope it helps

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How do I ask a guy to homecoming?? how can I ask him like what do i say

I think you just just go up to him and say "are you going with someone to homecomeing", and if he says no, "do you wannna go with me?"

This is better then having a friend ask or writing a note because guys like girls who can talk to them and have confidence. And if hes already going with someone you can just be like, "oh, cool"

If your shy it might sound hard to do but you can do it and you have nothing to lose;-) good luck and go get 'em!

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what are some good ways to flirt?

also, what makes a guy think a girl is hott?

http://www.links2love.com/flirting_signals.htm

touching him, rubbing shoulders with him when you walk by, and teasing him work pretty well.

diffrent guys go for diffrent kinds of girls but they usually like confident girls who arent always worried about what they look like.

also on www.links2love.com right on the main page they have a poll for guys on what they notice first in a girl and it most guys said smile or eyes:-)

good luck&& hope it helps

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i like this guy and he likes me but he hasnt asked me out yet so i just wanna do it but how do u ask a guy out without sounding desperate or anything?

Just ask him in person if he wants to go out sometime...its better in person because you can make it casual when you talk to him. He'll know you have confidence and you wont sound desperate. Guys dont like it when a friend asks them out for you because then they think your not confident. Good luck&& hope it helped:-)

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sorry this is long, last night i dumped my bf, john, after 9 months of going out and i said that i didnt want to go out with anyone for a while, later that night i was with my friends and they called the hottest guy in school and he said he wanted to go out with me so now im going out with a hottie but i love john so much i dont know what to do i want to go out with john but im already going out with the hottest guy in school, i think im having a problem with letting go

please tell me what i should do i rate 5s for any answer

Its all about following your heart. obviously, you love john, and i think you should be with him. I know that going out with the hottest guy in the school feels great, but you only like him for his looks. if you dont go back with john, you may spend the rest of your life wondering how it would've been like. you are not missing out if you go back together with him because there will always be many other hot guys out there to date after. but theres only one john:-)

*hope it helps*

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ok well my boy friend worries me like he wont kiss me or hug me or anything but my friend whos been knowing him says he was like that in his last relationship what does this mean and what should i do should i make the first move? hlep

It sounds like hes just shy, which means you have to make the first move. When you go home just put your arm around him and give him a quick sqeeuze before you go. Chances are he'll hug you back. If he doesnt, keep working at it everyday until he comfortable hugging. If he still doesnt, you really should ask him why. But i'm sure he'll hug you back, i mean hes your boyfriend!

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How can you tell if a girl is interested in you? Is there any kind of physical movement or gestures?

They flirt a lot, touch you, act hyper around you, laugh a lot, and stare at you. If you smile at them theyll smile back. Or they will be extremly shy around you and blush a lot. Usually its pretty obvious:-)

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Well I'm a freshman in highschool & the first day it started, I had my eye on this one boy, he was new. Well not new, but from a different school.. and I had a crush on him..
Finally at the end of the day I forced myself to say something to him.. and we ended up having stuff in common, and the next week I went to his house and we hung out, and went to the park. I learned so much about him, but the thing is..
I'm not sure if he likes me, because alot of girls are always around him, hes not popular or whatever, he's very self consious he says. Some of the things he said were like "I think it so cute how you switch subjects, when were talking! :)" and i he kinda flirted with me.. but I'm not sure, and when hes in a crowd in the hallway he says hi tome. i like him alot, but i dont want to do anything, and get rejected.. what do i do?

Ask a friend to ask him who he likes. If he likes you, excellent, if he doesnt screw him and move on there are more fish in the sea. If he was flirting with you but he didnt like you, he doesnt deserve you anwayz:-)

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okay...i'm very depressed. And a guy didnt even break up with me or sumthing. i just dont have a bf right now...and i really like this guy at school...we flirt ALOT..but i still have a feeling he doesnt like me...and ever since i've been really depressed...(plus, homecoming dance is coming up..that doesnt help)
is there anyway for me to get out of this funk?

Hey, you never know if he likes you until you ask him out. go ahead you have nothing to lose. Or just ask a friend to ask him who he likes. If he doesnt like you back screw him and move on there are plentty of fish in the sea:-) One guy is not worth being miserable over because there is so much more to life!
good luck!

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Well me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over a month now...but one problem...he lives in Texas and i live in New York.I made sure that I got to know him before I went into anything with him.He's soo sweet...and hes constantly saying he loves me and that he's saying that he wants to fly up to visit me.Im 13 and hes 15.Most of my friends are fine with it...except for my BEST friend...shes always telling me that we dont really love eachother, and were only with eachother for the heck of it...how do I get her to except him?

