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I started high school yesterday and noticed an EXTREMELY cute boy in two of my classes. He is so adorable and I already have a massive crush on him. But how do I talk to him? He's pretty quiet and I think I would have to make the first move. There's not really much time to talk in class... But some days maybe there will be. I'm bad at talking to boys and I would just feel so funny going up to him and talking! Please tell me how to initiate a conversation with him in a non-awkward place or time. Ahhh he's so cute!

Just start out by smiling at him if he looks your way. You don't need to have a full-on conversation to have him notice and want to talk to you. You need to start out with small things... like a flirty smile, or making a joke out of something in class. Guys appreciate you trying to make them laugh even if it's not that funny. If they find you attractive, they'll think it's cute. The only thing that kinda worries me is that he's really quiet... so, just make the first move. Make sure you're not making ALL the moves though. If you talk to him first or smile at him first and he has no response, then forget about it. Girls should never be the one to always initiate because it takes the guy out of their rightful place. If he doesn't take the hint and talk to you first after already talking to him a couple times, then he's not worth it.

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14/M

Is it wrong to make out 1 week after the first date?

I wouldn't be too comfortable unless I've known the guy for a reallyy long time... if you two just met awhile ago and then started going out, I'd wait until things get more serious. See what she thinks of it though. Maybe her feelings are totally different than mine.
it's not 'wrong' if you both have no problem with it.

hope this helped!
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I'm in grade 7 and my girlfriend and i have been going out for a few weeks but i don't know if she knows i really love her (which i do) so my friend and i was talking about it and he said one day at lunchtime i should kiss her(without her suspecting it) so that will show her love her...........but i don't know if she will be happy or just think i am a creep

P.S. on the day we started going out one of her/my friends said she wanted to know if i will kiss her.....her name is Brooke

Well if you're in love then kiss her not in a public place where everyone can see you guys... most girls don't find that stuff romantic, haha. I don't know her personally, but in my opinion I think it would be better to wait until you both are alone and then do it unexpectedly :] Usually you can tell if she wants to kiss you too, and since you both have been together, she won't think you're a creep for kissing her. You're her boyfriend, after all.

Hope this helped :]

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Would you hook up with your ex for fun? (just making out) and why? does the girl make her slutty/easy? they both doing it for fun, and they both got prettier and cuter

As long as you both of your feelings are mutual. You both need to be either wanting to get back together or there aren't any emotions attatched at all. If one of you want to be together (in a relationship) and the other just wants to have fun, then it wouldn't be a good idea. I personally would only want to do that stuff with someone I was in love with, but we all have our own opinions. Just make sure you both are doing what you both want.

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Okay, so me and me new bf just started going out, and i was wondering, when is it to soon to kiss him?

I would wait a few weeks before kissing him so you can make sure your relationship is official. My friends have gone out with someone and the first day or two they were together, they made out. A few days later, they broke up. It's a bad idea to rush anything, because you could break up at anytime if it's not serious, and you have to make sure you're both ready.

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Im trying to get over this guy I liked, and my friends are trying to convince me it wouldn't have worked out anyways. hes a jock, he probalby only talkes about football and boobs. I talk about the wonderfull music were playing in band, (were in the same band class, same instrument) and how beautiful nature is, and how i love to express myself though dance yadda yadda...
are my friends right? would it have worked?

Okay, you said he 'probably' only talks about football and boobs. You need to get to know him yourself. That's the only way you can know for sure.

-mystical_breeze
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hi 14/f :D
any of you out there, did you ever have long distance relationships that worked out in the end?
if so could you tell me your story? opinons or anything would be awsome :]

A long distance relationship can work, but for the most part I've seen a lot of people who have broken up because of not being able to see eachother. It's hard not to be able to hug your boyfriend when he's away, and when he's away, you never know who he's hanging out with and if he's seeing someone else. You need to both trust eachother, and keep in contact. Good luck =]

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are guys turned off by braces?

15/f

It really depends on the guy. Some guys love girls with braces, and others don't care for them. It's just like us girls, really. We all look for different things on guys. =]

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I'm starting a new relationship with a guy i really like how do I keep it exciting and try to keep it new like so we aren't tired of each other real fast?

I think if you spend a good amount of time together and try new things, it won't get old. Don't spend every waking moment together though, because that's where it'll start to get annoying. But as I said, try planning new things to do together and keep it fun =]

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okay... so i have a past/future boyfriend who i will be going out with again... and i like him ALOT ( kinda love him) and i was wondering what is the best way to tell him how i feel (place and all that) i want it to be special but i dnt want him to freak out... any ideas?

Wait awhile before telling him you love him. After going out a lot, being comfortable with eachother, and really getting to know him the best you can I think is the right time to tell him. I think you'll know when the best time is. It'll just feel right =]

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16/f
ok so me and my boy friend are going to make out at the movies for the first time. he said he'll put his hands like a hug and then move them up to my face,
so my question is "where do i put my hands while we're making out?"
and what are some signs that i can do to give him the idea that we should start kissing?

Okay, put your hands anywhere they're comfortable. Rub them lightly through his hair, or just hold on to him. To show him you want to kiss him, just look into his eyes and smile, then go in for it. You'll be fine =] Kissing comes natural.

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my friend for 5 years is starting to like me (yes, i have my sources) and i don't know what to do because he asked me to prom and i want to go with some one else. if i go to prom with him, i will be sacrificing my chance to go with someone i actually like, but if i don't, im a total prick...what do i tell him?

You're not doing anything wrong if you just tell him that you'd rather go with someone else, but appreciate him wanting to go with you. Everyone has to deal with rejection, so you just have to be nice about it. You should go with someone you really like, and not someone who you just felt bad for.