If you love the guy, then why are you letting your friend interfer! And how would she know if you dont really love him! its your life, your choice. Now i dont think your friend will change her mind untill she actually meets him. maybe she is saying that stuff because she is worried he may not be the guy he is telling you he is, ya know? so you should just tell her you know you love him and you are 100% positive that you do. Remember friends are forever and boys arent, so you should value your friends opinions. If you starts nagging you about it listen politly then change the subject:-)

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hey this is kinda embarassing but im 18 and im a virgin! most girls my age have lost there virginitys at age 14! i feel so lonley and left out! so i lie and say im not! its not that i cant find someone its just that im so picky! i want it to be special and want to be in love! wat should i do? should i lose it with some guy i dont know? or wait for the special one? and is this wiered? i really need some advice! i lie to so many ppl and i feel bad! i want to be honest with my friends but im to embarassed!
-HELP
babyll873

It think its better to just tell the truth. You may not be the only one not a virgin, other poeple could be lying too. And being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed of... your safe from stds and pregnancy and stuff.
You should wait until the right guy comes to you, which WILL happen. If you don't wait you might end up doing something you regret.And plus 18 is still very young. Now if your 30 and your still a virgin then there might be an issue:-)

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ok so im going out with this kid and and i have braces and so does he if like we make out or kiss will we get stuck together im jyss nervous lol ill rate 5's for none fagg answers

There is a very very low chance of that happening. Like around 5% or maybe even lower. And if you did get stuck usually its very easy to get unstuck. i wouldnt worry about it:-)

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ok.. so there's this guy that i hang out w/ at school and stuff. i didn't think he liked me, but then he asked me out. he's the sweetest guy ever, and all my friends say i should go out w/ him... but i don't like him. i don't like anyone else, but i still think i should give him a chance, but i'm not sure. his ex is my good friend, and she really really wants me to say yes, and all my friends think i should 2. i mean it's really not that big of a deal, cause i'm only 13, but i just want to know what to say! thanks alot! i rate high!

tell him you just wanna be friends for now and get to know him. if hes as great as your friends say, you'll probably start liking him:-) if you go out with him now it might be a little awkward ya know??
good luck! -Andrea-

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hey everyone! i was just wondering, how do you tell if a guy likes you. I have a lot of guy friends who are all really nice to me and give me lots of hugs and stuff, but it's not like they don't do that to everyone! So, any guys out there, if you like a girl, are most guys pretty upfront about it? How do you act around them? Thanks in advance! I rate!

well im a girl but i've learned a lot from my guy friends. usually they...
-> tease you, take your stuff, flirt a lot
-> some guys will do the opposite and try and avoid you
-> they stare at you
-> they show off when around you
-> they smile a lot at you

if your guy friends are sending you mixed messages, the best thing you can do is just ask them who they like! if they stutter and say no one, its probably you! or have your other friends ask them. good luck!
-Andrea-

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theres this guy at school i like.. but before i get with him i want to get to know him better. what are some good conversation topics that i can talk to him about at school on monday?

basically anything that comes to mind! like ask him what music he likes, what sports he plays or watches, how many brothers or sisters or something interesting on the news lol. or compliment his shirt and ask him where he got it or something like that. its amazing how just one quistion or comment can lead to a whole conversation. so if you say anyhting that comes to mind ill bet youll be fine:-)
good luck!

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okay well theres this guy i like alot and i mean alot !! he is like perfect.. anyways.. is four years alot or distance or no? i rate high !!! easy 5's guys!

no way. if its fine with you, then its perfect. age has nothing to do with love!! hope it helped

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I am obsessed with Lindsay Lohan, seriously, its not good, how can i fix this

check this website out she looks so gross in the picture
http://www.liquidgeneration.com/blog/lohan/blogger.html

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ok so i have a boyfriend that i've been with for about 6 months now. im 16, my boyfriend is turning 19 in september And about four months into the relationship, i got raped by his older brother and now his family is blaming me and telling ppl it wasnt raped so now im questioning myself if it was rape or not. and then the cops got involved because my boyfriend called the cops since i told him what happened when i slept over. so when the cops were investigating, they found out that me and my boyfriend have been having sex as well. so now me & andrew arent even allowed to see each other legally and im just wondering if i should stay with him after all this happening, we want to have kids in the future and he even asked me to marry him...is this a good idea?

you love him and he loves you. of course! yeah you should wait a while until its legal(or not) but dont let that seperate you!

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