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Okay, i'm like soooo in love with the guy who lives next door to me. Last summer we talked sum and we told each other that we liked each other, but now, we don't talk at all. And, i still like him....ALOT!!! How do i get him to talk to me again???

Maybe he's lost interest..you should make the first move and try talking to him again. If he seems distant, then don't push it. If you try talking to him a few times and he doesn't act like he cares, then just let it go. At least he'll know you're still interested in him, and then if he wants to speak to you again, he will.

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ok i have this guy friend i have a crush on, but he doesnt know but i wait for him to get out of the class and all when we see each other we always hug like today i saw him 4 times so we hugged 4 times and when i was waiting for him to get out of the class and we hugged and he said"im tired so im gonna lean on you" and he put his arm around me what does it mean when he putted his arm around me?

I think it means he can be comfortable around you enough to touch you, and know you won't mind =] It sounds like he likes you with how much you two hug and flirt. I'd probably ask him out since you are already friends with him.

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A while ago (Nov 25th '06 to be exact...)I was at my sisters house. Shes 19, Im 14, and her boyfriend is 24. She decided that it would be super fun to get me drunk and it sounded like fun so i went along with it. And then her b/fs friend came over (call him John...) and he was nice and all. And then later when him and her bf were outside, she told me that 'John' wanted to make out with me...John was 20 years old...I was like...ew no hes old..but my sister insisted that it wasnt weird. So then later My sister and her bf went to sleep and it was just me and John...and i layed down on the couch and he was laying next to me and he asked "would it be wierd if i kissed you?" and i was like "yeah...i dont know" and he said "let me help you make up ur mind..." and he started kissing me and we started making out (im still drunk btw) and it got pretty intense and it realized how wierd it was (id never kissed, let alone made out, with anyone before...) so i got up and left. and ever since its been branded into my brain and im just haunted by it. BUT ANYWAY. Ever since, Ive been having dreams that i have older boyfriends and ive been attracted to older (18, 19, 20 y/o) guys and im just not sure what to do.

I want to forget whaat happened but i also want an older guy..is that wierd/???

Wow, that sounds like a messed up situation. That's totally illegal, but I bet you already knew that. I don't blame you for liking older guys though, most girls do. I thinky you should stay away from guys that are 18+, because it would be illegal if someone were to find out. It's okay to be with a guy around 16 though, who is still older but not old enough for it to be wrong. Just try to forget about what happend with you and that older guy, or talk to someone about it (that you can trust) if you're having problems dealing with it.

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So, i decided to ask my boyfriend of 5 months if he likes any one else. Well, at first he kinda wasnt answering me straight and then he went to get a drink at the water fountation and then hes like not really i was like its a yes or no question and he got another drink and i was like hello! answer me hes like i told you yes. When he kept saying not really. and so he told me and stuff. And i said something like why dont you go out with her then and hes like well because shes dating somebody and i was like what?? thats your only reason?? and hes like no and because shes half black and stuff but you would think he'd be like well no because i love you and stuff butt NO.

ugh.

what should i do?

Thanks

I would have broken up with him right when he said he liked another girl. He sounds like he's starting to lose interest in you, since he JUST started acting like this. I really think you should break up with him, since it's not fair to you.

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there's this guy i really like and have been pretty good friends with for more then a year... anyway, we hooked up this one time... and sence then we haven't really hung out outside of school. so because it's spring breack i asked him if he wanted to hang out, he said yes, deffinitly but then the day came for us to hang out and he canceled... but then i said we should get together the ext day instead, he said yes... but the next day came, i drove to his house and he came out and told me that he couldn't hang out again... so my question is, do you think he's avoiding me... or do you think he's just no good at keeping his word?

Sorry, but I think he's trying to mess with your head. I wouldn't call this avoiding, since he's still talking to you, but I think he's trying to hurt you. It seems like hooking up with him was a one time thing, and now he doesn't want to hang out with you because he doesn't care. Don't talk to him for awhile, and see what happens.

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Do fat people get boyfriends//girlfriends?
Cause the basic trend is dieting your butt off and you rarely see 'fatties' getting bf//gfs.
I'm pretty fat will i get a bf? I mean I hve faith I'll get married and stuff but will i get a bf who will appreciate me?

I really think that guys do look at girl's personalities along with their looks, and just because SOME overweight people don't have boyfriends, doesn't mean you won't get one either. There will be someone who finds you attractive, even if you don't think you are. I see a lot of girls that are overweight with really hot boyfriends. It really just depends on your personality and how you treat him. If you treat him well, he will appreciate you.

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okay i am super shy. i am almost sixteen and i cant seem to get a boyfriend for nothing. i just dont really know how to approch a guy. like not neccessarily a guy i know but how do i approch a guy if i am like out of state and just want to hook up and hang out. like what is a good line to start with if you are just meeting someone. help would be great.

ps. guys: what do you find attractive in a girl? like how do you like girls to act around you?

It's not a bad thing to be shy, don't worry about that. When you meet someone new, give them a big smile (guys love nice bright smiles) and introduce yourself. Say random things to start conversations, and make them laugh. I say the word 'sexy' a lot (weird right?) but it makes people laugh and makes them comfortable. Talk about things you have interest in, and if you feel like you've said something dumb, don't think about it. People don't really care if you mess up, and if they find it funny for a second, they'll forget about it later. Just be yourself.

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is it bad if im 14 that is 5ft 10???? tell hte truth

No, I don't think that's bad. There are a lot of good things about being tall. People find tall girls/women really unique, that's why so many models are around that height. I heard guys love tall girls, because of their long legs and usually thin bodies. Being your height, you'll always be remembered =]

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